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>Say there's a13yr old girl from anyhood USA... >who, due to a broken condom, becomes pregnant. She is a child >of a single mother, who is struggling to support her and her 2 >siblings on a very low income. There is zero extra money in >this family. The responsible thing to do is have an abortion.
ok. makes sense. in today's society. four decades ago, the family woulda made it work. now abortion is integrated into our society as a viable option. there's nothing i could say that could convince someone unless they themselves agree there's a moral decline and this is a bandaid solution > > Say there is a woman who says she decide if she wants >children when she is 40. She proudly smokes, drinks, does >drugs and lives what is considered a "fast" lifestyle. Say she >becomes pregnant. She knows good and well that she is not >ready to cease her lifestyle, her still being only 23 years of >age. With this knowledge, the responsible thing to do is to >terminate the pregnancy rather than risk bringing a unhealthy >baby into the world. To attempt to force the woman to change >her lifestyle would be a serious violation of her freewill.
I'm not going to come against her freewill like I'm the bad guy. If she wants to live however she wants, fine. We can easily look at Jamie Lynn Spears and Nicole Ritchie speculate if they made the best decision. Whichever way they choose is their choice fine, but the level of accountability is zero. And if this lady keeps the lifestyle, she may have 3 more. I've met a woman who had 3 abortions. But like you said it's their choice right?
> Say a woman lives in a strict muslim community. She becomes >pregnant out of wedlock. The responsible thing to do, is >secretly terminate the pregnancy, lest she be socially >condemned her entire life at best or stoned to death at >worse.
This is an interesting situation since the girl is obviously exercising her freewill beyond the limits of her culture. Now she's in a situation whereas the community would help out with the child (since Muslim communities are more familial than standard modern societies) yet because of the way it went down, it'd bring excommunication or worse. So again, obviously I guess we have to go with abortion.
> Say a woman just doesn't want to have a baby right now. The >responsible thing to do in any society that respects freewill, >is to provide a woman with the option of terminating her >pregnancy.
And this example being the one of the larger reprsented groups this is what it comes down to. Back in the day when our society was more morally conscience whether from the influence of religius fervor or naivete, the point was these situations were very rare. True they did happen and maybe they went to some underground defrocked doctor who used rusty tools on the girls or worse they did a DIY coat hanger, but that was not pulling numbers like todays clinics. Still who am I to say in this modern society which is so much more advanced than years ago. A society where we pay to hide our elders in homes away from their families. This is one reason I really respect Africa because they look out for each other more than we do. True we may have passed on to them our medical techniques including abortion. > > I'm not divided at all in my stance on the issue, the fetus >is a potential human being, until the first breath is taken. I >don't view the issue from the physical standpoint that says, >'I am my body'. Spiritually, this issue is a no brainer. >Those who are divided should lean on the side of the freewill >of the woman....even if she chooses >"abortion-as-birth-control" method. They can pass their >morality judgements all they want, it's not their decision to >make.
This is interesting. Because your specific belief regarding the fetus not being a life allows the termination of the fetus whereas anothers belief as fetus' being alive works to preserve that development process. Both could be wrong. But if your stance and similar ones are mistaken and fetuses were alive as children, then that belief would be harmful to humans. If the other belief was wrong, nothing hurt outside of the bad situations the child would come into. But if I were to suggest that abortion was killing a child to a woman in that situation, it would be considered as judging when the reality is both sides are doing so. Still no one has the right over another's body and that's why it's so easy to allow abortion to go on. Besides of the interests it serves in population reduction.
> Homie, having your teeth pulled is a horrible experience. Put >yourself in a woman's shoes for the answer to that.....shit, >if men put themselves in woman's shoes a lil more often, this >prolly wouldn't even be an issue.
You're saying you can't answer this because you are not a woman but the opinions of women are divided. So how can the woman who believe they killed someone not be of higher value of any man who says it isn't (just how I as a man cannot say to a woman against right?)
> Well, they did lose a part of them, quite literally, on a >physical level. But they didn't lose anyone else, that's the >point. A child losing their favorite doll, would a share the >same feeling, but no one would value a Barbie doll as life.
This is hardly the same as losing a doll. The fetus has many living processes that it is doing, the doll is completely inanimate.
> So abortion is only good if it makes you want to do it >again?!?!? Who actually WANTS to have an abortion? I highly >doubt there is any woman or girl on the planet that woke up >today and said, "Damn, i think i wanna have an abortion >soon....what am i doin' this weekend?". >I'm not tryna clown you, but i know you can think deeper than >this.
You missed my point. The abortion itself is a horrible inconvenience. It is this way because the problem itself solves. It takes 9 months to make a baby. If you catch the conception the day after sex, just take a pill. If you wait a little more, just burn it up in saline solution (though that doesn't always work) or if longer, manually pull the fetus out by its head using forceps). Either of the last two are tramautic but the last especially. But if its just an inanimate doll, yes its inconvenient but it should not be traumatic. Except that the entire experience is a mechanical way of dealing with a natural phenomenon.
>Abortion should not be viewed as a problem or a solution. It >should be viewed at as an option. An option that a woman can >decide for herself, if she is willing to explore or not.
Abortion as an option is like chemotherapy as an option for cancer. Everybody does it. That doesn't mean exposing our bodies to chemicals which are so toxic they cause even our hair to fall out as a viable option. But people still decide because it is their will to do so. So cool.
> As stated, a person with this mentality already has a gang of >other problems that has led to her "weakness" in thinking this >way. It has nothing to do with abortion itself. >In the grand scheme of a persons life, no one but the >individual having a certain experience can determine how that >experience has affected them. These affects will, no doubt, >have many variations.
since that is true, the woman cannot know how the situation will affect her until after its done. Which could possibly put them in a situation of regret with no way reverse it. I mean even after the fact, adoption/foster care is always an option. Yes theres no guarantee the child would live a good life but a)that's subjective and b) there's no guarantee abortion isn't murder still (as that is still subjective as well).
All in all though I don't go telling women these things. I still believe in freewill but i distrust society's encouragement of "the facts" when they've distorted most other arenas. This is bringing other issues into it, but with racism never being dealt with and exacerbated, and healthcare encouraging the use of poisons, the food supply being tampered with and more fun facts, it's hard for me to not look at abortion sideways. Maybe I'm overgeneralizing and lumping it in with some unrelated topics but I the more I read/learn, the more i distrust those of who takes the Hippocratic oath. > >> >>one thing I'd be curious to know is how these issues were >>dealt with in ancient times specifically the civilizations >>that are revered including the underrepresented nations of >>Africa/Asia. > >I'd be interested in what you find out.
Well there's an herb called silphium that was heavily traded in Cyrene. It was said to abort pregnancies and was popular with many cultures. For whatever reason it became extinct. >
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