He was previously married and already had a child and (oddly IMHOP) he didn't want anymore kids. My mom said "cool" then promptly got pregnant with my brother. Of course, my dad promptly fell in love with my brother but then he said "no more!" My mom said "cool" and then a couple of years later had me. My pops has been an amazing father some would say even to wrapped up in the lives of his kids.


I don't tell this story to sway anyone but figured it was a good place to park this story.

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson