you said:

Fact is, we condone and enable a lifestyle that is inherently dangerous and unhealthy because no one wants to stand up and say that its wrong...


that can be said about any type of sexual activity that happens outside of marriage.

unless you're a virgin (which I am surprized sometimes that you aren't) you can't expect gay men to adhere to your expectations because it falls out of your comfort level.

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