i recently did a workshop with young gay men about decreasing your risk to HIV...

& the amount of flirting, sexual innuendo i saw flying around the room was shocking

I went to a presentation by the NYC DOH LGBT branch, they did a few focus groups on why are the rates of HIV skyrocketing for young men who have sex with men...

& basically

they're not affirmed by their enviorment, so they put themselves at risk to "belong" somewhere

to feel love etc.

that's simplifying it, but the type of attitude you posting with, isn't gonna help, it's only gon' make it worse