If Kobe's goal is to ensure that he plays out the last years of his career in increasing irrelevancy, he's handling this Dwight situation perfectly.

http://sports.yahoo.com/news/nba--partners-in-time--kobe-bryant-and-dwight-howard-were-both-right-to-be-skeptical-of-their-union--090109255.html

BOSTON � Kobe Bryant and Dwight Howard had always been a reluctant partnership, two stars long suspecting what turned out to be the indisputable truth: They were destined to be terrible teammates.
When Bryant and Howard hung up on a pre-trade deadline call a year ago, the suspicions of a toxic mix were confirmed with a most uncomfortable conversation. They had different visions on the way Howard would fit into the Lakers, which promised to compound the gulf between them as people. They were going to win with the Lakers and tolerate each other; or lose and develop a deep disdain.
On his way out of the Garden, out of a humiliating 116-95 loss to the Boston Celtics, Bryant returned a clich�d question � "Are Dwight and you on the same page?" � without a clich�d response.
With a bemused face and a shrug, Bryant told Yahoo! Sports: "What page is there to be on? Defend. Rebound�"
He shrugged again.
"I mean, what else is on the page?"


Dwight Howard, left, and Kobe Bryant haven't found the right chemistry on the court. (Getty Images)
Nevertheless, Bryant reached out to Howard early on Thursday to defuse the drama, he told Yahoo! Sports. He fired off a text to message to insist that a part of his interview with the great Boston sportswriter, Jackie MacMullan, had been misconstrued in the public eye. Bryant swore he wasn't calling out Howard about sitting three straight games with a shoulder injury, that he wasn't questioning his toughness.
"Listen, I really think people ran in the wrong direction with those quotes," Bryant told Y! Sports. "And I think that put Dwight on the defense, put him a little on edge. But that wasn't the intention, nor the purpose.
"I didn't say anything earth-shattering. I didn't say anything I haven't been saying all year.
"Honestly, I didn't take a run at him."
Truth be told, the Lakers are in deep, deep trouble � 3� games back of the eighth spot in the Western Conference. They've lost Pau Gasol for several weeks and could be completely out of the playoff chase once he returns to the floor. Howard was out of synch in his return, fouling out in 28 minutes with little, if no, impact on the game.
More and more, it's become clear that Howard won't be his dominant self this season. The torn labrum could need surgery this summer, a league source said, and Howard couldn't even guarantee he'd feel strong enough to play in Charlotte on Friday night. From a herniated disk in his back to the torn labrum, from the pressures inside and outside the organization to get back on the floor, Howard has been reduced to a shell of himself.
In Howard's defense, the doctors had told him that he could expect to be out with back surgery into December � even January � and yet he had rehabilitated so well that he made opening night.

Few players took the physical beating laid upon Howard in Orlando, the hard fouls, the wild swings, the shots delivered on the league's Goliath that were long tolerated. He did play through the back injury a year ago, until surgery was unavoidable.
"They can say what they want to say," Howard said softly at his locker. "None of these people are playing. None of these people have had injuries. They can say what they want about playing through pain or playing through injuries.
"I spent a whole summer trying to recover because I wanted to play through pain, show people I'm tough."
Part of the problem of Howard's clowning act is that people don't take him seriously in times of crisis. It's easier to doubt his toughness, tenacity, when they're watching him grab the microphone to do impressions on team charters or booming farts in the locker room. Bryant never wanted Howard's disposition to rule the day in the Lakers' locker room, never wanted his own culture of seriousness and duty to be undermined with the frivolity that comes with Howard.
This was Bryant's concern before the trade this summer, and after it. Rest assured, there was a reason the Lakers were third behind the Brooklyn Nets and Dallas Mavericks on Howard's preferred list of trade partners. First of all, there were doubts about the depth of talent to win a championship � and those turned out to be legitimate. What's more, he knew the partnership with Bryant would be troublesome for him. And when Bryant and Steve Nash were enthusiastic about the arrival of Mike D'Antoni as coach, Howard badly wanted to play for Phil Jackson.
D'Antoni had no use for Howard with Team USA, nor the New York Knicks when his name was raised in possible trade discussions. D'Antoni made sure to tell everyone Howard had been medically cleared to play in each of the three games he missed recently, and he sounded minimally sympathetic toward Howard's endurance of pain on Thursday night.
For the Lakers, Jackson would've been the right coach to thrust Bryant and Howard together. D'Antoni hasn't a chance to do it. For now, the Lakers are too far gone to think there's a bonding process that'll serve to salvage this season. Yes, the Lakers had won six of seven games since the cleansing of that team meeting in Memphis, but everything has changed this week.
Gasol's gone, Howard is searching and these Lakers simply aren't constructed to resurrect themselves in the playoff chase. For the future, the Lakers' play hasn't changed, nor will it. They have to give Dwight Howard a chance to recuperate his back, his shoulder, and understand that he can eventually still be a franchise center.


The Lakers are 3 1/2 games back of the West's eighth and final playoff seed. (AP)
And yet, as Bryant told MacMullan, "We don't have time for to heal. We need some urgency." Bryant has been around a long time to be too surprised his words were construed as a call to arms for Howard. Make no mistake: That interview practically promised Howard would be in the lineup on Thursday night, that he would push through the pain and redirect the narrative on himself.
Nevertheless, Howard still seemed bothered with Bryant, and, well, Bryant seemed unbothered with it. He shot Howard his text, let him know he wasn't making a run at him. Whatever. From the start, this partnership promised to be an uneasy proposition, and it's been something of a self-perpetuating prophecy. Kobe and Dwight always knew the deal here. With winning, perhaps they could tolerate each other. With losing, a deep disdain.
"We communicate," Bryant told Y! Sports. "We do often." This doesn't mean they have a relationship, or trust, and that's part of the reason Bryant is a minimalist when it comes to the sharing of the basketball season's page. All along, they were destined to be terrible teammates. They knew it, but could do nothing to stop an inevitable consolidation of their talents. In the end, Kobe Bryant and Dwight Howard need each other, and that's still the best chance for the salvation of these Los Angeles Lakers. Someday soon, they'll need to go far deeper on that page together. Someday soon, the future of the franchise depends upon it.

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bshelly

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Well losing to Boston wasn't a big loss as they lost to another mediocre team. Kobe has handled this poorly, but the Lakers should have seen this coming. Once Kobe declared it was still his team they should have known.

I know they love franchise centers, but this is one they should have avoided.

Constantly talking to the media in goodwill and they fabricate the worst out of it.
Always looking out for D12, jumping into the air trying to pass but no ones looking!
They all want to make him look like an idiot!
I think it's a conspiracy.

Dwight? Probably even more complex and introspective because he constantly thinks about what others might say about him. I mean Kobe already told us plenty of times that he's from a different cloth and therefore handles pressure situations better than his teammates but can't Dwight at least try??

And those couple of games that Kobe played like "Magic Light"? I think his teammates sabotaged him all of this season and his career because there's no other explanation he would've hogged the ball like he did and does again. They probably all turned away when he wanted to pass while in mid air.
How can you be a great leader and teammate when no one's looking when you attempt to pass? I'd lose it too.

''i went from bashful to asshole to international''- CdoubleO