I'm cool with all my brethren. But there is higher risk in anal sex. Theres micro tearing in the anus and that increases the risk of disease transfer. That in and of itself makes it imperative that gay men(and niggas that like to fuck girls in the ass) be extra choosy about partners and wear protection. Also, dont skimp on the lube. That is all. I could care less who people fuck, just be safe and know the real pros/cons of activities.