>you'll take whatever comes your way, however it comes your
>way.
>
>A married man doesn't have much to offer, so a woman who
>maintains a relationship with one is someone who probably
>believes that she doesn't need/want/deserve much. Regardless
>of what one believes, it requires more denial and effort to be
>with a married man than an unmarried one.
>
>You have to convince yourself that you don't need certain
>things and don't mind your existence or any actions that you
>perform out of care/love etc. being denied. You have to
>convince yourself that you're controlling the behavior,
>despite you being on his timetable.
>
>Regardless, you can't have a deceiver without someone who is
>willing to be deceived in these cases.
>
>___________________
>Emotions follow actions. To change your emotions change your
>actions. -Edwin Louis
>Waiting to feel better before doing better is going to keep
>you right where you are.