you didn't use those exact words but when you start saying things like "harmful" and "justify"...you are talking about morals whether that's what you consider them or not

your stance on violence is one thing...

your stance on enabling is another...enabling cheaters is cool because it's on the cheater...enabling drug abuse is bad...wait...what's the difference again? oh yea, u said one is more harmful...laughable...bc you dont get to dictate how much harm you and your actions inflict on others...thats bullshit...stealing from a store is more harmful than cheating? sometimes...but it's not something you as the "homewrecker" has control over

you've been dancing back and forth between...it's my choice and that's that to justifying to trying to deflect the "shame" to completely sticking your foot in your mouth

cheating is harmful and involves more than one person...you can knowingly decide to not take part or you can knowingly do harm and say who gives a fuck