dude actually showed his loyalty by letting atruhead know the deal in advance so atru could make the necessary adjustments to his travel plans and/or decide if he wanted to continue with the evening.

i'm from the south and we rolled in separate cars fairly often to the club so we could leave when we wanted to.
if the girl with the stank attitude tried to shit on everyone's good time, we'd be like, "girl, just go home. you ain't gotta wait for nobody, but i'ma stay here and enjoy this drink."
and public transpo is usually pretty crappy in the south and ain't nobody tryna get stuck out.

plus, rolling in separate cars leads to better parking lot pimpin'.
dudes in the passenger or backseats don't get much love during the let out.

anyhoo, this post made me laugh several times.
ah. saturday night at home. :(

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