i think both sexes should be addressed with regards to this
that's all i was saying
morpheme's reply was more coming at it (and it's her personal experience i don't want to discredit it) from an angle of boys were going after girls all the time
i just brought my POV in to point out that lil girls and boys exhibit this behavior
and kids in general (at least since i was a kid i don't know about before)
are just freaks for a plethora of reasons
some of it is just natural kid behavior and some of it stems from more troublesome shit
to say the least

but again i don't like sexism being attacked on a us vs them level
because men and women need one another
we can't afford to build more resentment with these discussions