169679, he's trying to change the rules in the middle of the game
Posted by J_Sun, Wed Oct-23-13 11:34 AM
What people need and want can and will change throughout a marriage. But this so fundamental... if he is 100% serious about having children... it has to be SELFLESS and to try to have a child with someone that is not 100% on board with idea is selfish (accidental pregnancies aside). You can hope that after the baby is born that mothering instinct will kick it but if it doesn't, the child will suffer.
He would have to do some SERIOUS introspection, examine the promises made to his wife, and decide what is more important to him.
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