>how am i not taking responsibility for my actions?

"my general philosphy is that it is the sole responsibility of the two people that are in the marriage, to protect/honor that marriage."


>you want me to say it's wrong? yeah i can see how folks think
>it's wrong. but there are also folks that think anal sex is
>wrong. smoking weed is wrong. but people still do all that
>shit.

right here is not taking responsibility. you compared weed and anal to knowingly sleeping with a married man. we're not talking opinion, some shit is just WRONG

>i do alot of right shit. and a few wrong shit.
>that's humanity.

lol @ that's humanity. as if that excuses your role in potentially hurting someone's marriage.