to this individual. Odds are, you weren't just being polite to the homeless elderly woman that just walked by. You weren't being polite that dude that just walked by. You're being polite becuase you want to fuck this person. You don't expect her to reciprocate, so whats the harm in taking a shot? right?

You want to fuck her. It's always about sex. So even us polite folk, still want to fuck. Now put yourself in the woman's shoes. She knows she is a vagina to these men. The rude ones. The creepy ones. The polite ones. There's no lesser of 2 evils. It's all scary. Anyone can snap and push her into a back alley.

She just wants to get to her destination unscathed. Your homegrown "mama taught me to be polite and chivalrous" act is of no consequence to her. She is frightened by your words.

It all comes back to wanting to smash.