those are the same excuses that white people claim when you tell them they are all socialized to be racist.

you must own that as a hetero male, you have been SOCIALIZED TO BE SEXIST. own that shit then you can deal with it.

the right response is to observe your own behaviors and see what other ways you might be contributing to rape culture

then if you find none, speak out against that shit when you witness it and teach other younger males how to upend it.

because even the GOOD MEN are complicit at maintaining the status quo.

and if you can't understand that, there's nothing for me to argue with you about. just like its not my job to educate white people on their privilege, i'm not going to spend another second educating you on yours.

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