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CyrenYoung
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"Abortion"
Thu May-23-19 04:54 PM by CyrenYoung

  

          

We're not attempting to control the debate/dialogue about abortion, but please stop disrupting ** Confession Wednesday **

Speak your mind here respectfully.


*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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one enlightening element this renewed debate has brought me
May 23rd 2019
1
Ugh.
May 23rd 2019
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'ugh' all you want
May 23rd 2019
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      But the article you just linked refutes that position
May 23rd 2019
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           the article's author completely omits the detail of 'rapist's' race
May 23rd 2019
14
                RE: the article's author completely omits the detail of 'rapist's' race
May 23rd 2019
41
                i know
May 24th 2019
57
                which isn't really how the supreme court works
May 24th 2019
49
                     right
May 24th 2019
56
damn i never knew about that
May 23rd 2019
6
      Me.. either.. Just checked the wiki..
May 24th 2019
59
Well, if we skip the coloudy nuances
May 23rd 2019
2
Please stop being obtuse...
May 23rd 2019
16
      Or you could just learn to recognize sarcasm.
May 28th 2019
117
My bad
May 23rd 2019
4
No need to apologize.
May 23rd 2019
9
no harm, no foul on your part...
May 23rd 2019
15
      So are you against organic conversations?
May 23rd 2019
17
           Confession Wednesday is NOT the place for agendas...
May 23rd 2019
23
                Conversations evolve as the dialog goes.
May 23rd 2019
44
                     Cut the shit, dude...
May 24th 2019
50
                          Nothing to cut. We just see the world differently.
May 24th 2019
51
what is there to debate or discuss?
May 23rd 2019
8
^Word.
May 23rd 2019
12
This is such a not thoughtful position.
May 23rd 2019
13
      This is completely ahistorical in this country
May 23rd 2019
19
      How does "Safe, legal and rare" not mesh with reality?
May 29th 2019
128
           "I am a pro-choice person" - you
Jun 01st 2019
153
      remember: Buddy thinks that someone who is not the person
May 23rd 2019
28
      It's amazing to me how much of a lying shit you have to be
May 23rd 2019
29
      Akin to "SJWs are the reason I voted for/support Trump"
May 23rd 2019
39
      What you keep forgetting is that you aren't as bright as you think you a...
May 24th 2019
53
           you seem upset
May 24th 2019
79
                As if I, or anyone else, has to be upset to point out your repugnance. L...
May 29th 2019
134
      abortion isnt an intellectual issue (to me)
May 24th 2019
77
           So your answer to the legal & public policy question is, don't think abo...
May 29th 2019
127
                I didn't see a legal and public policy question?
May 30th 2019
139
A compelling Biblical Worldview on Abortion by Voddie Baucham
May 23rd 2019
10
God will punish Israel by destroying their unborn, who will die at birt...
May 23rd 2019
18
It makes no sense to me to bring up the bible in a discussion about abor...
May 23rd 2019
20
At best, it's treated as a property crime against the father.
May 23rd 2019
25
Where do you get your Morals from?
May 23rd 2019
36
      My parents, my community. which of course is partly based on Christian
May 24th 2019
52
      You'd think this would be a simple concept.
May 24th 2019
55
      I shouldn't be surprised but...
May 24th 2019
60
Fuck your position. Grow a uterus or stfu.
May 23rd 2019
22
Make me STFU
May 23rd 2019
35
      come through
May 23rd 2019
37
      My man said make me. lol
May 23rd 2019
38
      LOLOLOL
May 23rd 2019
40
      Hugs my dude. You were very rude, but I shouldn't have
May 23rd 2019
43
      "abortion is murder."
May 25th 2019
85
           jacking off is genocide!!!!
May 26th 2019
           jacking off is genocide!!!!
May 26th 2019
96
Your recommended list on YouTube must be wild
May 23rd 2019
34
      Preachers, Apologist, Workouts, News, Comics, Motivational Vids, Etc.
May 28th 2019
108
Free, legal, on demand
May 23rd 2019
11
if a 14 year old gets raped by her uncle its just like a seatbelt law
May 23rd 2019
21
I'm dying.
May 23rd 2019
24
In that case, you *may* be eligible to have an abortion
May 23rd 2019
26
      Folks don’t even believe when someone says they’ve been raped.
May 23rd 2019
27
           I think he meant death
May 23rd 2019
32
           that's why the 'rape exception' thing is BS on so many levels
May 26th 2019
95
Rape is tragic and devastating. But that Baby didn't do anything.
May 23rd 2019
45
      They "just are"? What happened to "fearfully and wonderfully made"?
May 23rd 2019
46
      it's just like seatbelt laws
May 24th 2019
58
      What do you mean?
May 24th 2019
63
           i mean you compared abortion laws to seatbelt laws
May 24th 2019
66
      Rap babies be wild.
May 24th 2019
61
      And what about the woman?
May 24th 2019
62
           What do you mean "What about the woman?
May 24th 2019
64
                Wow.
May 24th 2019
65
                She served her role as the incubator, who gives a shit?
May 24th 2019
68
                That brutal rape was god's will. She was blessed with a child as a resul...
May 24th 2019
69
                Nothing wrong asking a clarifying question.
May 24th 2019
71
                     smh if you *need* to ask that question you're in more trouble ...
May 24th 2019
72
                          SMH
May 28th 2019
110
                               smh
May 28th 2019
112
                I'll play.
May 24th 2019
70
                     Cool.Let's Go
May 24th 2019
74
                          I'm a glutton, I suppose.
May 24th 2019
76
                          His Theological Worldview doesn't give a flying fuck
May 24th 2019
80
                          Shhhhh....
May 25th 2019
88
                          RE: I'm a glutton, I suppose.
May 24th 2019
83
                               And this is exactly why so many of us can't take you seriously.
May 25th 2019
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                                    Every single word of this.
May 25th 2019
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                                    Simply put, I value all life and I don’t support abortion that is -
May 26th 2019
97
                                    No.
May 26th 2019
99
                                    All of this nm
May 27th 2019
101
                                         Do you have children? I'm asking to establish a baseline of questioning
May 27th 2019
104
                                              We have five children
May 28th 2019
107
                                                   Have you ever considered having an abortion?
May 28th 2019
109
                          that baby could also grow to be a reckless ass hole
May 24th 2019
82
                               Is there any difference than any other human living today?
May 26th 2019
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                                    no there isn't.
May 26th 2019
100
                                         So, you made my point and don't even know it.
May 27th 2019
103
                                              so you need a question in order to respond?
May 28th 2019
105
                                                   Absolutely, if you want my direct opinion w/o any misunderstanding
May 28th 2019
106
I never really thought about the "but for rape" exception....
May 23rd 2019
30
People genuinely believe that if a woman is raped
May 24th 2019
75
      ^
May 25th 2019
92
America always seems to polarize topics like this
May 23rd 2019
31
the thing that's similar here
May 23rd 2019
33
One of the reasons why I only use the term "anti-choice", not "pro-life"
May 23rd 2019
42
      *likes reply*
May 25th 2019
87
      Missed you around here.
May 25th 2019
90
           Same.
May 25th 2019
93
On late-term abortion: This twitter thread by an OBGYN should be
May 23rd 2019
47
absolutely and it also shows the willingness to bend the facts
May 24th 2019
67
      agreed 100%
May 24th 2019
73
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Savita_Halappanavar
May 23rd 2019
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Well, I had one. Questions?
May 24th 2019
54
^^^ wasted opportunity
May 28th 2019
113
I will never give another journalist shit for saying "say more...."
May 28th 2019
114
First of all, I'm not from the US, I'm from the UK.
May 31st 2019
148
      RE: First of all, I'm not from the US, I'm from the UK.
May 31st 2019
150
           On its face the conservative "perspective" on late-term abortions ...
May 31st 2019
151
                100
May 31st 2019
152
what improvements do you think are needed
May 28th 2019
115
I get why they tried it but it feels so forced.
May 24th 2019
78
Saving unborn children isn't the objective of anti-abortion laws
May 24th 2019
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
May 26th 2019
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Nah
May 28th 2019
118
Nahmean,.....https://youtu.be/H-SSv9bEk5A?t=1221
May 24th 2019
84
SMH at some of the posts in here.
May 25th 2019
86
I'm pro-choice
May 27th 2019
102
:-)
May 28th 2019
111
I'm standing in this line, AND i had 3 abortions.
May 28th 2019
116
Pulling the misogyny card on pro-life is recklessly infantile.....
May 29th 2019
119
*snooze*
May 29th 2019
120
Accountability is a motha.......
May 29th 2019
121
      when did pregnancy become punishment?..
May 29th 2019
122
      Literally what I was about to write
May 29th 2019
123
      Who said it was punishment?.......
May 29th 2019
137
           how do you 'hold someone accountable' for having sex?..
May 30th 2019
141
      Damn, this is such a horribly fucked up take.
May 29th 2019
124
Why do you have such difficulty with women?
May 29th 2019
125
      What makes you think I have difficulty with women?.....
May 29th 2019
138
pretty much
May 29th 2019
126
May I ask two tough questions:
May 29th 2019
129
      No to both questions
May 29th 2019
130
           Thank you for your response.
May 29th 2019
131
                Perhaps it might also help to realign how you think about the "who"...?
May 29th 2019
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                great post, thank you.
May 29th 2019
133
                Excellent post. Insanely important perspective.
May 29th 2019
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                Curious on your experience with this
May 29th 2019
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                     RE: Curious on your experience with this
May 30th 2019
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                          Thanks for the response
May 30th 2019
142
                               I agree. Just two things.
May 30th 2019
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                                    Problem is that a large percentage of one side argues in bad faith.
May 30th 2019
144
                                         Agreed but the goal isn't to convince them.
May 30th 2019
145
                                              Totally agreed.
May 30th 2019
146
                                              It completely does.
May 30th 2019
147
                                              Absolutely
May 31st 2019
149

Cam
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1. "one enlightening element this renewed debate has brought me"
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is part of the origin story which i've been oblivious to.
jane roe's (Norma McCorvey) part specifically.
& how a racialized reaction prompted the energy behind the movement for that 1973 decision.
starting with the admitted lie she told about being gang-raped--by black men--prompting her need for the abortion.

I wonder what's happened to the child.

https://www.vanityfair.com/news/politics/2013/02/norma-mccorvey-roe-v-wade-abortion

  

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3. "Ugh."
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>starting with the admitted lie she told about being
>gang-raped--by black men--prompting her need for the
>abortion.

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5. "'ugh' all you want"
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the fact remains that the steam generated at the origin of this specific court case, to eventually catapult it up to the supreme court, was the outrage of a white woman being forced to give birth to a child, who was the result of a fictitious black gang rape.

  

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7. "But the article you just linked refutes that position"
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Citing:

"A decade after Roe, McCorvey ... began speaking to the media about once a year, usually around the anniversary of Roe. She told the press that she had become pregnant after being raped ... Then, in 1987, she acknowledged in a television interview with columnist Carl Rowan that the claim of rape had been completely untrue ... McCorvey’s lawyers had never mentioned an alleged rape in court, and it formed no part of their legal argument ... But pro-life activists now asserted that the Roe ruling hinged on a falsehood."

  

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14. "the article's author completely omits the detail of 'rapist's' race "
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Thu May-23-19 03:51 PM by Cam

  

          

that doesn't mean i/you/anyone can't read between the lines.

the legal team not overtly claiming a lie, about who her rapists were, in court does not refute how she gained interest and attention which took it to court in the first place.

unlike public opinion, court decisions are supposed to based on laws, not immorality.
What's more immoral than an abortion...a bastard nigger baby being forced to bear.

  

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41. "RE: the article's author completely omits the detail of 'rapist's' race "
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>What's more immoral than an abortion...a bastard nigger baby
>being forced to bear.
>
THIS.RIGHT.HERE. 🤬

"Holier than thou never sits well with me."(c)janey

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57. "i know"
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a disgusting play

  

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49. "which isn't really how the supreme court works"
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the part where you believe the thing because it fits what you already think not because the facts line up

is the part that's hard for some people to let go of.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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56. "right"
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6. "damn i never knew about that"
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>starting with the admitted lie she told about being
>gang-raped--by black men--prompting her need for the
>abortion.
>

<--- Big Baller World Order

  

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59. "Me.. either.. Just checked the wiki.."
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In 1969, at the age of 21, McCorvey became pregnant a third time and returned to Dallas. According to McCorvey, friends advised her that she should assert falsely that she had been raped by a group of black men and that she could thereby obtain a legal abortion under Texas's law which prohibited abortion; sources differ over whether the Texas law had such a rape exception. Due to lack of police evidence or documentation, the scheme was not successful and McCorvey would later admit the situation was a fabrication. She attempted to obtain an illegal abortion, but the respective clinics had been closed down by authorities.<[br />

The offspring :-D

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2. "Well, if we skip the coloudy nuances"
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>We're not attempting to control the debate/dialogue

If we skip those pesky nuances, you are.

>please stop disrupting **Confession Wednesday**

SMH. You went and put it all into context.

  

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16. "Please stop being obtuse..."
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..we're not attempting to control debate/dialogue here.

We're allowing spirited convo in all directions as long as the lines of respect are maintained.

Its really simple:

** Confession Wednesday ** is a designated tradition where people feel free to post their thoughts (respectfully). Once that line is crossed, we're shutting it down.

I've done what I can to find a compromise (including pruning the post), but it appears those efforts aren't appreciated.


*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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117. "Or you could just learn to recognize sarcasm."
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>..we're not attempting to control debate/dialogue here.
>
>We're allowing spirited convo in all directions as long as the
>lines of respect are maintained.
>
>Its really simple:
>
>** Confession Wednesday ** is a designated tradition where
>people feel free to post their thoughts (respectfully). Once
>that line is crossed, we're shutting it down.
>
>I've done what I can to find a compromise (including pruning
>the post), but it appears those efforts aren't appreciated.
>
>
>*skatin' the rings of saturn*
>
>
>..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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4. "My bad"
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I brought up abortion in CW because I had an opinion that that I don't think you can say openly so it was my confession. Didn't want to take over the post and have that debate...which I should have seen coming.


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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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9. "No need to apologize."
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People have been given advice, debating, and such in CW since forever. You posted something that you were dealing with and natural community conversations were started.


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“It was the evidence from science and history that prompted me to abandon my atheism and become a Christian.” — Lee Strobel, The Case for Christ

  

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CyrenYoung
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15. "no harm, no foul on your part..."
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Fri May-24-19 02:23 AM by CyrenYoung

  

          

..you are allowed to voice an unpopular opinion in CW, and people are allowed to agree/disagree (respectfully).

What's not allowed is the ridiculous petty bs that eventually derails the entire point of CW .

I made THIS post so that people could speak freely/respectfully about abortion and stop derailing other threads.

Yet, people STILL complain... LOL.




*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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17. "So are you against organic conversations?"
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Not every confession will spark a bunch of gladhanding, pats on the back or kudos. Sometimes it's good to let the conversation become a point of understanding as it evolves. Locking up a post just because it's not going your way is the opposite of leadership.
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“It was the evidence from science and history that prompted me to abandon my atheism and become a Christian.” — Lee Strobel, The Case for Christ

  

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CyrenYoung
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23. "Confession Wednesday is NOT the place for agendas..."
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..yours or anyone else's.

There's a time & place for everything (that's why I made this post).

Feel free to share your opinion on abortion in this post (respectfully).




*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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44. "Conversations evolve as the dialog goes. "
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You shutting a post done is just as bad. Other people had topics that they wanted to talk about.

For YEARS, CW has been an outlet for folks to vent about hard, funny, trivial, etc. things. You were wrong my guy. But since you've never relinquished the Ultimat Power as a Mod you refuse to see the other side of your actions and the poor unintended consequence.


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“It was the evidence from science and history that prompted me to abandon my atheism and become a Christian.” — Lee Strobel, The Case for Christ

  

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CyrenYoung
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50. "Cut the shit, dude..."
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..you can run your bs with everyone else, but it doesn't fly with me.

You know the rules.

Move along.


*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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51. "Nothing to cut. We just see the world differently. "
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>..you can run your bs with everyone else, but it doesn't fly
>with me.
>

And there is no BS, bro. No need to be on guard either. This is just a conversation between two grown men that have different perspectives. You never like to be challenged on anything when it comes to your actions as a Mod. Normally You do a pretty good job as a Mod but sometimes you're wrong and you overstep. It happens in life. We all make mistakes. Sometimes growing as a leader happens within the mistake or the challenge. But you'd soon ban me again for 30 days (which you do repeatedly) rather than reflect on a different perspective. For years. it's all your way or nothing at all. And to personalize the matter, I don't disrespect you, I just call you out on things when you have refused to respect others. You've called me you for the same. But do you bro. I'm not the one that has to look in that mirror.


>You know the rules.
>

Yes, I do and so do you.


>Move along.
>

Moving. Peace and Love





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“It was the evidence from science and history that prompted me to abandon my atheism and become a Christian.” — Lee Strobel, The Case for Christ

  

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8. "what is there to debate or discuss?"
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anyone who isnt in favor of a woman's choice to terminate is a shitty human being

it's pretty cut and dry

  

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12. "^Word."
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>RE: what is there to debate or discuss?
>anyone who isnt in favor of a woman's choice to terminate is
>a shitty human being
>
>it's pretty cut and dry

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13. "This is such a not thoughtful position. "
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It's a position that you can only take if you don't want to give any thought to whether or not there is another life involved.

If you ignore whether or not there is another life involved, yeah it's a super simple issue.

I am a pro-choice person and even I can see that's a terrible non-productive position to take.

But keep arguing this way, the way that's its been argued for the last 80 years, and then wonder why we can't seem to find resolution on the issue and states continue to pass restrictive laws on abortion.

You are part of the problem and can't even see it. SMH.






>anyone who isnt in favor of a woman's choice to terminate is
>a shitty human being
>
>it's pretty cut and dry


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19. "This is completely ahistorical in this country"
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>But keep arguing this way, the way that's its been argued for
>the last 80 years, and then wonder why we can't seem to find
>resolution on the issue and states continue to pass
>restrictive laws on abortion.

This is not how this argument has gone. One side has historically been allowed to be "passionate" and "colorful" in their arguments, even when it leads to the occasional madman gunning down a bunch of women or doctors at a clinic. The other has to conduct itself in a "civil and dignified" manner, usually allowed to argue for the hypothetical legal right to abortion, while making it clear that it's a terrible tragedy that any woman would even want this to begin with.

"Safe, legal and rare" (which is a nice fantasy that doesn't mesh with the real world at all)
"Nobody is pro abortion" (not true)

There isn't even an equivalent of these common phrases you hear from pro-choice politicians for the other side. Because they've never needed one.

There's a fine line between meeting people where they are and just ceding all ground to them, and it's admittedly pretty difficult to tell where one stops and the other begins sometimes (on any issue.) But states aren't passing these laws because pro-choice folks aren't showing them enough respect, and the implication that they are is playing on their field. Alabama legislators weren't huddling in terror from being called shitty people and this was their only recourse.

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128. "How does "Safe, legal and rare" not mesh with reality?"
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It's the current standard that is currently under attack. It's the standard that 80% - 90% of people agree with.

The problem I am trying to articulate is that many of the modern activists aren't advocating for this standard.

Ever pro-choice person in this post is advocating for abortion as a woman's right that should not be questioned or restricted and have been unwilling to acknowledge that maybe, at some point, another life (the baby's to be clear) is involved and at some point in the pregnancy you should give that life some consideration. To question these basic tenants make you are a terrible person for doing so. If that is the position of the pro-choice, of course, the opposition has no problem being called shitty people by their opposition.


see from a rhetorical stand

>>But keep arguing this way, the way that's its been argued
>for
>>the last 80 years, and then wonder why we can't seem to find
>>resolution on the issue and states continue to pass
>>restrictive laws on abortion.
>
>This is not how this argument has gone. One side has
>historically been allowed to be "passionate" and "colorful" in
>their arguments, even when it leads to the occasional madman
>gunning down a bunch of women or doctors at a clinic. The
>other has to conduct itself in a "civil and dignified" manner,
>usually allowed to argue for the hypothetical legal right to
>abortion, while making it clear that it's a terrible tragedy
>that any woman would even want this to begin with.
>
>"Safe, legal and rare" (which is a nice fantasy that doesn't
>mesh with the real world at all)
>"Nobody is pro abortion" (not true)
>
>There isn't even an equivalent of these common phrases you
>hear from pro-choice politicians for the other side. Because
>they've never needed one.
>
>There's a fine line between meeting people where they are and
>just ceding all ground to them, and it's admittedly pretty
>difficult to tell where one stops and the other begins
>sometimes (on any issue.) But states aren't passing these laws
>because pro-choice folks aren't showing them enough respect,
>and the implication that they are is playing on their field.
>Alabama legislators weren't huddling in terror from being
>called shitty people and this was their only recourse.


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153. ""I am a pro-choice person" - you"
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>Ever pro-choice person in this post is advocating for abortion
>as a woman's right that should not be questioned or restricted
>and have been unwilling to acknowledge that maybe, at some
>point, another life (the baby's to be clear) is involved and
>at some point in the pregnancy you should give that life some
>consideration. To question these basic tenants make you are
>a terrible person for doing so. If that is the position of
>the pro-choice, of course, the opposition has no problem being
>called shitty people by their opposition.

also you.

  

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28. "remember: Buddy thinks that someone who is not the person "
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who is pregnant

is a person who should have any say in what happens with that pregnancy.


think about that for a second.

  

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29. "It's amazing to me how much of a lying shit you have to be"
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to claim that the problem with the abortion discussion is how someone is talking about it on a message board.

I keep saying I won't be surprised but the depths some people will go is just...wow

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39. "Akin to "SJWs are the reason I voted for/support Trump""
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... and the many iterations of that same bullshit.

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53. "What you keep forgetting is that you aren't as bright as you think you a..."
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so you just seem simply to not have the ability to keep up with my more nuanced thinking and you reduce complex ideas to the dumb shit you just wrote here.

I would be a shitty person if what you just wrote in any way characterizes my opinion, but it doesn't.

Either you are trolling or aren't bright, likely some combination of both.

And you are funny looking...and I am pretty sure you need a haircut and got some food particles in your unkemp beard right now.

There, you got the attention you've been begging for from me. Happy now?

Have a good holiday weekend.


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79. "you seem upset"
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134. "As if I, or anyone else, has to be upset to point out your repugnance. L..."
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77. "abortion isnt an intellectual issue (to me)"
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let women make whatever decision they want regarding their bodies, end of the story

  

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127. "So your answer to the legal & public policy question is, don't think abo..."
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too hard? OK.





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139. "I didn't see a legal and public policy question?"
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you said you were pro choice, good job. what is there left to discuss and why is there anything else to discuss?

  

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10. "A compelling Biblical Worldview on Abortion by Voddie Baucham"
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I urge anyone on both sides of the argument to watch this video and to keep an open mind. Like really listen to the entire video without any preconceived judgments and you will at least understand the Pro-Life position a bit more beyond talking points, signs, marches, and shouting matches.,

https://youtu.be/StUZsxyKrlU


Voddie Baucham wears many hats. He is a husband, father, former pastor, author, professor, conference speaker, and church planter. He currently serves as Dean of Theology at African Christian University in Lusaka, Zambia.
Voddie makes the Bible clear and demonstrates the relevance of God’s word to everyday life. However, he does so without compromising the centrality of Christ and the gospel. Those who hear him preach find themselves both challenged and encouraged.

Voddie’s area of emphasis is Cultural Apologetics. Whether teaching on classical apologetic issues like the validity and historicity of the Bible, or the resurrection of Christ; or teaching on biblical manhood/womanhood, marriage and family, he helps ordinary people understand the significance of thinking and living biblically in every area of life.

It is impossible to understand Voddie’s approach to the Bible without first understanding the path he has walked. Raised in a non-Christian, single-parent home, Voddie did not hear the gospel until he was in college. His journey to faith was a very unusual and intellectual one. Consequently, he understands what it means to be a sceptic, and knows what it’s like to try to figure out the Christian life without relying on the traditions of men. As a result, he speaks to ‘outsiders’ in ways few Bible teachers can.

Dr. Baucham holds degrees from Houston Baptist University (BA in Christianity/BA in Sociology), Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary (M.Div.), Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary (D.Min.), an honorary degree from Southern California Seminary (D.D.), and additional post-graduate study at the University of Oxford, England (Regent’s Park College).


Away from the pulpit and the classroom, Voddie is also a voice actor, lending his voice to films like George Washington Carver: An Uncommon Way, and the 2017 national theatrical release, Genesis: Paradice Lost, and an accomplished Martial Artist. He took up Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu in 2012 as an avenue of self-defence training, personal fitness, and outreach. However, he began competing and found both a passion and a talent. He has won numerous tournaments and titles, including winning the 2014 Pan American Championship in his division.

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18. "God will punish Israel by destroying their unborn, who will die at birt..."
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In the womb, or never be conceived"

-Hosea 9:10

"Samaria is held guilty, For she has rebelled against her God. They shall fall by the sword, Their infants shall be dashed in pieces, And their women with child ripped open.

More Hosea, 13:16.

How about the gem of gems, Numbers 5:11-22?


11 Then the Lord said to Moses, 12 “Speak to the Israelites and say to them: ‘If a man’s wife goes astray and is unfaithful to him 13 so that another man has sexual relations with her, and this is hidden from her husband and her impurity is undetected (since there is no witness against her and she has not been caught in the act),

14 and if feelings of jealousy come over her husband and he suspects his wife and she is impure—or if he is jealous and suspects her even though she is not impure— 15 then he is to take his wife to the priest. He must also take an offering of a tenth of an ephah of barley flour on her behalf. He must not pour olive oil on it or put incense on it, because it is a grain offering for jealousy, a reminder-offering to draw attention to wrongdoing.

16 “‘The priest shall bring her and have her stand before the Lord. 17 Then he shall take some holy water in a clay jar and put some dust from the tabernacle floor into the water. 18 After the priest has had the woman stand before the Lord, he shall loosen her hair and place in her hands the reminder-offering, the grain offering for jealousy, while he himself holds the bitter water that brings a curse.

19 Then the priest shall put the woman under oath and say to her, “If no other man has had sexual relations with you and you have not gone astray and become impure while married to your husband, may this bitter water that brings a curse not harm you. 20 But if you have gone astray while married to your husband and you have made yourself impure by having sexual relations with a man other than your husband”—

21 here the priest is to put the woman under this curse—“may the Lord cause you to become a curse among your people when he makes your womb miscarry and your abdomen swell. 22 May this water that brings a curse enter your body so that your abdomen swells or your womb miscarries.”

“‘Then the woman is to say, “Amen. So be it."

That, plus Exodus 21:22-25, is a doozy.

And if men struggle with each other and strike a woman with child so that she has a miscarriage, yet there is no injury, he shall surely be fined as the woman's husband may demand of him; and he shall pay as the judges decide. But if there is any injury, then you shall appoint as a penalty life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, burn for burn, wound for wound, bruise for bruise.

Yeah.

  

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20. "It makes no sense to me to bring up the bible in a discussion about abor..."
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outside of a church or other Christian community.

Besides the bible not even discussing abortion directly (it doesn't right?), what's the point of quoting scripture to Non-Christians?




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25. "At best, it's treated as a property crime against the father."
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It doesn't address a woman choosing to abort a fetus, no.

But it does say a lot about how "pro life" God is, and this includes unborns.

It also allows for a monogamy tests that results in an induced miscarriage, but at the father's demands if he thinks she cheated.

And there's a fair amount of sanctioned baby killing.

The bible is a horrible pro life foundation.

  

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36. "Where do you get your Morals from?"
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52. "My parents, my community. which of course is partly based on Christian"
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teachings. But my primary moral directive is as simple as treat others as you would want to be treated, which is a universal moral concept found across religions.

https://i2.wp.com/kidworldcitizen.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/52014Golden_Rule_Poster.jpg

But you understand it's problematic to make the bible the basis for law in a nation that is composed of Christians and Non-Chrisitans alike.


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55. "You'd think this would be a simple concept."
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>But you understand it's problematic to make the bible the
>basis for law in a nation that is composed of Christians and
>Non-Chrisitans alike.

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60. "I shouldn't be surprised but..."
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....ewww... at the implication that the only moral compass is the bible. Sheesh.

  

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22. "Fuck your position. Grow a uterus or stfu. "
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35. "Make me STFU"
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I don't need to be a woman to understand that abortion is murder.


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37. "come through"
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38. "My man said make me. lol"
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40. "LOLOLOL"
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43. "Hugs my dude. You were very rude, but I shouldn't have"
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responded that way.
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85. ""abortion is murder.""
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murders require investigations.

you can't have it both ways.

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"jacking off is genocide!!!!"


  

          

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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96. "jacking off is genocide!!!!"
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all a matter of degree. i mean, there are miscarriages all the time, at least a fifth of pregnancies don't come to term. is there a funeral? of course not.

i also like that these clowns push the idea that "murder is illegal," when we have exceptions up the ass where you can kill someone and not be convicted of "murder" or, in other cases, of any crime at all.

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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108. "Preachers, Apologist, Workouts, News, Comics, Motivational Vids, Etc. "
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11. "Free, legal, on demand"
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21. "if a 14 year old gets raped by her uncle its just like a seatbelt law"
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or something.

i dunno i only skimmed that post

  

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24. "I'm dying."
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26. "In that case, you *may* be eligible to have an abortion"
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May.

  

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27. "Folks don’t even believe when someone says they’ve been raped. "
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32. "I think he meant death "
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95. "that's why the 'rape exception' thing is BS on so many levels"
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that's not a compromise we should ever accept. it takes months for a rape trial to go from start to finish. a lot of women don't or won't report their rape and while i wish they would, i certainly don't think the fucking STATE should obligate them to. it's no one's goddamn business and putting a woman through what amounts to a TRIAL sandwiched between being violated and having an abortion--both traumatic events, to make an understatement--is fucking cruel.

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45. "Rape is tragic and devastating. But that Baby didn't do anything."
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Babies don't ask to be created, they just are by the Lord God (for the confused). And even a baby that has been created out of rap or incest is still a living soul and can be a productive world-changing human being.



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46. "They "just are"? What happened to "fearfully and wonderfully made"?"
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>Babies don't ask to be created, they just are. And even a
>baby that has been created out of rap or incest

Created as part of God's plan, actually.

Right?

Or is it free will?

Because the two are very much at odds.

  

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58. "it's just like seatbelt laws "
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63. "What do you mean?"
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I know what I meant regarding my seatbelt law response. But what do you mean?
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66. "i mean you compared abortion laws to seatbelt laws"
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it's really all anyone needs to know

  

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61. "Rap babies be wild. "
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62. "And what about the woman?"
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64. "What do you mean "What about the woman?"
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65. "Wow."
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68. "She served her role as the incubator, who gives a shit?"
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69. "That brutal rape was god's will. She was blessed with a child as a resul..."
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Total fucking madness.

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71. "Nothing wrong asking a clarifying question. "
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I wanted to know a bit more about the thought process.
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72. "smh if you *need* to ask that question you're in more trouble ..."
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110. "SMH"
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70. "I'll play."
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I'm asking you how should the woman who was violated feel about being forced to sacrifice her body and her life to carry the result of what is likely to be the worst thing to ever happen to her.

Should we be privileging the fetus's rights over the woman (or girl), who in this instance, was violated?

If not, then please explain how forcing her to carry the fetus to term and then care for and raise the child does not privilege the fetus's life over hers.

  

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74. "Cool.Let's Go"
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>I'm asking you how should the woman who was violated feel
>about being forced to sacrifice her body and her life to carry
>the result of what is likely to be the worst thing to ever
>happen to her.
>
>Should we be privileging the fetus's rights over the woman (or
>girl), who in this instance, was violated?
>
>If not, then please explain how forcing her to carry the fetus
>to term and then care for and raise the child does not
>privilege the fetus's life over hers.


Well, first, I believe that a 6-week old developing human has a soul and deserves the have the same rights as any other human. Second, I don't believe in murdering innocent human beings. Third, I think that rape is horrible and the perpetrator should be placed in jail. Fourth, The developing baby hasn't done anything wrong and no one knows if that child will become the next greatest mind in the world, a great president, a brilliant medical doctor, a world-class scientist, and etc. Fifth, we don't know what that woman will feel in 3 to 9 months. Sixth, the baby can be adopted is needed.

IMO, there is no need for the ending of a life.









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76. "I'm a glutton, I suppose."
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I asked you about the woman and you made 4 'points' before you attempted to address the question I asked. That's telling.

But what if the woman is telling you now -- not 3 or 6 months from now -- that she doesn't want to go through the torture of carrying her torturer's baby?


>>I'm asking you how should the woman who was violated feel
>>about being forced to sacrifice her body and her life to
>carry
>>the result of what is likely to be the worst thing to ever
>>happen to her.
>>
>>Should we be privileging the fetus's rights over the woman
>(or
>>girl), who in this instance, was violated?
>>
>>If not, then please explain how forcing her to carry the
>fetus
>>to term and then care for and raise the child does not
>>privilege the fetus's life over hers.
>
>
>Well, first, I believe that a 6-week old developing human has
>a soul and deserves the have the same rights as any other
>human. Second, I don't believe in murdering innocent human
>beings. Third, I think that rape is horrible and the
>perpetrator should be placed in jail. Fourth, The developing
>baby hasn't done anything wrong and no one knows if that child
>will become the next greatest mind in the world, a great
>president, a brilliant medical doctor, a world-class
>scientist, and etc. Fifth, we don't know what that woman will
>feel in 3 to 9 months. Sixth, the baby can be adopted is
>needed.
>
>IMO, there is no need for the ending of a life.
>
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>“It was the evidence from science and history that prompted
>me to abandon my atheism and become a Christian.” — Lee
>Strobel, The Case for Christ

  

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80. "His Theological Worldview doesn't give a flying fuck "
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It doesn't even care about the unborn as anything more than the property of the father.

  

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88. "Shhhhh.... "
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83. "RE: I'm a glutton, I suppose."
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>I asked you about the woman and you made 4 'points' before
>you attempted to address the question I asked. That's
>telling.
>

I address the woman and the baby becasue they both matter.


>But what if the woman is telling you now -- not 3 or 6 months
>from now -- that she doesn't want to go through the torture
>of carrying her torturer's baby?
>

Well, I can't speak to the state of mind for a ficticous woman But at 6 months she's a mother and I hope that she'd see that fact and not choose to muder an innocent baby.




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89. "And this is exactly why so many of us can't take you seriously."
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>I address the woman and the baby becasue they both matter.

That simply isn't true. You never once addressed the mother. Not once. Not until I asked you. And even in that context you had 4 other 'points' before you even mentioned the woman being forced to carrying a child to term.

>Well, I can't speak to the state of mind for a ficticous woman
>But at 6 months she's a mother and I hope that she'd see that
>fact and not choose to muder an innocent baby.

But you have no problem speculating what that fictitious woman might feel in 6 months. You've not once said anything that indicates that you care even the slightest bit about the woman. I knew that going in but you've just proven it.

Here's where I admit to knowing before I engaged in this exchange with you what the outcome would be. Here's where I admit to believing that you don't have the intellectual capacity to even recognize how you speak with forked tongue.

You and those that are like-minded don't give a shit about the women whose lives are forever changed by being forced to carry a baby they don't want, and in some cases, were created as a result of a brutal, life-changing violation.

You've not once said how you would address the impact on these women, or how you would support them.

You don't even care about the children that result because you've also nbot bothered to address how you plan to support the children born of women who were forced to bear them.

I know there are anti-choice folks out there (and may they die in a fire, ftr) but they for sure need a better spokesperson than you. You are simply not equipped.


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>“It was the evidence from science and history that prompted
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91. "Every single word of this."
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>RE: And this is exactly why so many of us can't take you seriously.
>>I address the woman and the baby becasue they both matter.
>
>That simply isn't true. You never once addressed the mother.
>Not once. Not until I asked you. And even in that context you
>had 4 other 'points' before you even mentioned the woman being
>forced to carrying a child to term.
>
>>Well, I can't speak to the state of mind for a ficticous
>woman
>>But at 6 months she's a mother and I hope that she'd see
>that
>>fact and not choose to muder an innocent baby.
>
>But you have no problem speculating what that fictitious woman
>might feel in 6 months. You've not once said anything that
>indicates that you care even the slightest bit about the
>woman. I knew that going in but you've just proven it.
>
>Here's where I admit to knowing before I engaged in this
>exchange with you what the outcome would be. Here's where I
>admit to believing that you don't have the intellectual
>capacity to even recognize how you speak with forked tongue.
>
>You and those that are like-minded don't give a shit about the
>women whose lives are forever changed by being forced to carry
>a baby they don't want, and in some cases, were created as a
>result of a brutal, life-changing violation.
>
>You've not once said how you would address the impact on these
>women, or how you would support them.
>
>You don't even care about the children that result because
>you've also nbot bothered to address how you plan to support
>the children born of women who were forced to bear them.
>
>I know there are anti-choice folks out there (and may they die
>in a fire, ftr) but they for sure need a better spokesperson
>than you. You are simply not equipped.
>
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>>“It was the evidence from science and history that
>prompted
>>me to abandon my atheism and become a Christian.” — Lee
>>Strobel, The Case for Christ
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97. "Simply put, I value all life and I don’t support abortion that is -"
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used a a for of rejecting a living soul for the case not wanting that living soul.


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99. "No. "
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No you don’t.

  

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101. "All of this nm"
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104. "Do you have children? I'm asking to establish a baseline of questioning"
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Yaknow, to help gain info.
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107. "We have five children"
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My husband would welcome another child. I will not be pregnant again. I'm glad that access to safe abortion covered by my insurance is available to me if necessary. You don't need to ask me any questions. You are a religious zealot and I'm not interested in engaging with you any further.

  

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109. "Have you ever considered having an abortion?"
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If so, Why? If not, why?

And since you like fairness, then you shouldn't mind me asking you questions. But if you don't want me asking you any questions then please don't ask me any questions or make any assumptions about my character or motives.




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82. "that baby could also grow to be a reckless ass hole"
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who terrorizes society. there are many variables here. this still doesn't address the woman and her needs. that's a life long sentence for her because of someone else.

that adoption thing sounds good, but it really isn't. there are already too many unwanted kids in shelters who won't be adopted, especially black kids who will be looked at as adults or criminals before either of those is true.

its fine for you to have that opinion but this shouldn't be legislated that way. the laws shouldn't be so restrictive in the woman's ability to decide how she wants to move forward with HER life.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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98. "Is there any difference than any other human living today?"
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100. "no there isn't. "
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that's why I countered with it. nobody knows how that will turn out.

are you gonna address anything else my previous post?

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103. "So, you made my point and don't even know it."
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>that's why I countered with it. nobody knows how that will
>turn out.
>
>are you gonna address anything else my previous post?

You didn't ask me a question, so I did feel that it was necessary to respond to every comment in your opinion.


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105. "so you need a question in order to respond?"
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got it. this is useless.

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106. "Absolutely, if you want my direct opinion w/o any misunderstanding"
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30. "I never really thought about the "but for rape" exception...."
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...that's always thrown in.
Until I read Michelle Alexander's op-ed today.
https://www.nytimes.com/2019/05/23/opinion/abortion-legislation-rape.html

"I recall some male law students arguing that abortion bans wouldn’t be so bad, so long as there were exceptions made in cases of rape. I wondered how a “rape exception” to an abortion ban could possibly help women, like me, who did not want to report a rape to the police and who could not possibly prove that a rape occurred if the man denied it. Criminal cases take months, even years, to be resolved. Would abortions be allowed based on mere allegations of rape without any proof? If not, what would a woman have to prove in a matter of days or weeks to get an abortion in the first trimester? How could she overcome the inevitable denial? What man would admit to rape knowing that he’d face a likely prison sentence?

My own situation proved to be highly unusual in one respect. The man who raped me admitted what he had done and apologized. I doubt if he would’ve done the same if I’d been legally required to report the rape to obtain an abortion. I know many women who’ve been raped; not one has called the cops."

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75. "People genuinely believe that if a woman is raped"
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the guy is locked up forever the next day.

The vast majority of rapists are never convicted.

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92. "^"
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31. "America always seems to polarize topics like this"
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Either all babies must come to term or kill 'em all. Part of the problem is "pro-choice" is made to "anti-life"(mostly by pro-life people). Similar to the gun debate, the loudest voices either yell "all" or "none" without much regard for a compromise position.

I personally oppose the concept of abortion...especially for those that use it as last chance contraception. BUT...I also don't think the entire country should have to live by my standards or morality. People in this country tend to think that how they live and think should be how everyone should live and think, which in a land that professes to treasure freedom so much, is ridiculous.

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33. "the thing that's similar here"
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"Similar to the gun debate, the loudest voices either yell "all" or "none" without much regard for a compromise position."

is that this isn't true at all.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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42. "One of the reasons why I only use the term "anti-choice", not "pro-life""
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Part of
>the problem is "pro-choice" is made to "anti-life"(mostly by
>pro-life people). Similar to the gun debate, the loudest
>voices either yell "all" or "none" without much regard for a
>compromise position.
>

Right. The true demarcation between the various viewpoints is pro-choice vs. anti-choice. The insertion of "life" and "murder" into the discourse is nothing but caustic, pervasive, conservative spin.

People advocating pro-choice policy do not hate life, far from it. It is about ensuring access to full reproductive care for women and the doctors attending to them.

People advocating anti-choice policy are not necessarily pro-life. It is about imposing religious doctrine on others. In fact, anti-choice policy is even more dangerous to women's and babies' lives than pro-choice policy.

Focusing on "choice" helps make sense of people who are uncomfortable with abortion in their personal lives, but can advocate pro-choice policy. Pro-choice policy is INCLUSIVE of people who are anti-abortion, and -imho - is the TRUE "pro-life" perspective, if there had to be one.

In contrast, anti-choice policy is NON-inclusive and totalitarian... imposing restrictions on women and doctors in highly complex medical situations. "Pro-life" is a fictitious catch-all marketing phrase that could apply to any sane person, honestly, except perhaps serial killers. Seriously. Especially when considering the many supposed "pro-life" adherents can align themselves with a political party that is not equally motivated to prevent loss of life as a result of, say... gun violence? family separation? incarceration? police brutality? Where are all the conservative cries about "murder" in those contexts?

  

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87. "*likes reply*"
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90. "Missed you around here."
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93. "Same."
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47. "On late-term abortion: This twitter thread by an OBGYN should be"
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required reading for anyone grappling with that dimension of the issue:


https://twitter.com/drjengunter/status/1089213147699830785


The most abhorrent aspect of pushes to legislate medical activity at this stage of pregnancy is that it literally targets the most vulnerable cases. A baby dying in-utero. An expectant mother with life-threatening pre-eclampsia. Anencephaly, with little to zero chance of survival once delivered.

Other things (among many) that are fucked up:

- (Often male) legislators' obsession with rape and incest as the few conceivable "exceptions" (in SOME states), viewing such medically and biologically complex scenarios through the sole lens of characterizing the sex that led to conception. As if that is - or should even be - at all relevant in a doctor's calculus when advising a patient/family in scenarios like the above.

- Anti-choice proponents dichotomizing various stages of the reproductive process... moral sex/immoral sex. life/not life. born/unborn. These are damn near criminal oversimplifications of all the underlying dynamics occurring in and around a woman during these stages.

The patriarchal blindspots are obvious, of course, and this is because men experience pregnancy vicariously. Men are not physically impacted by what is happening inside a pregnant woman biologically, even if they are the expectant father. And so the intersection of these blindspots with an unwavering adherence to patriarchal, conservative, and sometimes religious ideology.. actually makes it easy to see how predominantly male conservative state legislatures could pass such oppressive, hateful, dumpster fire bills into law; failing to see the abhorration in forcing a woman to deliver a dead baby, failing to consider the mental or physical health impacts of doing so, or relegating women to mere vessels whose own lives should be sacrificed as long as (perhaps not even viable) babies can be salvaged from their corpses.

And yes I realize there are women that support these measures too. But tbh for a woman to ride with patriarchy this far... they are clearly operating from a position where they have more to gain by promoting/upholding this type of system than letting it fail. Women who - whether due to marriage, class, or some combination including the two - clearly see themselves differently or superior to women who could be affected by the provisions in these bills.

Imagine if cancer care was as cruelly politicized as reproductive care? Imagine if conservative states started outlawing chemotherapy, calling it murder because it destroys living cells?

  

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67. "absolutely and it also shows the willingness to bend the facts"
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the most humane and necessary abortions are late term yet the right wants you to think that they are giving birth to babies and executing them for kicks practically. fucking disgusting.

i have taken some issue with the left bashing their own who say "i'm opposed to abortion as a personal choice but as a matter of policy it should be legal" or things along those lines. i hold that position, i've talked to friends who were considering them and listened more than anything. but i've also been aware of the heft of their decisions and asked people to consider that when making their own call.

this is a public health, personal rights and harm reduction issue first and foremost. i don't think we should be obligated to see it as anything beyond that.

but i digress as the shit the right is doing is so much more reprehensible so fuck it. especially trump and fuckers like him. they really don't care, they are just pimping this hard AF for political gain.

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73. "agreed 100%"
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48. "https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Savita_Halappanavar"
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54. "Well, I had one. Questions?"
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'Music expresses that which cannot be said and on which it is impossible to be silent. ~Victor Hugo'

  

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113. "^^^ wasted opportunity"
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brave of you to post this. to admit you have had one and to offer to answer questions.

do you think any restrictions should be put in place?

  

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114. "I will never give another journalist shit for saying "say more....""
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Because that was all I could think of when prompted to ask a question.

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148. "First of all, I'm not from the US, I'm from the UK. "
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The UK has a liberal attitude to abortion for the most part and one can have one up to 24 weeks.

It's hard for me to say how I feel about this and about abortion in general. I only know how I feel about my situation and what was right for me.

Should there be restrictions? I believe so yes. I do have feelings for the fetus and I don't like the idea of late abortions. However, every woman's case is completely different from the next.

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150. "RE: First of all, I'm not from the US, I'm from the UK. "
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>The UK has a liberal attitude to abortion for the most part
>and one can have one up to 24 weeks.
>
>It's hard for me to say how I feel about this and about
>abortion in general. I only know how I feel about my situation
>and what was right for me.
>
>Should there be restrictions? I believe so yes. I do have
>feelings for the fetus and I don't like the idea of late
>abortions. However, every woman's case is completely different
>from the next.

thank you for responding.

i think there definitely needs to be something done in the US and other countries to foster a more understanding and compassionate attitude towards abortion. i dont know how we get there.

i didnt know if you wanted personal questions about your situation or more general ones. i didnt want to intrude so i went the general route. if you do want to share about your situation i do have some questions. if not, please ignore. did you know you would be open to having an abortion before you were pregnant? did other people come into play in your decision?

i think its been said well in this post, although most (all?) people dont like the idea of late term abortions the situations that require that are so rare. it seems so pointless to spend so much time and energy trying to restrict them.

i want to say there should be no legal restrictions but that doesnt mean we would be condoning late term abortions just because. in reality the reason is no ones business but the woman and who she wishes to share it with.

  

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151. "On its face the conservative "perspective" on late-term abortions ..."
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Is just so ludicrous. Like I challenge someone to find a true example of a woman who carried for 7 months ... then, with just 2 months to go, was like "you know what, nah forget it" and went through the (from what I understand) INSANELY painful process of terminating a pregnancy in the 3rd trimester for no reason at all.

It just isn't even sensible.


>i think its been said well in this post, although most (all?)
>people dont like the idea of late term abortions the
>situations that require that are so rare. it seems so
>pointless to spend so much time and energy trying to restrict
>them.
>
>i want to say there should be no legal restrictions but that
>doesnt mean we would be condoning late term abortions just
>because. in reality the reason is no ones business but the
>woman and who she wishes to share it with.

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152. "100"
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115. "what improvements do you think are needed"
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pre/during/post?

  

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78. "I get why they tried it but it feels so forced."
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They looked at the projected 2050 census and went uhoh. Only way to counter that is to ban abortions. I disagree with this of course and feel a woman has the right to choose.

There was a case while back where a man forced himself on a 12 year old and she got pregnant. The law didnt allow her to abort and now she's 20 with an eight year old child.. yuck.

I'm appalled this law was put into place and hope it gets repealed.

  

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81. "Saving unborn children isn't the objective of anti-abortion laws"
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There's a ton of people in the pro-life movement who acting in good faith. They're desperate to stop millions of deaths, and it's a mistake to not treat them as morally serious. But their desperation makes them willing to look to genuinely awful people for assistance.

Rich and politically powerful people don't care about women or babies or any sort of politically, economically, or physically vulnerable people. The tell us this, explicitly every single day, and not believing them makes you dishonest and/or stupid. To them, abortion laws are a chance to continue the marginalization of poor people, tethering permanently to capitalist exploitation. Harm, and cruelty and control is the primary goal for them and when they say anything else, they're lying.

Shit, even the very idea of pro-life legislation makes the idea of solidarity into a mean joke. What kind of asshole votes for a politician and says "there you go, I saved a bunch of babies?"

As usual, rich people are the problem. If you find abortion to be a grave moral evil or even slightly problematic, taking rich people's money will do more than this, or any, anti-abortion law.

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94. "^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^"
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118. "Nah "
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>There's a ton of people in the pro-life movement who acting
>in good faith. They're desperate to stop millions of deaths,
>and it's a mistake to not treat them as morally serious. But
>their desperation makes them willing to look to genuinely
>awful people for assistance.
>


Can't have it both ways, either they are morally serious or they are pretending.

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84. "Nahmean,.....https://youtu.be/H-SSv9bEk5A?t=1221"
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https://youtu.be/H-SSv9bEk5A?t=1221









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86. "SMH at some of the posts in here."
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Cotdamn some of y'all need some help. And to stop using your religious beliefs as a high moral ground.

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102. "I'm pro-choice"
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Access to safe abortions is reproductive justice. Anything else is simply violent patriarchy and misogyny.

  

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111. ":-)"
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Happy to see you here.

  

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116. "I'm standing in this line, AND i had 3 abortions. "
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119. "Pulling the misogyny card on pro-life is recklessly infantile....."
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...to say the least,...

...and sheer bullshit to say the most.


And for the record, I don't have a dog in that fight but
I know that there are individuals that are pro-life for the mere sake of not wanting unborn children to be *murdered.

If your perspective is dwarfed enough to equate that sentiment to a convoluted "hatred-of-women" sweep then you simply aren't taking any sort of accountability for the life that is being taken.

Do better, Afrogirl or continue to be *lost as a result.


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120. "*snooze*"
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>...to say the least,...
>
>...and sheer bullshit to say the most.
>
>
>And for the record, I don't have a dog in that fight but
>I know that there are individuals that are pro-life for the
>mere sake of not wanting unborn children to be *murdered.
>
>If your perspective is dwarfed enough to equate that sentiment
>to a convoluted "hatred-of-women" sweep then you simply aren't
>taking any sort of accountability for the life that is being
>taken.

1. They are not children. 2. Most of these people screaming about being “pro-life” are the same people who do not support policy that actually assists women. They do not support equal pay for equal work. They have zero compassion for the poor (which women are a huge population) and consistently support policies that make their lives hell. 3. It is misogynistic to support laws that force a woman to be pregnant when she does not want to be. The fact that this is even a conversation demonstrates how much society believes they should control women’s bodies, which is indeed misogyny. 4. Accountability? To whom?


>Do better, Afrogirl or continue to be *lost as a result.
Damn, you are so corny.

  

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121. "Accountability is a motha......."
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>1. They are not children. 2. Most of these people screaming
>about being “pro-life” are the same people who do not
>support policy that actually assists women. They do not
>support equal pay for equal work.

You don't know that. That is a reckless assumption.
Furthermore, that whole "equal-pay-for-equal-work" has nothing to do with an innocent childs life getting *murdered.

^ ^ ^Thats called accountability: Get familiar with it.


3.
>It is misogynistic to support laws that force a woman to be
>pregnant when she does not want to be. Accountability? To whom?


No, it is not misogynistic. Misogynisctic means: hatred of women.
How is it "hatred of women" to hold a woman accountable for having unprotected sex which leads to pregnancy?

^ ^ ^Thats called accountability: Get familiar with it.

Do better, Afrogirl or continue to be *lost as a result.

Damn, you are so lost.








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122. "when did pregnancy become punishment?.."
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>3.
>>It is misogynistic to support laws that force a woman to be
>>pregnant when she does not want to be. Accountability? To
>whom?
>
>
>No, it is not misogynistic. Misogynisctic means: hatred of
>women.
>How is it "hatred of women" to hold a woman accountable for
>having unprotected sex which leads to pregnancy?
>
>^ ^ ^Thats called accountability: Get familiar with it.
>
>Do better, Afrogirl or continue to be *lost as a result.
>
>Damn, you are so lost.

*please expound on the concept of being held "..accountable for having unprotected sex which leads to pregnancy?.."

Having sex (protected or otherwise) isn't a crime. Like it or not, abortion is an option. Please explain how/why a person having an abortion doesn't count as being held accountable?




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123. "Literally what I was about to write"
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And if anyone has actually experienced an abortion or a D&C for a miscarriage (which is basically the same procedure) you’d know this is a horrible take.

  

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137. "Who said it was punishment?......."
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Cyren,
Did you come up in a house around alpha-men?....

Was your Father around?

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141. "how do you 'hold someone accountable' for having sex?.."
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..and who's tasked with that authority?




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124. "Damn, this is such a horribly fucked up take."
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>No, it is not misogynistic. Misogynisctic means: hatred of
>women.
>How is it "hatred of women" to hold a woman accountable for
>having unprotected sex which leads to pregnancy?

This dude said "no, it is not misogynistic" and then proceeded to display deep-rooted, subconscious misogyny in the very next statement.

Also pregnancies happen when you use protection, too.

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125. "Why do you have such difficulty with women?"
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I can't figure it out!

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138. "What makes you think I have difficulty with women?....."
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You know nothing about me....








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126. "pretty much"
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129. "May I ask two tough questions:"
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1. Do you believe that there are any reasonable limitations or restrictions that should be placed on a woman having an abortion?

2. At any point in a woman's pregnancy do you believe that there is a life that should be given some consideration?



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130. "No to both questions"
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>1. Do you believe that there are any reasonable limitations
>or restrictions that should be placed on a woman having an
>abortion?

It’s completely unreasonable to deny a woman an abortion. If a woman does not want to be pregnant she should be able to terminate. If this society was truly supportive of women’s reproductive rights, there would be access to safe abortion (that was free or low cost) in every city/town. I assume the limitations you speak of have to do with timing. If safe, local, and affordable abortions were available, you’d see less second trimester abortions. A late term abortion is often painful and traumatizing. Women are not making that choice because they think it’s fun. We’d also see more mothers with kids they actually want and feel prepared to care for.

>2. At any point in a woman's pregnancy do you believe that
>there is a life that should be given some consideration?
>.
I feel that the pregnant woman should take precedence over a fetus that has yet to be born. I have a great deal of compassion for women who are pregnant without wanting to be so. Pregnancy is hard on the body and the mind. You could get extremely sick. You could die. It could trigger already existing mental illness. There are so many factors as to why someone would not want to be pregnant that have very little to do with the child.

  

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131. "Thank you for your response. "
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It was helpful and I would not even think to dispute any of it.

I just still think that a lot of resaonable people get thrown by the argument that a woman should be able to terminate a 36-week old "baby" just because. It's a hypothetical that IRL never happens, but I've had SoWhat try to argue that point right here on these boards. Maybe he wasn't sincere in those arguments, but I took away from those debates that folks arguing abortion without limitation or restriction are f'ing crazy. I don't know. I get that I am arguing hypotheticals that don't show up in real life, but I keep thinking the same is true for the people on the other side of those debates.




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132. "Perhaps it might also help to realign how you think about the "who"...?"
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Because like you said, many of the hypotheticals that get thrown around do not happen IRL. And they are often framed in a way that demonizes abortion-seekers to the fullest extent possible, and maximizes fetal viability to the fullest extent possible.

But in reality, don't forget that anti-choice policy also restricts those who WISHED to remain pregnant and deliver. Like the OBGYN I linked above pointed out in her twitter thread: with late-term abortions, it is often women who INTENDED to continue their pregnancy to term and deliver.. only to encounter a devastating complication in which the fetus' viability is at risk and in some cases her own life as well.

For example, she described the case of a woman whose fetus was not going to survive (triploidy), and who despite that intended (i.e. Chose, heavy emphasis on chose) to deliver and turn to pediatric hospice.. only for the fetus to become breached which complicated the planned delivery. In this case, the late-term abortion was safer for the woman than inducing.

Anti-choice advocates tend to throw around the terms induction and c-section as if DELIVERY in and of itself is not a complex obstetric process with its own risks. Delivery is not always indicated. Women and babies can also die during delivery complications, regardless of circumstances surrounding the pregnancy. And there are also instances where a miscarriage does not complete, and a woman is at risk of becoming fatally sick from what is essentially a rotting fetal corpse and tissue inside her body (as was the case of Savita Halappanavar).

The fact of the matter is that most people, and virtually all legislators, are not qualified to shape the clinical practice of high-level obstetrics in any way. Certainly not at the expense of the health, safety, and lives of women who are (in the VAST majority of LTA cases) already grieving the loss of a child they intended to have.

*Sorry to jump in and go off about late-term scenarios, but since they are some of the most tragic cases and the kind of abortion even many pro-choice folks are uneasy with, I felt compelled to chime in

  

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133. "great post, thank you."
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136. "Excellent post. Insanely important perspective."
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135. "Curious on your experience with this"
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>I get that I am arguing hypotheticals
>that don't show up in real life, but I keep thinking the same
>is true for the people on the other side of those debates.

What are some hypotheticals that don't show up in real life from the other side?

Because while the "wanton harlot who just decides she doesn't want to be pregnant six months in who thoughtlessly murders her baby" is indeed a right-wing talking points boogie man, I am trying to think of the pro-choice equivalent.

Years ago, I probably would've said the way some anti-choice legislators are presented is unfair, but in their own words these guys demonstrate that they have no idea wtf they're talking about (I'm thinking about the guy in Alabama who said you could just take an ectopic pregnancy out and place it in the womb, but also Jon Kyl being challenged about his "75% of what Planned Parenthood does is sell baby parts" statement on the floor of the Senate and just admitting he didn't mean it to be true.)

Do you think the instances when people bring up something like a 14 year old girl being raped and forced to carry to term anyway are exaggerated? Or used too frequently? Or the hardship of having to drive long distances to get one?

I sincerely can't think of what the pro-choice equivalent to that unreal hypothetical is. Not to say they can't exist, I just don't know what they are.

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140. "RE: Curious on your experience with this"
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The hypothetical on the other side is the same scenario. You have pro-choice advocates arguing so what if a woman wants to have an abortion at 6 months pregnant just because, that's her right and we shouldn't question it.

You have a lot of pro-choice advocates arguing for "Abortion on Demand" like this:

https://twitter.com/BhamDSA/status/1130252188733849606


But what does Abortion on Demand mean to people? Search it on Twitter. To Pro-Life people it has a very specific meaning, It means an abortion at any time in a pregnancy (including up to birth) for any or no reason. So it's clear what the right means, but I am not so sure that's what people on the left are advocating for (or intend to advocate for). It seems to me they are when people advocate for abortion rights without restriction.

Seems like a terrible argument that gives ammunition to the right who then can produce videos like this:

https://twitter.com/LizRNC/status/1130980343413190656

Again as a lawyer who job entails advocacy and persuasion, it seems arguing for abortion on demand as the right frames it is a terrible tactic. One of the biggest lessons I learned in law school is it is okay to concede not terribly important points. Pro-choice advocates give up no ground if they say reasonable restrictions on late term abortions are not an issue if everyone agrees that women aren't willy nilly having late term abortions.


On another note, this anti-planned parenthood video I stumbled across is a baaadd look. Hope it's not real.

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142. "Thanks for the response"
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>The hypothetical on the other side is the same scenario. You
>have pro-choice advocates arguing so what if a woman wants to
>have an abortion at 6 months pregnant just because, that's her
>right and we shouldn't question it.
>
>You have a lot of pro-choice advocates arguing for "Abortion
>on Demand" like this:
>
>https://twitter.com/BhamDSA/status/1130252188733849606
>
>
>But what does Abortion on Demand mean to people? Search it on
>Twitter. To Pro-Life people it has a very specific meaning,
>It means an abortion at any time in a pregnancy (including up
>to birth) for any or no reason. So it's clear what the right
>means, but I am not so sure that's what people on the left are
>advocating for (or intend to advocate for). It seems to me
>they are when people advocate for abortion rights without
>restriction.

I think I hear what you are saying. As has been discussed earlier in this thread, the late-term example is virtually never "just didn't feel like being pregnant anymore, six months in" and usually a much more fraught situation involving women who wanted to deliver, but medically can't.

To me, it doesn't do anyone any good to legislate against a hypothetical that never happens, particularly when it's coming at the expense of very real people. On demand just means they can get it without having to jump through dozens of pointless hoops.

>Seems like a terrible argument that gives ammunition to the
>right who then can produce videos like this:
>
>https://twitter.com/LizRNC/status/1130980343413190656
>
>Again as a lawyer who job entails advocacy and persuasion, it
>seems arguing for abortion on demand as the right frames it is
>a terrible tactic. One of the biggest lessons I learned in
>law school is it is okay to concede not terribly important
>points.

Yeah, on the one hand, I'm a big advocate of playing on our own field, instead of the one the right has constructed. Using their phrases and arguing everything on their terms is never going to result in us getting what we want. But on the other hand, it IS currently in their field, so regardless of our intent, that's how it's going to be framed right today. It's impossible for a political figure to argue for free, on-demand abortion for all without having to field dozens of bad-faith hypotheticals. We can't ignore this reality.

How do we fix that? I don't know, there's no easy answers. I guess to start with, just pushing back on these bad-faith hypotheticals when we see them and making conservatives actually argue FOR their position. Ask them why specifically THIS type of restriction/law is needed and what brought them to that conclusion.

>Pro-choice advocates give up no ground if they say
>reasonable restrictions on late term abortions are not an
>issue if everyone agrees that women aren't willy nilly having
>late term abortions.

I'm not sure I agree on this point. Because if you set a "never after X months" restriction, you're inevitably going to be impacting women who experience complicated pregnancies that could be life-threatening. Is there any set of restrictions that could be passed that you can guarantee won't hurt these women? If not, then IMO there's no reason to have them.

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143. "I agree. Just two things. "
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>>> On demand just means they
>can get it without having to jump through dozens of pointless
>hoops.
>


I think there is a big disconnect between left and right what that phrase means. Both sides should be aware of that disconnect. Might be useful in avoiding arguing over a bunch of far fetched hypotheticals.


>>Pro-choice advocates give up no ground if they say
>>reasonable restrictions on late term abortions are not an
>>issue if everyone agrees that women aren't willy nilly
>having
>>late term abortions.
>
>I'm not sure I agree on this point. Because if you set a
>"never after X months" restriction, you're inevitably going to
>be impacting women who experience complicated pregnancies that
>could be life-threatening. Is there any set of restrictions
>that could be passed that you can guarantee won't hurt these
>women? If not, then IMO there's no reason to have them.

I think 90% of people would say that there should a ban on late-term abortions unless the life of the mother or child is at risk. I believe, that's the law of the land in most places around the world and the US (not sure though). It seems like a bad strategy to argue against that.




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144. "Problem is that a large percentage of one side argues in bad faith."
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>I think there is a big disconnect between left and right what
>that phrase means. Both sides should be aware of that
>disconnect. Might be useful in avoiding arguing over a bunch
>of far fetched hypotheticals.

So no matter how many times they're told that their argument is is solely dependent on far-fetched hypotheticals that pretty much don't exist, they don't budge.

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145. "Agreed but the goal isn't to convince them. "
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It's to not let them shape the public discourse. Even using their "on demand" language to some extent helps them shape the discourse.

They are the Zealots. They are the ones who should be on the defense trying to explain their extreme positions.


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146. "Totally agreed."
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147. "It completely does."
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>It's to not let them shape the public discourse. Even using
>their "on demand" language to some extent helps them shape the
>discourse.

It's deliberately used so that people think women think as casually about having an abortion as they do about their cable TV.

It isn't at all language we should echo in any capacity.

  

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149. "Absolutely"
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You're never going to convince them. You can marginalize them politically, though.

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