Being an only child, I've always wanted a sister figure that I could hug on and adore.
The same way brothers in South America hold hands, i wanted that type of bond with a woman close to my age. A la Shug and Celie (c) poopsy Having the camaraderie and comfort of a woman is so great, it's like a recharge. This feeling doesn't negate my desire for a loving husband and partner that i can confide in, love and be lazy with, but it allows me the option of not being clingy. i know i have the tendency to attach, don't wanna drive my man away because i have no friends that i can talk bullshit with while playing in their hair