U seem to go around and around in a circle with this topic. What answer are u looking for? How much testimony do u need? If a 1000 gay people give u similar answers how many more do u need to reach understanding? Not to offend u but u remind me of the white person that can't seem to shake the notion that black people are as smart as u or feel love like u or hurt like u. The power to step out of yourself and try on life of someone else will set mind free in the end. peace.