i mean it's not me, but i respect that ppl want a little
person to bring into the world.

it's truly awful that it can come down to this but
children aren't something that ppl should compromise
on, on either side.

maybe he's envious of the relationships his friends,
who are new fathers are having w/their children,
maybe ppl are in his ear about it, who knows.

but i'd say that the worst thing you can do is get pregs
just b/c HE wants it if you don't.

i don't doubt that you'd love the baby if you chose to,
but i feel like you'd resent HIM and not the baby if
you made that decision.

regardless, do what's best for you and don't live with
regrets.


>This unborn child trumps the years of love, the marriage
>vows, the work put into the relationship, the promises we made
>to each other, the sacrifices, the life we built thus far
>huh?
>
>All that is just out the window unless we bring a baby into
>the mix? Make me understand that shit. You just throw you mate
>away?