>it's a dirty game out there.
>some women use married men for: money, sex, sport
>everybody aint looking to settle down
>and everybody aint WORTH settling down with
>a good family friend of mines got caught cheating with his
>daughters homegirl. the homegirl GREW UP with us so she's
>known this man since she was roughly 12 years old. she cheated
>with him because she's a) a slut, b) she could, and c) he was
>desperate and willing to give her whatever she wanted. she
>didn't need his attention or his ancient sex.

Everything you said just looks like she wanted attention and wanted to feel a certain way, and he was the one to do it for her. Nobody needs any specific person, but everyone has a price they will accept and the highest bidder is the one that gets it. Nobody has to understand that but them. Money, sex, sport all equate to a false sense of power and self-denial. Not every reason sounds the same, but in more cases than not it is.

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