>you can accept a man doing his wife dirty but you cant accept
>what happened below in your household
>
>he lied and was deceitful about money issues, we
>>had two completely different ideas about parenting,
>household
>>responsibilities, and he was an alcholic.

the combination of those things (which are much more complicated than the simplistic way in which i described them) were a dealbreaker to me. we all make our own decisions on what we will and won't put up with in a relationship.

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