>How folks, esp the majority of the LGBTQ community, believe
>that we are born with sexual orientation, that there is no
>choice being made despite the fact that small children and
>babies have no automatic knowledge of male/female when it
>comes to displaying affection. That that knowledge is learned
>from parents,media etc and all sexual orientation is developed
>just like a study (i.e.) we can learn math and develop from
>various subjects like add/sub basics to calculus, trig quantum
>etc however we have the option to use them or not. I feel the
>same goes with sexuality, any of us can sleep with any of us
>but we make the choice to do so or not to.

oh....yea....no. lol. there are both innate and environmental factors to sexuality, to be sure. and as such, some of us have an innate tendency towards one or the other. to use your examples, some of us naturally have a higher aptitude for math than others. to assert that sexuality is wholly a choice.....nah that's not even close to what i'm saying & i don't want it to be mistaken that i in any way agree with that.

if dude was bisexual, which i'm not even necessarily agreeing to, he decided to roll w/the more conventional sex rather than dudes. as such i'd question his salience as a new gay icon. i don't think he is or should be.