Don't come at me with the " What about men?!?!" shit...

I know some of u bootleg chix in here have done it...I won't call u out but...DAMN

any woman that does...is sad.

.

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"There's a fine line between persistence and foolishness..."
-unknown

"To Each His Reach"
-George Clinton

Not saying that a lot don't choose to turn a blind eye to evidence that says he's married or in a relationship already but I can't really agree that most know. A lot of guys have a set system that seems to allow them to fuck around, work and still maintain a relationship. I mean Tiger Wood's side game needs to be studied b/c that guys had like 6 girls all on the go all over the place without any of them knowing but still maintaining close and frequent relationships. How he was able to do that for that long and still be a top golfer is beyond me.

>Not saying that a lot don't choose to turn a blind eye to
>evidence that says he's married or in a relationship already
>but I can't really agree that most know. A lot of guys have a
>set system that seems to allow them to fuck around, work and
>still maintain a relationship. I mean Tiger Wood's side game
>needs to be studied b/c that guys had like 6 girls all on the
>go all over the place without any of them knowing but still
>maintaining close and frequent relationships. How he was able
>to do that for that long and still be a top golfer is beyond
>me.

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"There's a fine line between persistence and foolishness..."
-unknown

"To Each His Reach"
-George Clinton

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http://www.flickr.com/photos/tade/

Women like dick
Wats the difference?

~!~
alors que d'autres ont trouvé l'impermanence
des châteaux de sable tout à fait décourageant,
elle éveillé la nuit
à attendre le jour où sa forme présente serait anéantie
burdenless par le flux et le reflux de la marée

Parable of the Sandcastle

lol

~!~
alors que d'autres ont trouvé l'impermanence
des châteaux de sable tout à fait décourageant,
elle éveillé la nuit
à attendre le jour où sa forme présente serait anéantie
burdenless par le flux et le reflux de la marée

Parable of the Sandcastle

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If you claim to cherish/respect the institution, why would you knowingly fuck another woman's hubby?
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"There's a fine line between persistence and foolishness..."
-unknown

"To Each His Reach"
-George Clinton

Clearly the person doesn't respect the institution of marriage if they're knowingly fucking around with a married person, but in that situation the single person doesn't have shit to lose so maybe they don't give a fuck, the married person has everything to lose.

the point about decision making still holds

...there's little to no way that ends well (prophesy: now we gonna go into all that "if the couple says its cool" schtick)

i really don't care if you or anyone else thinks i'm "sad". i play by my own rules and i have my own "code".

d

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

i'm brave in situations that call for it. and not so brave in the face of others.

but this board? please.

d
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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

>i'm brave in situations that call for it. and not so brave in
>the face of others.
>
>but this board? please.


is THE winner.....of allll replies possible....for ANYTHING

take it or leave it.

my point was that there is nothing to fear or be brave for on these boards. that it's inconsequential.

d

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

"oh well. i've done it. would probably do it again *shrug*"
In response to Reply # 0
Thu Sep-29-11 11:05 AM by Damali
i really don't care if you or anyone else thinks i'm "sad". i play by my own rules and i have my own "code".


but offline, you sing some other story of being brave in some situations and not so brave in the face of others.

huh?

go all the way brave dear.especially with a bold ass statement like that! dont let "these boards" splice your bravery in half.

you cant be online tough/offline eh uhm dang did i say that.

i'm saying when faced with scary/dangerous situations, sometimes i am brave and sometimes i'm not.

there is nothing scary/dangerous (to me) about sharing my opinions on okplayer general discussion boards, therefore, bravery is not required.

d

no?
so the fact that you put out there...also considering how you rely so much on these boards (that happen to be full of married folks)...

"and i'd probably do it again"

is more than enough info that any woman will ever need to do what they must to you should you so happen to "probably do it again" out in the real world



see how that works

like...thats such a weird thing to say.

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

i don't see any reason where i have to right to beat someone up. that's the code i live by and i give no one the right to harm me physically if i have no done so to them.

that's just basic.

d

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

if your dudes wife crowbared you in the back, are you really gonna wonder why she did that?

there is no way you are that fucking retarded

d

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

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the test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in the mind at the same time, and still retain the ability to function.

>
>but this board? please. ©Damali
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"There's a fine line between persistence and foolishness..."
-unknown

"To Each His Reach"
-George Clinton

lol that's whats up keep it real I can respect this response!

>lol that's whats up keep it real I can respect this
>response!

this scenario.....do you only mean it towards the female or both?

and its the FEMALE that gets stoned....
that goes back to the biblical days

ain't much changed

.

but oh well....some people relly dont give a fuck about anything

Like why does a man being married not present a barrier to you messign with him?

Do you care about the wifey?

Or do you just think "hey, he's the one cheating, not me..." and roll with it?
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"There's a fine line between persistence and foolishness..."
-unknown

"To Each His Reach"
-George Clinton

>Like why does a man being married not present a barrier to
>you messign with him?
>
>Do you care about the wifey?
>
>Or do you just think "hey, he's the one cheating, not me..."
>and roll with it?

my general philosphy is that it is the sole responsibility of the two people that are in the marriage, to protect/honor that marriage.

with that said, i don't purposely go after married men. generally, if i see i guy i think is cute, i check his finger. if i see a ring, i don't flirt.

however, if he approaches me, and depending on the situation (because i don't just go hang etc w/any guy that approaches me) and other factors, i might go out.

generally, i'm very picky and i actually find dating married men to be kind of annoying with all the sneaking and hiding. so it's happened less and less frequently over the years. at this point, i'd probably only do it if he could be useful to me in some other way. But I definitely never have any interest in asking or wanting them to leave their wives..like why i would i want a real relationship with him? he's a cheater.

i also don't flirt and would never sleep with the husband or boyfriend of a woman that i personally know or am friends with.

d

>i also don't flirt and would never sleep with the husband or
>boyfriend of a woman that i personally know or am friends
>with.

for example, i was the girlfriend to a married couple. so the wife not only knew but most times participated. she all the time participated in courting me.

also, they arent my vows.

plus, anyone on the outside looking in doesnt know what that husband and wife have agreed on.

i would never go into a situation hoping to get something other than sex out of it. not every woman is looking to fuck a man into being her man.

>for example, i was the girlfriend to a married couple. so
>the wife not only knew but most times participated. she all
>the time participated in courting me.
>
>also, they arent my vows.
>
>plus, anyone on the outside looking in doesnt know what that
>husband and wife have agreed on.
>
>i would never go into a situation hoping to get something
>other than sex out of it. not every woman is looking to fuck
>a man into being her man.

But this is not cheating. If the wife knows and is actively participating then all is good.

IMO, that is IN NO WAY wrong.

meaning, i dont sneak around.

>plus, anyone on the outside looking in doesnt know what that
>husband and wife have agreed on.

>not every woman is looking to fuck
>a man into being her man.

i have sympathy for the women that didnt know

but this????

that is beyond dumb

yeah you know the husband but you don't know the wife and she could be beyond crazy and to willfully put myself in the potential war path of a scorned wife? nope.. I don't care who he is


its one thing if the wife knows ..but to be ducking and diving over some d? nah not worth it at all

plus I'm way too 'community minded' for that ish

smh.....

I just really cant find the words I want to say

To each his/her own

Triflin ass nigga

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

if you were (happily) married you wouldnt shrug off him cheating

if you had a daughter, you wouldnt raise her thinking it was okay to fuck married men

no way

>if you had a daughter, you wouldnt raise her thinking it was
>okay to fuck married men

<-------- definitive proof I never would get with a white girl...


http://inner-city-griot.tumblr.com/

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Some ppl is ok wit they kids doin drugs, some is ok with them sellin drugs, and a bunch of other examples that I can't think of right now
Do I agree wt that shyt?
No
But how u gonna speak for what someone else would do?
Some ppl raise their kids (very) different.
Why does this urprise you?

>if you were (happily) married you wouldnt shrug off him
>cheating

no i wouldn't shrug it off. we'd have a problem. but the difference is, i wouldn't be angry at the other person...i'd be angry at him...cuz it's his responsibility, and his alone, to honor our agreement (whatever it is) then we would need to address the reasons.

mind you, it would be very strange for my husband to cheat on me because i'm so open about sex. i'm the kind of wife that you could talk to, in bed, during sex about how you wanna dick down the honey in the office next to yours, and i'd want you to tell me how you think her pussy would taste.

then i might even let you get some, once, if i could watch.


>if you had a daughter, you wouldnt raise her thinking it was
>okay to fuck married men

of course not. i wouldn't promote it at all. just like i was a stripper but would never encourage another woman to do it. i'd discourage them. but if my daughter chose it anyway, i wouldn't judge her.

clearly, you have a problem accepting that other people can and do think differently than you.

d



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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

>>if you were (happily) married you wouldnt shrug off him
>>cheating
>
>no i wouldn't shrug it off. we'd have a problem. but the
>difference is, i wouldn't be angry at the other person...i'd
>be angry at him. then we would need to address the reasons.
>
>mind you, it would be very strange for my husband to cheat on
>me because i'm so open about sex. i'm the kind of wife that
>you could talk to, in bed, during sex about how you wanna dick
>down the honey in the office next to yours, and i'd want you
>to tell me how you think her pussy would taste.
>
>then i might even let you get some, once, if i could watch

Why you think he would ask?

because that would be part of our 'marriage contract'. marriage is what the individual couple makes it...

any guy who is unique enough to deal with, love, get to know and want to marry someone as unusual as I am, would be totally down with this program and most likely wouldn't feel the need to cheat.

it's my theory that in general, people enjoy doing what they aren't allowed to do.

d
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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

http://youtu.be/8GQxL5z5yic

I get the feeling you don't understand men too good (no dis, for real)

that was a really good album...i need to find it.

i'm just not looking for 'most men'.

i'm looking for the outliers. the ones that are NOT like most men. because i'm not like most women. so all the stereotypes don't apply to me. and most likely, they don't apply to him either.

and pretty much every boyfriend i've had has been an outlier in some way...including the one i'm seeing now. He knows the way i think and feel about things and (so far) accepts me for who i am. But i'm also very prepared for, and ok with, the fact that i may not ever find that true 'needle in a haystack'.

thankfully, my happiness does not depend on that.

d

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

LOL since we posting songs n shit

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h8l1VevRFT4

at 2:26...shoo be do be doo LOL

So I'm leeh et ting YOU goooooo, letting you gooo oooh

>because that would be part of our 'marriage contract'.
>marriage is what the individual couple makes it...
>
>any guy who is unique enough to deal with, love, get to know
>and want to marry someone as unusual as I am, would be totally
>down with this program and most likely wouldn't feel the need
>to cheat.
>
>it's my theory that in general, people enjoy doing what they
>aren't allowed to do.

What if he wanna fuck more than once?
What if he wanna fuck a woman and you disagree?
being more open wit your relationship, isn't gonna necessarily make him more honest

> being more open wit your relationship, isn't gonna
>necessarily make him more honest

if he's not that kind of person, i doubt we'd ever be married. it's very clear when people are honest and when they are not.

>What if he wanna fuck more than once?
>What if he wanna fuck a woman and you disagree?

all of those things would be discussed. who knows how or where the discussion would go?

d


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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

I'm just sayin if its in a nyggas nature to lie, he gon do it
Everything else don't matter
Open or cosed relationship

i trust my intuition enough to know who to avoid.

d
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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

>clearly, you have a problem accepting that other people can
>and do think differently than you.
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u winnin with the troubleshootin hun....

>mind you, it would be very strange for my husband to cheat on
>me because i'm so open about sex. i'm the kind of wife that
>you could talk to, in bed, during sex about how you wanna dick
>down the honey in the office next to yours, and i'd want you
>to tell me how you think her pussy would taste.
>
>then i might even let you get some, once, if i could watch.


Not that it's really important, but I just felt the need to point that out.

i've been married and my husband felt no need to cheat. i literally brought pussy home, at times. it wasn't all the time, but he knew that if he really needed some new-new, we could talk about it and he didn't have to lie.

our marriage ended for reasons that had nothing at all to do with sex....he lied and was deceitful about money issues, we had two completely different ideas about parenting, household responsibilities, and he was an alcholic.

shit, people put sex on a pedestal too much in marriage. there are far more important things.

d

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

You seem to imply that it is simply the desire to have sex with other women that drives a man into the arms of another woman, and if that desire is sated in a safe in a legitimate way then the threat of cheating is neutralized.

But really... there are a LOT of other reasons--emotional and otherwise--why men cheat.

Your seeming need to micromanage the "outside" sex sounds like enough reason to make a man want to go rogue.

>You seem to imply that it is simply the desire to have sex
>with other women that drives a man into the arms of another
>woman, and if that desire is sated in a safe in a legitimate
>way then the threat of cheating is neutralized.
>
>But really... there are a LOT of other reasons--emotional and
>otherwise--why men cheat.
>
>Your seeming need to micromanage the "outside" sex sounds like
>enough reason to make a man want to go rogue.

no no no. you're still missing the point of what i'm saying. which is partly my fault because it's difficult to explain and i'm clearly not doing a good enough job. so i'll try again.

this is not some formula where I try to figure out what will keep my man from cheating, and then implement it.

this is about trust. I approach my romantic relationships with a sense of openmindedness and willingness to discuss/negotiate anything. most men that date me find that quite refreshing. it often even takes them time to really wrap their mind around what that means...that they truly have the support of someone who won't judge them for having a different idea of something...that they can truly be themselves and not have someone tell them what they need to be doing or not doing, or imposing rules...that we both can say honestly what our needs/expectations are and other person has the space to say what they can or can't deal with...etc

so my general point is that when you create that kind of love, trust, support and opennenss in a relationship, it creates an overall dynamic where deception, of any kind is less likely to happen...which includes cheating.

is it foolproof? no. so then let's say he does cheat, or more accurately, dishonor whatever we both agreed to, and i find out? then we deal with that...through discussions, therapy or what have you. i try to find out if our agreement no longer is working for him and what are his issues? why did he lie? maybe i'm just no longer what he wants or whatever..you just try to work through it.

is that more clear?

d


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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

you can accept a man doing his wife dirty but you cant accept what happened below in your household

he lied and was deceitful about money issues, we
>had two completely different ideas about parenting, household
>responsibilities, and he was an alcholic.

clearly, you have a problem accepting that other people can and do think differently than you - what you just said to me

rules when it comes to sex

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

>you can accept a man doing his wife dirty but you cant accept
>what happened below in your household
>
>he lied and was deceitful about money issues, we
>>had two completely different ideas about parenting,
>household
>>responsibilities, and he was an alcholic.

the combination of those things (which are much more complicated than the simplistic way in which i described them) were a dealbreaker to me. we all make our own decisions on what we will and won't put up with in a relationship.

d

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

and YES I can play that card if I had to watch a dumb ass discussion about "why do you watch porn/go to strip clubs if it isnt okay for your daughter to do that?" the other week

i'd tell him that if you can't do that, you should be honest and tell her that, so then she can have the choice to stay with you or leave.

but all of this has nothing to do with my point: it's that i don't have an agreement with any married couple to honor THEIR marriage. that's their job.

d

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

that's pretty straight forward.

so what is it that you'd like me to say to make you satisfied right now?

are you out to prove that i'm morally bankrupt? you already think so, clearly. so do others. and there are others that do not.

now what? i mean really. it is what it is...i cant clarify any further.

d
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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

dont be the one laying on your back for him....

if its gonna be another chick then let it be another chick....y u GOTTA be the one to willing....

like there's really any grey area here

I can GUARANTEE hella woman posters and lurkers are reading this and calling you all kinds of names in their heads but they wont come out to tear another one of their own down. But of course "you dont care" because it absolves you of having a conscience and taking responsibility for your actions

you know how much shit people would try to excuse with "you have a problem with people thinking different than you" if that made sense? cheating, paying bills, domestic abuse, drug abuse. "you have a problem with people thinking different than you do" nah, sometimes shit is just out of bounds.

lol @ you having a problem with your husband cheating and not the woman who knowingly participated

feminism ftw I guess

>I can GUARANTEE hella woman posters and lurkers are reading
>this and calling you all kinds of names in their heads but
>they wont come out to tear another one of their own down.

it's fine if they do. they are entitled to their opinion.

But
>of course "you dont care" because it absolves you of having a
>conscience and taking responsibility for your actions

how am i not taking responsibility for my actions? i said i did it and prolly would again. lol i mean how much more responsibility should i take?

you want me to say it's wrong? yeah i can see how folks think it's wrong. but there are also folks that think anal sex is wrong. smoking weed is wrong. but people still do all that shit.

i do alot of right shit. and a few wrong shit.

that's humanity.

d


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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

>how am i not taking responsibility for my actions?

"my general philosphy is that it is the sole responsibility of the two people that are in the marriage, to protect/honor that marriage."


>you want me to say it's wrong? yeah i can see how folks think
>it's wrong. but there are also folks that think anal sex is
>wrong. smoking weed is wrong. but people still do all that
>shit.

right here is not taking responsibility. you compared weed and anal to knowingly sleeping with a married man. we're not talking opinion, some shit is just WRONG

>i do alot of right shit. and a few wrong shit.
>that's humanity.

lol @ that's humanity. as if that excuses your role in potentially hurting someone's marriage.

you saying a lot but you're not really addressing what he said

you jumping out there and saying that you do it before anyone else can isn't really taking responsibility...

you remove the responsibility from all of this shit when you add in the nonchalant attitude and all the "oh i don't care i live by my own rules" yadda yadda yadda

all while totally ignoring that you may be hurting other people etc etc etc

you are ok with potentially hurting others and you don't care and that's fine. But don't try to make it seem like it's this beautiful liberating thing. That right there i can't clap to...and i'm sure you're gonna say you don't care which is whatever as well

i always wonder why you even bother to say shit in these kinda posts

i mean you don't care...u know that it's gonna do nothing but have people throwing all kinds of shade your way...you live your life and don't need anything from this place especially if it's "judgement" so why bother? Who exactly are you trying to convince and if it's nobody then why?

i don't get that shit at all.


>
>>I can GUARANTEE hella woman posters and lurkers are reading
>>this and calling you all kinds of names in their heads but
>>they wont come out to tear another one of their own down.
>
>it's fine if they do. they are entitled to their opinion.
>
> But
>>of course "you dont care" because it absolves you of having
>a
>>conscience and taking responsibility for your actions
>
>how am i not taking responsibility for my actions? i said i
>did it and prolly would again. lol i mean how much more
>responsibility should i take?
>
>you want me to say it's wrong? yeah i can see how folks think
>it's wrong. but there are also folks that think anal sex is
>wrong. smoking weed is wrong. but people still do all that
>shit.
>
>i do alot of right shit. and a few wrong shit.
>
>that's humanity.
>
>d
>
>
>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
>"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of
>arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But
>rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn
>out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark
>Frost

>you remove the responsibility from all of this shit when you
>add in the nonchalant attitude and all the "oh i don't care i
>live by my own rules" yadda yadda yadda
>
>all while totally ignoring that you may be hurting other
>people etc etc etc

but that's the thing. if the wife is hurt by his actions, it's his fault, not mine. that's how i see it. now if to you, that's me not taking responsibility, then so be it. but it works the other way too. if my husband cheated, i wouldn't blame that woman at all. i'd blame him. i expect him to take the responsibility.

we are all adult and are responsible for when we break promises to people. i have not made any promises to any married couples.


>you are ok with potentially hurting others and you don't care
>and that's fine. But don't try to make it seem like it's this
>beautiful liberating thing. That right there i can't clap
>to...and i'm sure you're gonna say you don't care which is
>whatever as well

i did not try to say that my way is liberating. i'm simply saying its my way. end of story.

>i always wonder why you even bother to say shit in these kinda
>posts

why does anyone respond to any post? because they feel like it.

people respond in confession wednesday (and other posts) with all KINDS of personal, gut wrenching angst and honest real life issues.

so why is it concerning that I respond to a post with my honest opinion on something? just cuz you don't agree? is it weird that other people responded to this post with their honest opinion? lol

ask yourself the same question next time you respond to something with a personal anecdote.

d

>but that's the thing. if the wife is hurt by his actions, it's
>his fault, not mine. that's how i see it. now if to you,
>that's me not taking responsibility, then so be it.

i mean really.
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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

back knowing it can hurt someone else and dont give a fuck is the kinda bitch i like to fuck up and not give a fuck....

this shit is so amazing to me especially at our age....

when folks are young and just make young selfish mistakes....im like AIGHT...i guess so....

but when folks are GROWN....creating and raising life beyond their own...FOH with that shit.....these are the things that as women have become OKAY....I cant clap to that and i know she dont care but........*frowns*

if my husband cheated HELL YES im mad at him......im also mad at the dumb bitch that KNOWINGLY participated......cause that shit is just WRONG.....damn is it that hard to find a man to fuck you....IS IT REALLY THAT HARD.....that women just dont give a fuck if they HELP tear a marriage to pieces......then shrug they shoulders on some....

*shit i aint make no promises to them...with them....or for them*

its all good until their husband cheats brings home aids or some shit OR gives it to the person he is cheating with bitches wont be shruggin bout that HIV diagnosis tho

so many things I wanna say in this post but i know if i continue ill be on some borderline disrespectful shit and that aint necessary.....i just feel that women that think and feel that way are trife.....disgusting....get ya pussy...matterfact ya whole entire self off the clearance rack.....get ya mind right

>lol i mean how much more
>responsibility should i take?



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but shes jumping back and forth on it
but its pretty clear to a certain extent
once you know while you did not make a promise
you are volunteering to enable another to violate theirs

the next excuse is usually
if it wasn't me it would be someone else
*waits*
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>if you had a daughter, you wouldnt raise her thinking it was
>okay to fuck married men

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there's mild flirting at times but neither of us are interested in pursuing anything more. we enjoy each other's company and conversations at lunch occasionally and i love hearing about insider NFL stuff.

and he's a very useful friend at that...he got me a meeting a woman at the NFL and i'm hoping it will turn into a job.

d


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you are part of whats wrong with people in the world... You act like your actions have nothing to do with it and it's all on the men... You help ruin families and cause problems for more people than you know...

That's a damn shame.

with the vows. However, I do question women who knowingly deal with married men. Even if he says he is separated....no.

had a guy tell me he was separated but he hadn't moved out yet.

he might as well had taken his last breath after he told me that because in my mind he died that day

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alors que d'autres ont trouvé l'impermanence
des châteaux de sable tout à fait décourageant,
elle éveillé la nuit
à attendre le jour où sa forme présente serait anéantie
burdenless par le flux et le reflux de la marée

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and that includes those that hover around waiting for relationships to die (both men and women). Give them negroes time to work it out (if they can work it out). lol

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alors que d'autres ont trouvé l'impermanence
des châteaux de sable tout à fait décourageant,
elle éveillé la nuit
à attendre le jour où sa forme présente serait anéantie
burdenless par le flux et le reflux de la marée

Parable of the Sandcastle

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“Damn, man, where you goin’ wit all dat shit?”

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married men's wives do know and dont give a shit.

theses mistresses/girlfriends aint tryin to replace the wife. they know they role and play it.

if the wife knows her husband has outside relationships and looks the other way or shit supports it.....who's really sad?


ya'll folks forget that everyone is different, including the dynamics of how relationships works b/w folks.

and with the male to female ratio it all works out in the end

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>

i mean i did..

but i didn't.

me and lazyboi was having a convo bout it and WAHLAAH.

I mean do whatever you want with your life but there's nothing right about it
unless you know the wife is cool with it
in which case I don't consider it cheating
but if you dipping and duckin with a married nigga
you are guilty

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alors que d'autres ont trouvé l'impermanence
des châteaux de sable tout à fait décourageant,
elle éveillé la nuit
à attendre le jour où sa forme présente serait anéantie
burdenless par le flux et le reflux de la marée

Parable of the Sandcastle

i'm not looking for, nor do i feel i deserve any kind of praise for it. but i also happen to feel that i don't deserve scorn either.

but it's ok to disagree on that. :)

d

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bein wrong brings. ok.

but yea...i don't get that either..

smh

i can only imagine how much fuked up shyt shes capable of doing if shes able to justify foul ass shyt by saying 'i live by my own code' and i 'think differently'

shyts pathetic

worst than those 'omly god can judge me' type nyggas who use that shyt to justify fuked up shyt they in to


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amazing
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:/

damb..


how do i shake this bytch


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you still smell like the shit you post
*shrugs*
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interesting..
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Folks,
When a piece of shit says they dont smell bad?
Dont believe SeV

GI JOOOOOOEEEEEEEE
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shit still talkin
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Post going hammerrrrr

if i had a problem with it, i wouldn't have responded to this post at all.

you are all entitled to your opinions. i'm still gonna be me. if anything i do gets me in some sort of trouble, then it's on me to take whatever lesson i need from that (or not). i take responsibility for my own actions.

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you just said you feel you don't deserve scorn for your actions.

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the i dont cares, i'll do it again

and shrugging

people just wanna protect/fight for whats theirs..and here you are, like a blasted old crow.

i have no interest in the boyfriends or husbands of anyone in this "communal place"

i just don't agree that an outside person bears any responsibility for what happens in a marriage...men/women in a marriage make their own decisions about what they do willingly. they are responsible for that.

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this is the part where taking responsibility for your actions comes in btw

once you knowingly enable a person yes it becomes a shared responsibility

the only way to be completely absolved of that responsibility is to not be involved at all


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>once you knowingly enable a person yes it becomes a shared
>responsibility

1. I don't see it as harmful as other folks do. would i help or enable someone in doing coke/heroin or killing someone or steal from a store? absolutely not. i'd want no part of any of those things.

>the only way to be completely absolved of that responsibility
>is to not be involved at all

2. yes, that is true. but then i'd have to refer back to #1.

d

>
>>once you knowingly enable a person yes it becomes a shared
>>responsibility
>
>1. I don't see it as harmful as other folks do. would i help
>or enable someone in doing coke/heroin or killing someone or
>steal from a store? absolutely not. i'd want no part of any of
>those things.


if you are not the one being harmed its probably best to not assume the level of damage you inflict with your actions


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that is not how owning up to your actions works
the scorn goes with it
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A family member of mine was dating this older man. Never been in his house....RED FLAG!

He always spent the night at her place and when they went somewhere together, it was always some kind of trip out of town...RED FLAG!

Then she finds out she's pregnant. My family members told her something was up with this man. She didn't want to believe it. Before she gives birth, she finds out he's married with a kid.

That's the backstory...

Now, it's years later and she's back with him. He's says he's only with his wife until his child goes off to college, then he's going to be with her. And she's believing that ish. I want to smack her! But then she pulls that no good man crap,and how I'm lucky stuff, and she feels like at least she knows what he will do. I love her, but she's an idiot with no respect for herself or others marriage.

their bullshit?

and how'd the lady get branded with the term "homewrecker?" anyway? LOL

another okie doke fell for.

you can keep pushing that "men shld get all the pussy they want" agenda if you want.

a woman can not make you repeatedly thrust your penis into her vagina to the point of orgasm. you kinda have to do most of the work (as i hear some complain about) and then you have to keep up a lie for however long.

it's called "discipline."

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who is "you"?

i dont condone someone cheating on their partner

but i also dont absolve someone who has no qualms about being party to cheating

its the "hetero" bait you're casting that is the fuckery

whatever tho...get your troll on bruh

the fuckery came in the og post.

but this?

>you kinda have to do most of
>the work

that's the bad sexxing. we all gotta work out and get worked the fuck out.

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imho

some shit got to be low if you think so

but yall trying. Yall trying.

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then i said i was gon post somethin bout the convo...

he said yall was gon kill me like yall did him when he posted "It's not that hard not to cheat on your spouse" or someshit

i said they aint killin ME....
he musta not knewn who i'm is

THIS MIKE(C)Kisszion

so i gotta get the 6 inch footlong ass hoes.

ol "i don't wanna cultivate potential in a man, i'll just wait till he's realized it then i'll suck his dick" ass boppers.

ya'll should be shamed of yourselves. SHAMED.

but don't wanna fuck with a single man cuz he might be single due to lameness...whatver ho i hope his wife cracks a snowglobe over yo fuckin dome.

shit is digusting!

and i stay crushing on one, on and off line, but yeah i'd never go there.

Oooor are they married because they're bomb?? Hmmmmmmmmm

you'll take whatever comes your way, however it comes your way.

A married man doesn't have much to offer, so a woman who maintains a relationship with one is someone who probably believes that she doesn't need/want/deserve much. Regardless of what one believes, it requires more denial and effort to be with a married man than an unmarried one.

You have to convince yourself that you don't need certain things and don't mind your existence or any actions that you perform out of care/love etc. being denied. You have to convince yourself that you're controlling the behavior, despite you being on his timetable.

Regardless, you can't have a deceiver without someone who is willing to be deceived in these cases.

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Waiting to feel better before doing better is going to keep you right where you are.

>you'll take whatever comes your way, however it comes your
>way.
>
>A married man doesn't have much to offer, so a woman who
>maintains a relationship with one is someone who probably
>believes that she doesn't need/want/deserve much. Regardless
>of what one believes, it requires more denial and effort to be
>with a married man than an unmarried one.
>
>You have to convince yourself that you don't need certain
>things and don't mind your existence or any actions that you
>perform out of care/love etc. being denied. You have to
>convince yourself that you're controlling the behavior,
>despite you being on his timetable.
>
>Regardless, you can't have a deceiver without someone who is
>willing to be deceived in these cases.
>
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>actions. -Edwin Louis
>Waiting to feel better before doing better is going to keep
>you right where you are.

that's realer than real right there.

lol

lmao...shut up.

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it's a dirty game out there.
some women use married men for: money, sex, sport
everybody aint looking to settle down
and everybody aint WORTH settling down with
a good family friend of mines got caught cheating with his daughters homegirl. the homegirl GREW UP with us so she's known this man since she was roughly 12 years old. she cheated with him because she's a) a slut, b) she could, and c) he was desperate and willing to give her whatever she wanted. she didn't need his attention or his ancient sex.

>it's a dirty game out there.
>some women use married men for: money, sex, sport
>everybody aint looking to settle down
>and everybody aint WORTH settling down with
>a good family friend of mines got caught cheating with his
>daughters homegirl. the homegirl GREW UP with us so she's
>known this man since she was roughly 12 years old. she cheated
>with him because she's a) a slut, b) she could, and c) he was
>desperate and willing to give her whatever she wanted. she
>didn't need his attention or his ancient sex.

Everything you said just looks like she wanted attention and wanted to feel a certain way, and he was the one to do it for her. Nobody needs any specific person, but everyone has a price they will accept and the highest bidder is the one that gets it. Nobody has to understand that but them. Money, sex, sport all equate to a false sense of power and self-denial. Not every reason sounds the same, but in more cases than not it is.

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I've spoken to both of them about this, once the dust settled and his marriage ended, and she definitely didn't need the attention or want him for herself. she was juggling quite a few men at the time (still is, I believe) so she had plenty of attention. she was young and cute. and as a married man, he really didn't have much time to give, what w/ his wife and family and all. HE was the one seeking attention from a younger woman his daughters age. She saw that weakness in him and she capitalized. it's really a no brainer.

youre making a blanket statement as a married woman. unless you, yourself know what it's like to be the other woman and you're speaking from your own experience.
put some responsibility on the cheater, marla.

>Everything you said just looks like she wanted attention and
>wanted to feel a certain way, and he was the one to do it for
>her. Nobody needs any specific person, but everyone has a
>price they will accept and the highest bidder is the one that
>gets it. Nobody has to understand that but them. Money, sex,
>sport all equate to a false sense of power and self-denial.
>Not every reason sounds the same, but in more cases than not
>it is.
>
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>actions. -Edwin Louis
>Waiting to feel better before doing better is going to keep
>you right where you are.

>I've spoken to both of them about this, once the dust settled
>and his marriage ended, and she definitely didn't need the
>attention or want him for herself. she was juggling quite a
>few men at the time (still is, I believe) so she had plenty of
>attention. she was young and cute. and as a married man, he
>really didn't have much time to give, what w/ his wife and
>family and all. HE was the one seeking attention from a
>younger woman his daughters age. She saw that weakness in him
>and she capitalized. it's really a no brainer.
>
>youre making a blanket statement as a married woman. unless
>you, yourself know what it's like to be the other woman and
>you're speaking from your own experience.
>put some responsibility on the cheater, marla.

I'm not speaking as a married woman. I'm speaking as Marla, but I happen to be married. I didn't say that he wasn't responsible, i stuck to the post topic which was about the women. Just because you spoke to someone about their reasons doesn't mean that they disclosed them completely or that they even know the full extent of them. However just because she didn't NEED it doesn't mean that she didn't get something from it. Just because she had others doesn't mean that she didn't want more. All that still just looks like she wanted and enjoyed the attention, and in her case the more the better.

like to fuck? or just want money? i mean, there are prostitutes out there. are they ALL ho'ing because they want attention? are you a psychiatrist?

An apple is an apple is an apple, subtle nuances aside, it's an apple.
You're trying to make the case for an apple to be a pluot or some other exotic manufactured fruit.

If they just want sex and money, there are plenty of unmarried men who are willing to give it. The married man has the added drama of him being married.

not at all.

hoes wanting money dont really discriminate on how they get it or who they get it from.

Status = attention

It doesn't matter if it's bills, coins, shells or livestock. It's still going to amount to status and/or security. Even the whole idea that someone has the faux-power to make someone do something is unsmart thinking. She may "think" she's getting over, but she's not because she's still on his timetable and she believes she's manipulating him to do something that he's already decided that he's willing to do.

No woman, no woman's nether regions or any person's mass powers of persuasion and manipulation will make someone do something that they don't want to do, period. You can't convince someone to do something that they haven't already convinced themselves to do. You can't make someone think something about themselves that they aren't willing to believe, no matter how many times you attempt it. It's always fun to think that one is the leader and in charge of something though. Whatever makes them feel better. People aren't as different as they would like to believe they are.

Everyone wants to believe that they have the best spaghetti recipe, but it's still spaghetti.

I'm not trying to change your mind, i just enjoy seeing what I have to say.

>hoes wanting money dont really discriminate on how they get
>it or who they get it from.

>Everything you said just looks like she wanted attention and
>wanted to feel a certain way, and he was the one to do it for
>her. Nobody needs any specific person, but everyone has a
>price they will accept and the highest bidder is the one that
>gets it. Nobody has to understand that but them. Money, sex,
>sport all equate to a false sense of power and self-denial.
>Not every reason sounds the same, but in more cases than not
>it is.

seeing a married man.

I told her that she was too beautiful
and had to much to offer someone of
high character to have to share a
man.

but, he was kinda a celebrity and she's
a groupie.

one day, his wife called him on his cell
phone while he and my friend were together.
he put his finger up to his mouth to tell
my friend to "shhh" while he took the call from his wife.

after that she finally realized what position
she had put herself in. I guess it must have
made her feel like shyt.

I'll tell u one thing tho, there are always
some issues with anyone who would
do something like that. she mos def had/has issues.

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nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

i coulda swore that woulda been used by now.
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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

If you're a mistress, be a mistress and know what it means. Don't get mad because you're not being given something outside of the scope of "mistress". I'm in favor of people owning their choices and not trying to create something from them that doesn't exist.

A mistress is there to fill a role that the man perceives his wife unable or unwilling to fill. Not the other way around. In essence, the wife is the book, the mistress is the bookmark. He's far more likely to change bookmarks than he is to change books. Some mistresses feel like they're the book and the wife is the bookmark. In reality he may change books, but it's rare that he's going to upgrade the bookmark to book status.

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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

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not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

i asked my homegirl why she fucks wit married dudes.
she was like
'well at least i know hes capable of commitment'.

made sense.

>i asked my homegirl why she fucks wit married dudes.
>she was like
>'well at least i know hes capable of commitment'.
>
>made sense.

Since 1976

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with somebody"

The one who took those vows. The unmarried party didn't make anyone any promises.

temptation. if you take some vows under God and the law thinking you can cheat and get away with it unscathed, you're the dummy and the one with the most to lose. now, on the other hand, if the woman helping you cheat is doing it because she wants you for herself, then she's just as big a fool, playing herself.
i find it odd that some folks in this post aint willing to admit that there are women whos primary concern is money/sex and not love/attention.

all women/men who knowingly have affairs w/ married spouses are trying to take the spouse away from the other spouse. that's not always the case.
those who have dated married men, knowingly know that they needed/wanted/desired xyz from said spouse, yet they sent them back home.
they really dont have a clue what's going on in that marriage nor do they care to. it's not their concern, all they care is right now.

now there are those who intentionally seek married spouses to break up a home....that i cant clap to.

.

The cosigns & "whatevs" replies or the folks in here trying to get folks in there who are cool with/accepting of their choice no matter how you think of it to change their minds.

Let people cook, man. Let them die or not die in their own iniquity. Niggas writing exit thesis papers to try to make folks see each other's points.

applauding the fact that she lives for herSELF
and don't give a damn about what others think...

it's ALOTTA self righteousness in THIS post...but some forget that before they married...or changed whatEVER status they are rockin now...they did some SHIT too..

it may not have been cheatin...but it was SOMETHING that alotta ppl prolly wouldn't rock with...

so Damali stands UP and says..."shit...hell YEA I did it"....instead of being the messy one behind the boards doin it in private.....and that makes her not worthy of being somebody's FRIEND......really??

yea...ALOTTA platinum pissin goin on here....

but if it was a CHRISTIAN post....it would be one of US who is always judgin....


and wow.....

*I* said all the rest

i ain't gotta repeat to reply.....been round here too long for that

hanh?!

my friends know that i'm straightforward and honest with them and I don't betray them.

d

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

I WAS JUST SHOWING MY FRIENDS HUSBAND HOW TO FUCK HER BETTER BECAUSE SHE WAS FEELING UNSATISFIED!


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it's ALOTTA self righteousness in Christian activity...but some forget
that before they converted...or changed whatEVER status they are
rockin now...they did some SHIT too.. in fact, some are STILL having sex out of wedlock, divorcing their wives, cheating on their taxes.

it may not have been those things...but it was/is SOMETHING that
alotta ppl prolly wouldn't rock with...

so we have OKPs in here standing UP and saying..."shit...hell YEA I this is how I live....instead of being the messy one behind the boards doin it in private.....and that makes demons or hell bound ......really??

yea...ALOTTA platinum pissin goin on there....

but if it was a post like this....it would be one of them shaking their heads at the judgin....


and wow.....
>
>

is because u hide behind alot of scriptures and ALOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTA words to usually say NUTHING yet come and post up to please the masses JUST for the fact that u'd *look* like SUPER Jesus Christ Superstar with an S on your chest to root against the evil Christians that still stand up and say NO....I don't approve of such and such... so YES....
the VERY same ones who point and are stoning Damali...and the ones who say WE are judging all the time.....

hell, they judge US IN Christian posts.....

i guess we CAN agree on something.....one day....

then again...if we don't...it's still fine


>
>it's ALOTTA self righteousness in Christian activity...but
>some forget
>that before they converted...or changed whatEVER status they
>are
>rockin now...they did some SHIT too.. in fact, some are STILL
>having sex out of wedlock, divorcing their wives, cheating on
>their taxes.
>
>it may not have been those things...but it was/is SOMETHING
>that
>alotta ppl prolly wouldn't rock with...
>
>so we have OKPs in here standing UP and saying..."shit...hell
>YEA I this is how I live....instead of being the messy one
>behind the boards doin it in private.....and that makes demons
>or hell bound ......really??
>
>yea...ALOTTA platinum pissin goin on there....
>
>but if it was a post like this....it would be one of them
>shaking their heads at the judgin....
>
>
>and wow.....
>>
>>
>

>
>is because u hide behind alot of scriptures and
>ALOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTA words to usually say NUTHING yet come
>and post up to please the masses JUST for the fact that u'd
>*look* like SUPER Jesus Christ Superstar with an S on your
>chest to root against the evil Christians that still stand up
>and say NO....I don't approve of such and such... so YES....
>the VERY same ones who point and are stoning Damali...and the
>ones who say WE are judging all the time.....

I don't approve of plenty. It's just that what I don't approve of doesn't agree with you. So it seems you have a problem.

Look like SUPER Jesus Christ Superstar? Clearly you haven't read my posts.

"I make no effort to call myself anything other than a sinful Christian."

"I am less than the least in heaven, I have no-where further to fall."

http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=10615022&mesg_id=10615022&listing_type=search#10617473

This is just the one I can remember well enough to quote.

While we're talking a whole lotta words, it's funny how you talk down about that and scripture. The Bible is plenty wordy, maybe you think you can condense the lessons down to something pithy. Me? I've sat through too many two hour sermons to take a shot at my 400 word posts seriously from another Christian. Precept upon precept, line upon line.

And as for me talking about nothing... well, you co-signed Burbknight when he said he couldn't understand what I post about normally. So you can't understand what I'm posting about, yet somehow understand it's nothing. Yet plenty of Christians around here understand me just fine.



>
>hell, they judge US IN Christian posts.....

They point out hypocrisy and where we don't make sense. They don't try to tell us we're heading for some eternal punishment or that we're demons for being who we are. There's a big difference.

Bottom line, a lot of judgmental Christians can't take as good as they give without crying about it.

>"I make no effort to call myself anything other than a sinful
>Christian."
*** awwwww humble pie....yea....u reel them in with this shit first.....typical....

but if u want me to take u seriously, literally, we, who are Christians, all are......and?

>
>"I am less than the least in heaven, I have no-where further
>to fall."

*** uh hunh...apply last reply here....


>>While we're talking a whole lotta words, it's funny how you
>talk down about that and scripture.

** I've NEVER talked down about scripture....get it right
i simply think of u as a wordy replier....among others that i don't waste time to read...

The Bible is plenty wordy,
** Yes it is.....

>maybe you think you can condense the lessons down to something
>pithy.
** many who REALLY know it...APPLY it...and not spend alotta time twisting it to pet others do.....and can....very well...

NEXT...


Me? I've sat through too many two hour sermons to take
>a shot at my 400 word posts seriously from another Christian.
>Precept upon precept, line upon line.

**cool....thas u.....have fun


>And as for me talking about nothing... well, you co-signed
>Burbknight when he said he couldn't understand what I post
>about normally. So you can't understand what I'm posting
>about, yet somehow understand it's nothing. Yet plenty of
>Christians around here understand me just fine.

**it's not a mode of comprehension....it's a fabric of communication u use that i've never been a fan of. to read and scroll and scroll soooooooooooo much u type JUST for YOU to HOORAH the multitude that would choose Barabbas?? Really? U spend most of your time tearing DOWN kingdom work and show the world how divided Christianity is..but falling for and supporting *anything*...instead of sticking up for something. U'r great at saying what's WRONG with us instead of what's right.....so they love u....
and?? some of *those* "Christians" would have chosen Barabbas too....


>
>>hell, they judge US IN Christian posts.....
>
>They point out hypocrisy and where we don't make sense.

**and i point out the counter. U don't think it's hypocratic for somebody to JUDGE me.....based on how I choose to follow MY faith and live MY life?

yea...but whatever....



They
>don't try to tell us we're heading for some eternal punishment
>or that we're demons for being who we are. There's a big
>difference.

** aye...I never said it either....I've always said...I have NO Heaven nor Hell to place ANYbody in....i state my faith and move on
FINAL judegment is for the MAKER......in which I'll NEVER be



>
>Bottom line, a lot of judgmental Christians can't take as good
>as they give without crying about it.


YOU
ARE
ABSOLUTELY
RIGHT
Superstar....


I'm GOOD....

>>"I make no effort to call myself anything other than a
>sinful
>>Christian."
>*** awwwww humble pie....yea....u reel them in with this shit
>first.....typical....

Right, because arrogant pie with the whole, oh you don't know the sacrifice I've been through to be a Christian is so much better.

>
>but if u want me to take u seriously, literally, we, who are
>Christians, all are......and?

And how do these comments support your whole I'm claiming to be Super Jesus line? Instead of going for the strawman, try addressing the point.

>
>>
>>"I am less than the least in heaven, I have no-where further
>>to fall."
>
>*** uh hunh...apply last reply here....
>
>
>>>While we're talking a whole lotta words, it's funny how you
>>talk down about that and scripture.
>
>** I've NEVER talked down about scripture....get it right
>i simply think of u as a wordy replier....among others that i
>don't waste time to read...

Right, that's why you accused me of hiding behind scripture like that was a bad thing.

>
>The Bible is plenty wordy,
>** Yes it is.....
>
>>maybe you think you can condense the lessons down to
>something
>>pithy.
>** many who REALLY know it...APPLY it...and not spend alotta
>time twisting it to pet others do.....and can....very well...

Yeah, that doesn't address what I was saying at all. Many Christians don't apply it in full because... well, we're all sinful, so that point's moot and does nothing to address your accusation that I'm wordy, as if that's a crime in itself even though you subscribe to a faith whose foundation is far wordier than anything I've ever come up with.

>
>
>Me? I've sat through too many two hour sermons to take
>>a shot at my 400 word posts seriously from another
>Christian.
>>Precept upon precept, line upon line.
>
>**cool....thas u.....have fun

Yeah, I didn't think that scripture is one you'd have much time for.

>
>
>>And as for me talking about nothing... well, you co-signed
>>Burbknight when he said he couldn't understand what I post
>>about normally. So you can't understand what I'm posting
>>about, yet somehow understand it's nothing. Yet plenty of
>>Christians around here understand me just fine.
>
>**it's not a mode of comprehension....it's a fabric of
>communication u use that i've never been a fan of. to read and
>scroll and scroll soooooooooooo much u type

Really? Let's see:

http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=10654565&mesg_id=10654565&listing_type=search

^^^ Fits on one page without scrolling.

http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=10633998&mesg_id=10633998&listing_type=search

^^^ ditto

http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=10627294&mesg_id=10627294&listing_type=search

^^^ same again

http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=10540439&mesg_id=10540439&listing_type=search

^^^ what do you know, no need to scroll!

If this was Case_One you'd be hit with "The Devil is a Lie!"


>JUST for YOU to
>HOORAH the multitude that would choose Barabbas?? Really?

Actually, it's so that I can encourage non-Christians to dialogue with me as someone who will listen to them. Not tap out and complain about having to use the scroll bar as soon as the conversation starts to really build with assertions backed up by real substance and justification.

> U
>spend most of your time tearing DOWN kingdom work and show the
>world how divided Christianity is.

When I think about changing the world for the better, I start with me and mine. Jesus pointed the finger plenty at church establishment, so I feel the finger pointed at me as a Christian and the Christian community in general as being challenged to always do better. Sorry if you think that trying to externalise the world's woes is the way to go. Me? I think we can't feed the hungry, clothe the poor, or free the prisoners effectively while church remains so intent on judging those people for their circumstances while having its own adultery, child abuse, and materialism problems.

.but falling for and
>supporting *anything*...instead of sticking up for something.

If I don't stick up for anything, why do you have a problem with me? I apparently have no stance for you to have a problem with. Again, it appears the issue is that I stand for something that you don't agree with, so you have a problem.

>U'r great at saying what's WRONG with us instead of what's
>right.....

Just like many Christians are great at saying what's wrong with non-Christians instead of what's right. I do what I do partly to expose this hypocrisy amongst the Christians to whom it applies.

so they love u....
>and?? some of *those* "Christians" would have chosen Barabbas
>too....

So some Christians agree with you too... and??

>
>
>>
>>>hell, they judge US IN Christian posts.....
>>
>>They point out hypocrisy and where we don't make sense.
>
>**and i point out the counter. U don't think it's hypocratic
>for somebody to JUDGE me.....based on how I choose to follow
>MY faith and live MY life?
>
>yea...but whatever....

That's not what I said at all. Try reading line upon line.

>
>
>
>They
>>don't try to tell us we're heading for some eternal
>punishment
>>or that we're demons for being who we are. There's a big
>>difference.
>
>** aye...I never said it either....I've always said...I have
>NO Heaven nor Hell to place ANYbody in....i state my faith and
>move on
>FINAL judegment is for the MAKER......in which I'll NEVER be

You've switched from it being about US to you. Way to move the goalposts.


>>Bottom line, a lot of judgmental Christians can't take as
>good
>>as they give without crying about it.
>
>
>YOU
>ARE
>ABSOLUTELY
>RIGHT
>Superstar....
>
>
>I'm GOOD....

Good for you.

the ONLY thing, u've said RIGHT..and that I would even, blinkfully care about.......was

>Good for you.


so yea...I'll rock with that (which i already knew anyway)...and keep it moving....


the lil bit i did read tho....was simply you...*trying* to tell ME how I am...

when u REALLY have NO idea....

but while ur so busy doin that.....I've found that ppl who hide BEHIND scriptures are usually the ones that don't hide it in their HEARTS...so u won't sin against God (Psalms 119:11..which i KNOW u prolly have a thesis to write about that one) I do pray that application with u is as important as your textual communications and conversations.....but hey....if it ain't..
who am *I* to even judge.....lol

but yea

have fun.....for/with the masses

champ.... i.e. "The People's Christian"...lol

a title u can have

alone....


enjoy!

>the ONLY thing, u've said RIGHT..and that I would even,
>blinkfully care about.......was
>
>>Good for you.
>
>
>so yea...I'll rock with that (which i already knew
>anyway)...and keep it moving....
>
>
>the lil bit i did read tho....was simply you...*trying* to
>tell ME how I am...

Either you read it or you didn't. Wow, really can't tell where the truth begins and ends with you. Just like your scrolling comments.

>
>when u REALLY have NO idea....

HAHAHA! Right, I thought if you got a taste of the medicine you've been dishing out to me you'd have a problem with it. I can at least follow what you say to the end, so as far as having no idea, well I operate off of more of an idea about you than you about me, since posting is the only thing to work off here.

Which is exactly why people around here have problems with judgmental Christians. One rule for you and one for everyone else. Hypocrisy.


>
>
>but yea
>
>have fun.....for/with the masses

Says the woman in the USA, where there are so many Christians, unlike NZ, where there are far fewer.

One nation, under God, and you're a Christian. As far as following the flock and pleasing them, you've got far more people.

LOL

neither he NOR u really KNOW....

hell, i was ridin with u in this post, SW.....don't fuck it up...ha


and for the RECORD....that stereotypical "the devil is a liar" shit folk say...

nah....

I'll call YOU one tho....


so don't lump me with "Churchy" ppl


I have a walk with Christ

i have a bold one
i have a personal one...


so whatever ppl THINK they know about IT or ME...


fuck alllat


and u

and have fun with it...

he right.

all good tho...


it's been fun...

sleep well!

condense ANYBODY on here...to just THIS site
u'll ALWAYS *be* wrong...


>sleep well!

I ALWAYS do...but thx
u do the very same....

he right about you.

As soon as their judgmental claims are analysed and rebutted piece by piece they suddenly go all Colin Powell about the whole thing. Then they grasp onto the ad hominems pulled from whatever church slogans their pastors have drilled into them.

If commenting on that is tearing down kingdom work, well I'll be that.

It wouldn't be quite so sad if it wasn't such a familiar story.

i'll just say 'yeah' and move on. lol

yet *my* "they's" require 7 pages of scripture

ur a joke...

thanks tho

>yet *my* "they's" require 7 pages of scripture

Funny how that's not even close to the truth.

>**it's not a mode of comprehension....it's a fabric of
>communication u use that i've never been a fan of. to read and
>scroll and scroll soooooooooooo much u type

Really? Let's see:

http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=10654565&mesg_id=10654565&listing_type=search

^^^ Fits on one page without scrolling.

http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=10633998&mesg_id=10633998&listing_type=search

^^^ ditto

http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=10627294&mesg_id=10627294&listing_type=search

^^^ same again

http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=10540439&mesg_id=10540439&listing_type=search

^^^ what do you know, no need to scroll!

If this was Case_One you'd be hit with "The Devil is a Lie!"

>
>ur a joke...

condense ANYBODY on here...to just THIS site
u'll ALWAYS *be* wrong...

^^ Funny how you judge people for exactly what you do... but want to cry about it happening to you just like you did in 190.

but u love that viewpoint tho

yet when it's YOUR lil thesis'd ass commentaries....u cry "judgements and boo hoo"s

really?

lol..


hey..but if it "works" for u......
*pops yr lil JCS collar*

still funny....

>but u love that viewpoint tho

Pretty much says my viewpoint for me. If it wasn't so much on your mind you wouldn't be bringing it up in this post.

>
>yet when it's YOUR lil thesis'd ass commentaries....u cry
>"judgements and boo hoo"s

How would you know a thesis? Since they're so hard to read though. You've completely missed half of what I said in the previous reply because you want to continue to cry about this.

>
>really?

Yeah, apparently you still want to cry about this point.

>
>lol..

Yeah, it's pretty funny.

>
>
>hey..but if it "works" for u......
>*pops yr lil JCS collar*
>
>still funny....

Of course it's funny to you. Your own inconsistencies are trivial, that's the mark of a hypocrite. Plenty of thoughts to share about other people's lives but get precious when the same conduct comes back to you.

Just like 471 makes a hypocrite out of 474.

there is a difference between:

A) wrong because the bible says so

and

B) wrong because it cause others pain

homosexuality falls under A

marital infidelity (on both sides) falls under B

jesus christ. you cant be too dense to understand the difference between religious right and wrong and real world right and wrong can you?

like i SAID....i DON'T approve/cosign or endorse the morality of ANYTHING Damali said she did in this post

ADULTERY is as WRONG as HOMOSEXUALITY to me, biblically


so what the hell are u talking about?

I'm not JUSTIFYING Damali...

i AM applauding the fact that she is an individual that will stand by what she does....in PUBLIC vs doing it in private.

as I've ALWAYS stated (see, loopy folk ain't consistant...I AM)....i have no Heaven NOR Hell to put ANYbody in....
but i see where you all have put HER...

so again....wtf are u talkin about?

>ADULTERY is as WRONG as HOMOSEXUALITY to me, biblically

except that adultery is a behavior, whereas homosexuality is an immutable state of being. see the difference?

>so what the hell are u talking about?
>
>I'm not JUSTIFYING Damali...
>
>i AM applauding the fact that she is an individual that will
>stand by what she does....in PUBLIC vs doing it in private.
>
>as I've ALWAYS stated (see, loopy folk ain't consistant...I
>AM)....i have no Heaven NOR Hell to put ANYbody in....
>but i see where you all have put HER...

being judgmental about who someone is a certain way, when that state of being causes zero impact on the lives of others, is not the same as calling someone out for shady behavior.

>so again....wtf are u talkin about?

im talking about you equivocating the type of judgment that comes from overly religious people - whether xtians (homosexuality = wrong), muslims (nonmuslims = wrong), jews (islam = wrong) or whatever - to people condemning actual behaviors that have hurtful consequences to people.

that is not the same thing.

>
>>ADULTERY is as WRONG as HOMOSEXUALITY to me, biblically
>
>except that adultery is a behavior, whereas homosexuality is
>an immutable state of being. see the difference?

NO...see, to me
Homosexuality is ALSO behavior....
so this exchange is OVER right here....

u know where u are
I know where I am

we know where the OTHER is....and it is NOT in the same place

furthermore

SIN is SIN (whether it IMPACTS others or NOT)...which I don't know WHERE yawl get THAT aspect of the definition of sin from...but anyway...SIN is AYTHING that dispeases GOD.....simple
ain't got shit to do with each OTHER....

the wages of ALL sin is death....(it didn't say, 'if it hurts my brother or sister)....but this ain't a post of sin OR morality....so

so....yea
we can gon end this..cuz it's gonna get NOWHERE


but for the record...there no "names" NEEDED, for ME, tho...


FUCK allat..

and yea...cussin is ANoTHER sin....

and?

see you in hell!

>applauding the fact that she lives for herSELF
>and don't give a damn about what others think...

>
>it's ALOTTA self righteousness in THIS post...but some forget
>that before they married...or changed whatEVER status they are
>rockin now...they did some SHIT too..
>
>it may not have been cheatin...but it was SOMETHING that
>alotta ppl prolly wouldn't rock with...
>
>so Damali stands UP and says..."shit...hell YEA I did
>it"....instead of being the messy one behind the boards doin
>it in private.....and that makes her not worthy of being
>somebody's FRIEND......really??
>
>yea...ALOTTA platinum pissin goin on here....


But you just laid out why folks wouldn't be friends with her irl. She's SELFish, she doesn't give a damn what others think... those are not good qualities to have. I want my friends to give a damn and not be selfish. Those are traits of the young and dumb, not the sexy and mature.

>But you just laid out why folks wouldn't be friends with her
>irl. She's SELFish, she doesn't give a damn what others
>think... those are not good qualities to have. I want my
>friends to give a damn and not be selfish. Those are traits of
>the young and dumb, not the sexy and mature.


I am very MUCH an individual....
I also appreciate ones that are
Now, I know MANY selfish ppl...that SNEAK around and do all types of stuff....caring so much...they continue to SNEAK around and do what they do...
an INDIVIDUAL will stand and say..."HEY...I did/do it. It may not be RIGHT...but it's REAL"...and leave YOU with the cards to decide IF you wanna be friends with them or no

now...during the times I've MET Damali (which alotta u dart throwers never een MET the girl)....she's been a sweetheart...we get along fine
she just so happens to do something I, personally, don't approve of...
but it doesn't make her a BAD person...

just somebody that does some shit...*I* wouldn't do


JUST LIKE THE REST OF US.....

so again...


it's alotta platinum pissin goin on in here.....

a woman like that alone with your man ? :)



Shit happens

IF it was REALLY mine....it'd still be....

u know why?

because I'M secure with MINE

if i gotta piss....u think i'ma hold it...cuz Damali there?

IF whas MINE is MINE............then that doesn't change when another element is thrown in...



ppl in here screamin on her....but the fact of the matter is...
if ur sure of what is yours
it won't walk away with her.....

is a bitch... Everyone is tempted, especially if the other party doesn't really care or respect your relationship. Relationships aren't that simple, at all. He/she may be into you mentally physically et al but someone throwing something at them ? Some can't resist.


for the record I'm really talking about cheaters in general, I could care less about what Damali does.






Shit happens

was simple....we ALL struggle to resist something
but IF he's MINE....he's NOT gonna yield...no matter HOW hard it is

the ones who CAN'T resist
are the ones *I* don't need...

THAT is simple enuff for ME....


and i don't think Damali (and I'm addressing her because everyone is beefing with her reply) stated she was *throwing* anything....but even the more...I don't want a man that NOBODY would wanna touch

so even in THAT temptation.....if his love/want/satisfaction with/for me ain't enuff.....
He
Ain't
Mine...

d'hell i'ma blame HER for?





>is a bitch... Everyone is tempted, especially if the other
>party doesn't really care or respect your relationship.
>Relationships aren't that simple, at all. He/she may be into
>you mentally physically et al but someone throwing something
>at them ? Some can't resist.
>
>
>for the record I'm really talking about cheaters in general, I
>could care less about what Damali does.
>
>
>
>
>
>
>Shit happens

>Let people cook, man. Let them die or not die in their own
>iniquity. Niggas writing exit thesis papers to try to make
>folks see each other's points.

Men invented marriage to keep women in bondage and to keep their wife's pussy all to themselves.

By cheating with a married man the other woman is actually helping to free the wife of the shackles placed around her punany by putting their marriage on the road to divorce.

If anything we should celebrate these labia liberators.

people that want to quote the law when its convenient.

that shit does not compute in my mind once you decide that you want to involve your ass in some trifling shit.

more and more women are sticking lawsuits to the parading side women these days too. watch yuhself.


assholes.

One walks up to the officer and says:

I just fucked a married man.

the other one walks up to the officer and says:

i just killed the woman who fucked my husband.

which one is getting arrested?

oh.

d

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

adultery ain't illegal.

d
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

160 years ago if i set my neighbors slaves free i was guilty of stealing his property

the law would be on his side too

end of story.

d
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

i dont care what you do, but the idea that a wronged wife is somehow in the wrong for clocking the skank fucking her husband is laughable.

stating that the reason for that is that she can get arrested for it...thats just mind-boggling

a minute ago...it was a "what's morally right for me isn't morally right for you" and is now a "im not saying it's morally right though"

nothing in anything i've said talks about morals. it's about choice.

i choose what i do and don't do and i take responsibility for my actions.

no amount of ridicule and snark from okayplayers is going to change that.

i am not advocating or encouraging anyone else to do what i do. a question was asked, i answered it, folks asked me to explain my position, and I did. so don't come in here all late making it like i took some moral stance.

d
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you didn't use those exact words but when you start saying things like "harmful" and "justify"...you are talking about morals whether that's what you consider them or not

your stance on violence is one thing...

your stance on enabling is another...enabling cheaters is cool because it's on the cheater...enabling drug abuse is bad...wait...what's the difference again? oh yea, u said one is more harmful...laughable...bc you dont get to dictate how much harm you and your actions inflict on others...thats bullshit...stealing from a store is more harmful than cheating? sometimes...but it's not something you as the "homewrecker" has control over

you've been dancing back and forth between...it's my choice and that's that to justifying to trying to deflect the "shame" to completely sticking your foot in your mouth

cheating is harmful and involves more than one person...you can knowingly decide to not take part or you can knowingly do harm and say who gives a fuck

>i dont care what you do, but the idea that a wronged wife is
>somehow in the wrong for clocking the skank fucking her
>husband is laughable.
>
>stating that the reason for that is that she can get arrested
>for it...thats just mind-boggling

i'm stating, in general, that violence is wrong, for whatever reason. i don't give myself a pass for it, nor do i give one for anyone else.

d

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thanks, got it.

or do you want to attempt to illustrate, yet again, that we don't see things the same way?

i mean i got all day.

d

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everything you said added up to the summary i just gave.

if you didnt mean to say that then you need to communicate more effectively.

>i'm stating, in general, that violence is wrong, for whatever
>reason. i don't give myself a pass for it, nor do i give one
>for anyone else.
>
>d

i have occasions that i'm fine with violence

so say if you get a black eye for knowingly cheating on someone by the wife
i can see how you wouldn't be fine with it
but you'd understand how i wouldn't be a witness and would likely step aside
because i can understand how the wife's emotions translated to a black eye for you

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You cannot hate people for their own good.

but that shit is wrong wrong wrong wrong...no ifs ands buts about it...

you knowingly helping someone break their vows...

at best it's enabling...at worst it's morally wrong...

i saw a give someone heroine analogy up above and bout died...as if the consequences of infidelity aren't as serious as drug abuse...it's not as lethal but i done seen some shit

but hell i've done it...i'd consider very carefully before doing it again...but im neither proud of it nor would i "condone" it for anyone else...shits wrong...

i had one older woman who used to call me once a month from a blocked number...never told me she was married...never wore her ring...but i had no way to reach her and i could never go to her crib...i did run into her and her daughter once...but yea...i knew she was married...but i honestly just didn't really care...i rationalize my way out of feeling guilt but im still aware of how foul the shit was...*shruggle*

edit: not being mad at the person your spouse cheated on you with is SOP...u can think they are foul and not be mad...address the person you care/cared about...but not everybody got homewreckers insurance

the sanctity of marriage is an intense, deep, ethereal commitment


some are born of their actions they shall seek in life, some fall into them and aren't too brave to do better, then the more sinister are the ones who enjoy and seek shit like that out regularly


so when you cross a line of a marriage, touching someone's child, fam and other shit

it ain't a thing to put someone on that ass or put hands on that ass myself

ya reap what ya sow, but humility comes...

how you gonna stand up for womanhood but make an exception when it gets in the way of you getting cocked down?

i cant anymore.

at the end of the day, feminism is about choice

cheating isn't on the feminist agenda on some 'feminists think women shouldn't cheat w/ married men'. clearly she's made a choice for herself and we can argue the morality of it but her decision doesn't or shouldn't undermine what women want as far as what feminism is providing a stage for.

you stay putting up examples of shit (naked ladies, etc) and putting that shit on feminism and it is straight infuriating. it's not empowering to you b/c you think those ladies are hoes. DUH. well, not everyone thinks that and the idea that YOU find that behavior to be hoe-ish or unsavory or clearly bad since you post it to "smh" is something you have to deal with. and yes it does affect women in general b/c the same behavior many men would welcome in private, they deride in public-especially when a woman decides to make money off it.

no amount of throwing feminism into this conversation is going to change damali's mind b/c this has nothing to do with feminism (to her or to most people who are against her here), unless we're talking about the fact that she has a right to choose what to do w/ herself, which she is clearly exercising. but a man can exercise this just as much as she can. lots of dudes fucking married ladies think they're not wrong. i don't agree but it's what it is.

she doesn't think her actions affect people she cares about. it's arguable but whatevs. y'all are really stretching if you think she should be thinking about the woman she's supposedly betraying on some female solidarity shit. i would think at the base, it would just be out of concern of being a party to the ruination of a relationship but that's me.. most people don't give a shit about others but will stand up for principles for the common man. don't put this on feminists.

if your cause is "men are bad, they set us back" (im generalizing here but yeah), it's not advancing said cause to knowingly participate in fucking another woman's husband behind her back

she can have whatever she wants. b/c her reasons for doing what she does has nothing to do w/ feminism

that's like saying a stay-at-home mom shouldn't be able to vote b/c she's taken an "anti-feminist" vocation.


again, feminism is rooted in choice.

But now...?
This whole thread done re-calibrated my whole shyt.

Unethical actions are okay as long as no scrutiny and shaming is involved.
For actions like these, shaming *is* appropriate.

No mentioning or accepting responsibility of how the other woman affects the children of the marriage and other family members.
No recognition.

Of course I vehemently hate slut-shaming, fat shaming and the like.
Still, (Radical? Extreme?) Feminism is doing an excellent job of policing appropriate shaming into the netherland to absolve accepting responsibilities.
I've seen this before but it's becoming so common - the disregard of the married woman in the scenario.

I won't go so far as to say that the other woman deserves as much wrath as the cheating-ass dude, but her actions are highly, HIGHLY unethical.

I need teefiveten or someone else to correct my ass on this shyt.
I must be looking at this shyt wrong.

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why would friends SOs be off limits???

lol. i don't get it either.

i feel like there is at least a tacit agreement, albeit an unspoken one, between friends that you don't sleep with their boyfriends or husbands.

so i absolutely honor that.

again, i don't expect my way of thinking, or my code, to make sense to most people. but that's the best attempt i can make at an explanation.

it works for me until it doesn't. we all make decisions in life, things happen to cause us to rethink/adjust them, then we either do or don't, rinse and repeat.

d

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but decency to human beings optional...gotcha

edit: oh yea...i operate like this when being decent gets in the way of something i really want so im obviously just arguing to argue...i recognize this behavior as something that is shame-worthy though...it's a weakness

>but decency to human beings optional...gotcha

yeah i guess it is semantics but i see it as i make a certain promise to my friends but not to others. maybe it's hedging. i'll admit that.

>edit: oh yea...i operate like this when being decent gets in
>the way of something i really want so im obviously just
>arguing to argue...i recognize this behavior as something that
>is shame-worthy though...it's a weakness

yup. we all have our weakpoints. but i'm probably generally more generous and considerate to strangers and humanity than the average person.

d

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lmao

i feel like i just busted an OKNUT

but yea...i rationalized the times i did it too...i avoid it...peep the weakness and try and be stronger...but it's been times when i embraced the shit outta that weakness

>i feel like i just busted an OKNUT
>


you guys wouldn't be the only ones to treat
say people in meet in person better than the ones on a messageboard

or family and friends better that strangers

we all do it
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that you are shocked to see that a person who is admittedly openminded displays the ability to shift their position slightly in the face of logic because they are...

openminded :)

i mean, isn't that the definition?

i may seem rigid, but i'm really not. i'm always open to grow and change. in fact i WANT to always grow and change, when i feel it's needed.

but for this particular circumstance of dating married men, i still don't think it's needed. it works for me until it doesn't.

d

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>yup. we all have our weakpoints. but i'm probably generally
>more generous and considerate to strangers and humanity than
>the average person.
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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

this shit shouldn't be a nearly 300 reply shits. It's a bunch of not-getting-anywhere replies.

We're just arguing minutia at this point.

I know the nature of the Boredz is built for contested topics but I'll be damned if I'd be like Damali and continually defend my PERSONAL choice to a bunch of usernames and HTML codes.

And I'd also be damned I'd blow gaskets trying to shame her or vilify her or make some ham handed statement about feminism on top of it.

JUST LET THESE NIGGAS COOK!

all these posts are about people arguing their points to the death.
shit is not new.

..noting the finer points of feminism was about the only smart reply in this bitch but I AM GONNA LET YOU COOK!

Niggas just aimin' darts all hyphy.

My point: it's moot to argue with "her" or "him" about some shit "THEY" wanna do anyway.

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You cannot hate people for their own good.

that's getting to others

it comes from a place of pride and self righteousness about a topic that they hold dear which she doesn't

so naturally that's a conflict

ain't no changing of minds happening, cuz that would mean actions would change, or thoughts around said action

they just looking for sheer acceptance of the fucked-up-ness, with pride and silence

which would be more honorable

but nawl, let em' roll in the muck, kicking and writhing

some of the folks in here are posturing real mofo'ing strong like they are not worse than their replies


so i saw what you were saying from both ends....

reading betwixt the thighs and lies

i give props to few true and living on here.

I'm just here for the lulz from here on out.

i mean i haven't even been directly called a bitch once :) *skank notwithstanding*


>but I'll be damned if I'd be like Damali and continually
>defend my PERSONAL choice to a bunch of usernames and HTML
>codes.

strangely i don't feel on the defense. it's debate, it's opposing ideas crashing into each other. it's cool. i've actually slightly altered my view on a couple things through this exchange, which is why they are always valuable.

>And I'd also be damned I'd blow gaskets trying to shame her or
>vilify her or make some ham handed statement about feminism on
>top of it.

well thankfully, tee correctly pointed out the way in which most people misunderstand feminism.

d

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

>well thankfully, tee correctly pointed out the way in which
>most people misunderstand feminism.
>

Also, this don't change no opinion I have of you. When I met you, you was cool and you still cool to me. What you do is what you do, b.

Love,

Wise

>strangely i don't feel on the defense. it's debate, it's
>opposing ideas crashing into each other. it's cool. i've
>actually slightly altered my view on a couple things through
>this exchange, which is why they are always valuable.


just thought i was clarifying the grey area you were playing in
because its still a grey area

and i think most agree the cheater in the relationship should take on a majority of that responsibility for their actions
but enablers play their part as well is all

i don't look at angelina jolie twice
but i do side eye alicia keys
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You cannot hate people for their own good.

>this shit shouldn't be a nearly 300 reply shits. It's a bunch
>of not-getting-anywhere replies.
>
>We're just arguing minutia at this point.
>
>I know the nature of the Boredz is built for contested topics
>but I'll be damned if I'd be like Damali and continually
>defend my PERSONAL choice to a bunch of usernames and HTML
>codes.
>
>And I'd also be damned I'd blow gaskets trying to shame her or
>vilify her or make some ham handed statement about feminism on
>top of it.
>
>JUST LET THESE NIGGAS COOK!

I agree, but we all have a little evangelism in us when it comes to our ideals, whatever they are.

Titties vs Ass
James vs Jordan
Ether vs Takeover

It goes on. And as much as I'd rather we were building on how to make education more accessible to youth, food more accessible to the hungry, rehabilitation more accessible to the imprisoned, these board are what they are.

This is how GD cooks, for better or worse.

When it cooks for the better, it's a beautiful thing, and it's why I come back here. But you don't get there without a bunch of trial and error.

comfortable/familiar to them even if it contradicts with things that they say are NOT right.

>JUST LET THESE NIGGAS COOK!

cuz CLEARLY they don't hear u doe...

But heads ain't gon' listen cus
this week is the OKP Bammlympics out this camp.

Ninjaz/Kunoichi is trying REAL hard for da gold right now.

Can't front tho, I've been entertained. This week is LEGEND.

they was TUNED in to this shit.

For the jobless and lifeless, great times.

Methinks there are some folks ain't speaking up or maybe too young for this to be an issue.

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shit is rough in the OK-Skreets!

:(

thanks teefz

You did get hit with that good shade shrapnel, dude.

shit is rough in the OK-Skreets!

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You cannot hate people for their own good.

Gender and orientation don't matter.

People need to be trying to get their own instead of stealing OPP. Doesn't matter if the other party is down for it. That is so bootleg.

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I said you cant be all womanhood everything and shit on the next woman to get a piece of dick, which makes sense to me

YOU CANT BLACKBALL ME, WEAK NIGGAS (French Montana reference, no beef or animosity. just shits and giggles over here)

I was just on my "niggas is wilde reckless on this poast" jumpoff.

Just rock "Free Al Peezly" on all of this, bro.

and try to uphold ideas that go across race, gender, etc

again, most people are not looking at her actions as being 'anti womanhood'.

if damali's mistress was a woman, this wouldn't even be an issue. you're making it one. it has nothing to do w/ womanhood, not even to her.

womanhood, feminism, you know what kinda bullshit as point you were making.

fucking another woman's man and thinking nothing of it goes against a stance for womanhood if for ONLY that your willing pussy enables the man's lies and deceit. but of course, she equates "im not getting hurt" with "im not hurting another woman"

twist my words around and do what you need to. Im sticking to my point and done explaining myself

(c) MJ, 'Bad'.

...which i quoted b/c MJ sings about throwing stones and hiding hands in the song. i'd never heard the phrase until the song came out.

>fucking another woman's man and thinking nothing of it goes
>against a stance for womanhood if for ONLY that your willing
>pussy enables the man's lies and deceit. but of course, she
>equates "im not getting hurt" with "im not hurting another
>woman"
>

lmaooo.

if damali was mistress to a married woman, her stance would still be the same. it would not make her a man-hater

if a man came in here like 'i fuck married women, AND WHAT' it would not make him some betrayer to his gender

it has nothing to do with upholding womanhood. this is about herself and herself only.

and most people are calling her out on this not b/c of 'womanhood' but b/c of some general HUMAN morality they feel she is lacking

>if damali was mistress to a married woman, her stance would
>still be the same. it would not make her a man-hater

i didnt call her a woman hater, i said it's against what she claims to stand for. if she was mistress to a married woman, that would make more sense for her in some regard, but i wouldnt clap to that either

>if a man came in here like 'i fuck married women, AND WHAT' it
>would not make him some betrayer to his gender

if case one came in here bragging on fucking married women,(as his character here is bible thumping holy roller) I'd say he's going against that which he claims to uphold, Christianity

that what she's doing has nothing to do with her stance on feminism
women aren't even factoring here. this situation can be presented in a myriad of ways here

if case did what he did it would have plenty to do w/ christianity b/c it's a fucking commandment to not commit adultery

there is no feminist agenda or tenet regarding women sleeping with married men

you want the shit to be connected so you can judge her on it
the thing is you could easily judge her on it just like everyone else is doing-based on the human morality

but you want to reinforce in your head that women being feminist yet upholding ideas you deem to be deplorable are being anti feminist. just b/c theyre women doing shit you don't like.

you wouldn't like this coming from a dude but b/c it's coming from a woman all of a sudden she's undermining the principles of feminism? WHEN YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THEY ARE???

for real. get the fuck out of here.

reply 58 contained a joke with the word

reply 222 didnt contain the word or imply the meaning

you're still fighting an argument I've tried to clarify more than a few times now

Im gonna go see if that clipsed/syncere beef is popping

u still want to argue that her stance on womanhood is connected to her actions

i'm trying to tell you they aren't but fine

you were just kidding. gotcha.

>you were just kidding. gotcha.<

I for real laughed at this.

they don't even know wtf its about.
niggas have NO interest in learning what feminism is but quick to lump all this bullshit onto it.
& he post shit like this on the regular but stay denying it.

yall girl is making femiwomanhood look bad (there, I joined both together. happy?) not me

I'mma leave you alone because it seems like you be on some other shit when you log in. Peace.

hit CTRL + F, type in feminism until you come up with a reply from me

your denial of saying it is interesting though.



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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

.

i'm representing her.

i just started writing the answer w/o even seeing the complaint yet.

over 300 replies in this joint
basically her vs. everyone else
she's in multiple threads
typing long ass paragraphs and rebuttals
making the same argument to multiple people in the same post
doing that thing where you reply-all and then refute the other person's post like one line at a time between the arrows

lol basically everything i am STRICTLY AGAINST when it comes to board fussin
and for that, i am impressed

and i'm not sure i won't agree that she should.

preparing for her deposition is gonna be a doozy!

www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFqiniMKP-8

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yNyGeevNUpE&feature=related

clearly. LOL

and not do someone's husband!!!

Sexual freedom and infidelity are two different things.




Shit happens

that's freedom.

whoever she wants but why brag about it like it is a badge of honor, though? Isn't she asking to be judge, by posting it here though?



Shit happens

'it' = having the freedom to bone who she wants.

i am not saying anyone should brag about boning a married person. all i've said here, and try to follow me, is that i think it's great that Damali can choose to have sex w/who they want w/o regard for judgment from outsiders. i dig that sentiment.

hmmmm....

did anybody even ask who persues who?

it's sooooooo ONE sided in here....

as always in OKPdome but still

this is crazy


if MiracleRic came in here....and said...
I boned this baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaadass thick chick....but she's married....

i can bet the FARM yawl wouldn't go IN on him like this...

(MiracleRic baby...this ain't personal...i just used u..cuz u fine ;))

>hmmmm....
>
>did anybody even ask who persues who?
>
>it's sooooooo ONE sided in here....
>
>as always in OKPdome but still
>
>this is crazy
>
>
>if MiracleRic came in here....and said...
>I boned this baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaadass thick
>chick....but she's married....
>
>i can bet the FARM yawl wouldn't go IN on him like this...
>
>(MiracleRic baby...this ain't personal...i just used u..cuz u
>fine ;))

yup
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You cannot hate people for their own good.

i kinda mentioned that scenario above too cause it did happen :/

i wasn't formally informed about ol girl's marriage but she was like secret squirrel with the rendezvous so i read between the lines and basically shruggled my way into them waffles...

it's still wrong...

but yea...i probably would get props...simply bc almost any time a woman pursues a man...it's applause-worthy...let alone a bad ass chick too

that's my issue with turning these posts into genderwarz post bc we are conditioned to pursue...yall are conditioned to filter through the pursuits to your advantage...so it's a complex thing

i'd get props for

a.) level of difficulty
b.) our conditioning is conditioned
c.) i escaped said relations unharmed

with MY single self.... :*

ha

is just as questionable as the woman he's doing.

THIS is all i'm sayin

folk quick to stone Damali...and other's like her

but...where's the rocks for the cheatin husbands...

see..

many would think...just because she's (and OTHERS that ain't fessin up to it) slept with a married man...don't MEAN SHEEEEEEEEEE is the one persuin...

what if HE persued HER?
what if HE was the aggressor?
what if it was HIS temptation she couldn't resist?

neither makes EITHER right.....but it makes it ALL NOT so black and white.....

not because he chose you first

but because he's prob tired of "the same ole puss" ??

HANH? (c)ye

lol

& i'm sure this reply is going to make folks think i'm cool with adultery but I don't give a shit. its her choice.

*burns bra*

when you men do that bullshit where you clown what you feel to be is hoe behavior and laugh about it like 'that's empowerment! that's feminism!'

that is seriously the most misogynistic shit ever

like laughing at a child who's trying to assert their independence

you trivialize the real issue because you're blinded by your own judgement

they get high fives from their fellow 8th graders. and that's what they want.

never thought abt that.

.....

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.

i winced for a sec

cause i be laughin at them lil kids floundering for empty statements of independence

http://tinyurl.com/3qv9ter

>*burns bra*
>
>when you men do that bullshit where you clown what you feel to
>be is hoe behavior and laugh about it like 'that's
>empowerment! that's feminism!'
>
>that is seriously the most misogynistic shit ever
>
>like laughing at a child who's trying to assert their
>independence
>
>you trivialize the real issue because you're blinded by your
>own judgement
>
>

YEP
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You cannot hate people for their own good.

hoe behavior has been honestly presented by some (including the OP surprise surprise) as evidence of some sort of quantum leap in empowered thiinking.

im sorry but i will make jokes about that line of thinking. if im wrong, and it IS some form of "empowerment", i'll take the L because im just playing the odds when i say that it usually isnt.

>im sorry but i will make jokes about that line of thinking.
>if im wrong, and it IS some form of "empowerment", i'll take
>the L because im just playing the odds when i say that it
>usually isnt.

It happens RIDICULOUSLY often on this board, and some of the most egregious offenders are in this very post.

that obviously eventually becomes just equal parts ridiculous and offensive in the end is what gets me

which is what can seen even within this poast

like if they're continually misogynistic mark em' as such and KIM

it's the back and forths that just shows a weird fascination

like the misogynists obsession with denigrating women

tru been poppin that stupid shit for a minute and i haven't said anything but now it's just ridiculous

but you articulated it a bit better than i ever could because i didn't have a frame of reference to go by.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TGBw2madYng

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fpYvAP3GEX4

aint been married
aint be cheated on (that i know of)

*walks off into the sunset Highlander style*

<-----YUM

i been iggin' anyone doing that of late and I find it makes this board experience so much more gangster.

I see them being bammas, but I just really don't even try to win with these niggas. They're the kings of Okayplayer Message Boards, famz.

Sorry..just wanted to point that out.

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sh'mon!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZssL3nr6JZg&feature=related
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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TGBw2madYng&feature=related

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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_Vx50znR58&NR=1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9dZW1C3neao&ob=av2e

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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=njOXoxWsgoc

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XitqCuC-rSk&feature=related
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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xr9E6nAnoaY&feature=related
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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2A3j0zWpTs0&feature=related
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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

and sang de HELL out of it....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EiyNVzrNfFo

http://youtu.be/HaMJeQYz6c4

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n5hkI5Hxliw&feature=related

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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

We roasted the whole pig:

http://www.chuckbenz.com/pig/pig_fire1.jpg

love for OKP and it's hamminess.

Maybe MissJ will reappear. Or Pepper Rutledge :)

payin attention to MY exchanges....

didn't feel like readin 250 - 300 dogpilin replies....

i never do

*prints*

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGdWjc5aiT0

lol i love this song

Like those who actively seek out married men, or purposely give them more attention because they're married.

My recently homeboy has stories that make ME want to get married just so that I can find a wife. Hoes throwin it at him after he tells em or they see the ring, and some were throwin it when he was first engaged. And these are YOUNG girls, 21-26, not old desperate PTPs (past their primes)...so I really have no sympathy.

stop looking at everything through those same dusty ass shades your mama 'nem gave you and see things from another perspective.
those young girls' motives aint always what you think they are so no, you shouldn't have sympathy for them. you should have sympathy for their victims more often than not. aint no damsels in distress seeking married men ;) ya dig?

What might their motives be?

because i've broken this down before.
there's allll kinds of reasons that i'm too lazy to spell out right now because i'm about to hop in the car and go, lol
but basically, some just want to see if they can get him to cheat, leave his woman for them, etc. some like the idea of stolen dick, some prefer knowing he's someone else's problem and they can use him when they need him, etc. next time i see you we'll discuss this ;)
and dude, i don't know _WHY_ EYE'm so gatdamn giddy about you meeting Brit, lol.

and I probably haven't paid much attention to these topics on here before. But hmm.....I see, and that makes some sense.

And wow are you? Did you mention aaaanything to her yet?

inbox

Millie Jackson 'If Loving You Is Wrong / The Rap' aka Damali's anthem
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8c8cKm4qC9M

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IHrxgq9VtPI

this shit goes so hard, too

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bW1VNDnRut8

*waves @ t510*

I'MA MAKE MAD CONDESCENDING AND INDIRECT REFERENCES TO THE SHIT THOUGH.

OH I DID SAY THAT WORD BUT IT WAS A JOKE
it sucks to be toure-ish and poor. at least he's townhousing it up in ft greene.

fuck it, any time I see the the word "hypocrisy"
I'M FUCKIN REPLYING

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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

....

it happens. men do it. women do it. but doing it is wrong. wrong shit happens all the time. all the time. we all do wrong shit, but at least know its wrong.

its about respect, simple and plain.
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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

ppl up in here hand-wringing and beating their heads against a wall and throwing stones trying to get D to apologize for fucking a married man. and she won't.

it's lovely! LOL

and she won't. <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
>
>it's lovely! LOL

I agree.......
it's SO me!!!!

ago

damn this post is overwhelming.

but it bothers me when ppl point out some of the things ppl are doing but not saying who or what they are doing.

lol. thats the only reason i said that. i tried not to have a serious reply in this whole post, but i just fucked that up.
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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

Why Damali's ass get dug out for her having sexed up married men ... but not mine?

Not that I am complaining. She did a whole lot more typing than I would have.

Granted, I have not read all 606160460466 posts in this post so I could have missed something or not read something.

and you just want your ass dug out. ew.

and really ... id rather NOT have my ass dug out (yuck). literally or figuratively. :)

much of what ppl are responding to (whenever they respond to Damali) happened yrs ago outside this post.

her

OH YOU TOO!!

:)

i was just like dang folks going ALL.THE.WAY.IN on her.

and was like ... how i not get any hate? but i guess the damali hate is larger than the fat white slutty girl hate.

and trust, im ok with that.

my other replies are cosigns to the point I initially made

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that will never live certain negative postings down. No matter what they may do.

Inkast
Janus
Damali
Swigga
Nettrice
Shade
Bartek
Allison
Pete
Peabody/Ionno/Stephbit/etc
syncere
lunchboxxx

The list goes on.


I'm not throwing shade (no pun) but those happenings will be forever ingrained in the pyche of this message board no matter how to terms the original poster has come with them. : /

Nature of the beast.

her and not because her pov makes any real sense
y'all need to quit making a martyr out of her
She has said on many occasions that she loves to argue on here
all this other shit y'all talkin bout is extra imo
everyone I see disagreeing with her is arguin/debating with what she has typed
it not like niggas just coming out the woodworks at her
she'll be aight

sho nuff.

#1 i don't LOVE to argue. i like debate. two different things, imo. the former being crazed and messy, and the latter being calm and rational.

>it not like niggas just coming out the woodworks at her

oh but they do..i mean i'm used to it and it's whatever, but make no mistake, they do.

namely, Angelo, eclipsed, Sev and sometimes MiracleRic and atruhead. if there's any post where someone is snarking me, they show up to kee kee and pile on. again, i'm not complaining, just stating the facts. see above for evidence.

>she'll be aight

sho will :)


d

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

i didnt even think i had a reason too...

maybe i be disagreeing too harshly or something

intertwining hoe shit and sexual freedom and her long and bizarre history on okayplayer.


I for one just avoid any sex discussion with her, as well as lottery and trip money topics. Anything else she cool.

that fact is beside the point of any anti-damali-ness with this disingenuous ass question

wait no I'm almost 300 pounds that is probably not a good idea

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married date(s):

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4rXG4yoo0_4

coincidence....i think not.
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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

!

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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

lol. I see you.

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

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"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up,totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming .... WOW what a ride." — Mark Frost

but you're still standing.

what they gon' do now?

I'm going to start one of these Damali-esque GIVE ME MONEY accounts to come interview everybody on OKP in person like a documentary.

The title will be "You Niggas Are Not Real"

Then put a stamp on the shit with olive leaves around it that says "Official Live Nigga Selection"

>I'm going to start one of these Damali-esque GIVE ME MONEY
>accounts to come interview everybody on OKP in person like a
>documentary.
>
>The title will be "You Niggas Are Not Real"
>
>Then put a stamp on the shit with olive leaves around it that
>says "Official Live Nigga Selection"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=swP0h-K_Tss
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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1plvBR02wDs
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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1tyYAySMDk&feature=player_embedded#!
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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1uayIkqhj4&feature=related
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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iDHggk9NlN8&feature=related
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G-hB-4itv3o
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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXdu3pwT4ps
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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UpdzEpGIqtY
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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nXeXT6FGEls
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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qfr6jmJOGA8
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Threatening with the physicals since 1999.

<Dj TeddyBear you're on my mind>

.

in ya mouf

http://troll.me/images/yao-ming/what-the-fuck-am-i-looking-at.jpg

ofcourse i didnt know he was married at first...but once a mutual associate spilled the beans...we addressed it and carried on...but i was mad young...like 19 or 20....@ that age i was so selfish i didnt really care or feel bad about it....his wife lived in a whole different state....it was a Summer fling....he tried to make it more...but i deaded that once the Summer was over....

but i dont regret it or feel bad about it...


BUT im pretty positive he's the only married guy ive ever been with....


BUT what about married men who still go out of their way to reach out to you??....i have 2 ex's who are now married and they call several times a year just to "say hi" allegedly....and one he still does favors for me if im in his town....id never have sex with either of them because now that im older i respect the fact that they are married...but y would a married man still be calling me reminiscing on the past??? and y would a married man still be down to do random favors for me??....men suck....i always think i feel sorry for their wives....

yikes. hot-button issue...

It's a lose lose. Kind of like all the posting damali did in here.

Sometimes I wonder how some of you get anything done at work.

I'm not suprised though :(

because i am not suprised either

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yall are nuts this week.

lol

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