I never wanted kids. My sister told me that I was awful for not wanting children when I told her when we were teenagers.

I don't doubt that statistically many women who say they don't want children when they are 19 have children at a later time. What I wonder is whether that was due to them actively changing their mind or whether it was the result of circumstance or pressure. You might find interesting the conversation from 2000 that I linked in post 207 below.

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All meetings end in separation
All acquisition ends in dispersion
All life ends in death
- The Buddha

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Every hundred years, all new people