>b/c in this case, something DID change. significantly. the
>husband didn't want kids when they married but changed his
>mind subsequently. meanwhile hers didn't change.

the husband never stated that he didn't want children, he simply agreed to respect the wife's initial stance.

*we don't really have the husband's complete current perspective, but its clear that the wife doesn't intend to have children. if its true that he's now bringing more emphasis on having children, then he's well within his rights as a man, but wrong in regards to this particular union.

that's why i stated that perhaps it wasn't a good idea to make the investment at all (for either party). resentment is a terrible way to live.





*skatin' the rings of saturn*

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=B7E8dge7H8Y


..and miles to go before i sleep...