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Geah
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"** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY **"


          

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Shit has got to turn around for me at some point, right?
Apr 10th 2019
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Damn bro. Keep ya head up.
Apr 10th 2019
2
It's going to, my guy. Just keep pushing.
Apr 10th 2019
5
This article about how it's hard for dark skin women to find mates is od...
Apr 10th 2019
3
Reading between the lines, she wants a white guy, or...
Apr 10th 2019
4
i mean she's on a swipe app being picky.
Apr 10th 2019
6
Right. I don't doubt what she is saying true at all.
Apr 10th 2019
7
where her MOMMA at?! she fine
Apr 10th 2019
12
      I glanced at the article
Apr 10th 2019
22
           not rude at all..
Apr 10th 2019
25
not liking this job.
Apr 10th 2019
8
Procrastination is not my friend...
Apr 10th 2019
9
I want a pet goat.
Apr 10th 2019
10
Insurance denied my roof claim.
Apr 10th 2019
11
had mine done recently on a whim.
Apr 10th 2019
13
      Had a contractor. A brotha
Apr 10th 2019
14
           who hired the "contractor" ?
Apr 10th 2019
15
                I did.
Apr 10th 2019
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                     dang...well... at least you gave it a try.
Apr 10th 2019
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                     Yeah. My contractor did say it was worth trying before repairing
Apr 10th 2019
20
                          what helped us
Apr 10th 2019
21
                               That was the plan. Had a nice ice storm for the claim too
Apr 10th 2019
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                     You have have to wait on he next big Hail Storm
Apr 10th 2019
18
It might be time to acknowledge that there might not be many worth
Apr 10th 2019
19
yep
Apr 10th 2019
24
Don't help him lol, f******k dat n***a
Apr 10th 2019
26
Right? Lol
Apr 10th 2019
27
dog eat dog world
Apr 10th 2019
28
Dude could end up being his manager or higher up in his chain one day......
Apr 10th 2019
29
      Hahaha, she won't be there long enough for that in this current market
Apr 11th 2019
31
Let him fail
Apr 10th 2019
30
It’s going to be an interesting summer
Apr 11th 2019
32

KiloMcG
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Wed Apr-10-19 07:56 AM

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1. "Shit has got to turn around for me at some point, right? "
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Cot damn.

  

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legsdiamond
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Wed Apr-10-19 08:15 AM

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2. "Damn bro. Keep ya head up. "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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Creole
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5. "It's going to, my guy. Just keep pushing. "
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--- praying for peace, love, and power

  

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Buddy_Gilapagos
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3. "This article about how it's hard for dark skin women to find mates is od..."
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https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/apr/08/dark-skinned-black-girls-dont-get-married

I am not challenging the greater point/premise of the article, but it seems a very odd way to start off by her recounting the 12 guys she dismissed for the ambiguous reason of "they weren't her type".

I wonder if that's me being overly critical to another reader on form or if anyone else would have the same reaction?



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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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flipnile
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Wed Apr-10-19 08:49 AM

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4. "Reading between the lines, she wants a white guy, or..."
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...a "high status" black guy. Not buying it that she doesn't get much interest: https://www.instagram.com/dreammcclinton/

  

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BrooklynWHAT
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Wed Apr-10-19 09:31 AM

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6. "i mean she's on a swipe app being picky. "
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of course she isnt gonna get a lot out of that. even as a woman.

i will say i've sat with my boys (of all races) while they swipe, or i'll let women swipe through mine for fun at work, and im surprised at how much i've heard some variation of "too dark, left" on girls that are really fine.

<--- Big Baller World Order

  

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Buddy_Gilapagos
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7. "Right. I don't doubt what she is saying true at all. "
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But she presents the issue in a way that undermines her point by being the picky one in the article.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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infin8
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12. "where her MOMMA at?! she fine"
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>I am not challenging the greater point/premise of the article,
>but it seems a very odd way to start off by her recounting the
>12 guys she dismissed for the ambiguous reason of "they
>weren't her type".
>
>I wonder if that's me being overly critical to another reader
>on form or if anyone else would have the same reaction?
^^

this is where I'm at with it. This has been a long-running narrative, I don't think she covered any new ground as much as she just wove her woe-is-me low self-esteem shxt into the article.

I wish I could meet her, so I can take her phone from her. Go start a conversation with someone. Be friends with a nxgga instead of looking to check off boxes on her Kameelah-ass list. Find someone who's into YOU.

I dont think she got over her own complex...how do you expect someone else to conquer your demons if you can't.

*shrug*

IG: amadu_me

"...Whateva, man..." (c) Redman

  

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legsdiamond
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Wed Apr-10-19 03:45 PM

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22. "I glanced at the article"
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Sounds rude but I know too many regular, so so looking women (to me) who have husbands and men that adore them.

At some point you have to look in the mirror and think about the dudes you aren’t feeling who are feeling you.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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infin8
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25. "not rude at all.."
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it's just facts.

that $hit is all subjective.

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tariqhu
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8. "not liking this job."
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shit's too chaotic and I'm not use to it. still new, so maybe I'll feel more settled as I learn more, but I'm hella frustrated.

part of it is they've put me with the dev group for my role. I don't code. at all. not really a big issue currently, but could be later. but its more operational. I don't know how devs process they're duties that aren't just coding.

guess I just gotta be patient with me and the gig.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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Creole
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9. "Procrastination is not my friend..."
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I've known for years what getting service-connected disability determinations and payments could mean. However, I've been slow-rolling jump starting my involvement in the process.

I've got a couple of buddies who get in excess of $4k per month for themselves, $1.5k per month for their spouse, and $1.5 k per month for each kid that's in college. Why have I been procrastinating despite having my medical and dental records already copied and ready to go?

Gotta get to the money! - O.T. Genasis

--- praying for peace, love, and power

  

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flipnile
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10. "I want a pet goat."
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Neighbor down the street has chickens, I want a goat.

  

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legsdiamond
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Wed Apr-10-19 11:21 AM

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11. "Insurance denied my roof claim. "
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I don’t have any leaks but it’s old. However they claim it’s in good shape.

I guess I should be happy but I wanted a new roof. I hate the color and it makes the house look dated.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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13. "had mine done recently on a whim."
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the contractor basically did all the talking with the insurance comp. he said all the things that the insurance comp need to hear.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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legsdiamond
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14. "Had a contractor. A brotha"
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He talked a good game but once they walked the roof he got soft on me.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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FLUIDJ
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15. "who hired the "contractor" ? "
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legsdiamond
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16. "I did. "
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Insurance asked me if I wanted to use one of their people

Maybe I should’ve but I was thinking they would work together and lowball me.

I don’t have any leaks but I have some rot but that’s an easy fix



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FLUIDJ
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17. "dang...well... at least you gave it a try."
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"Get ready....for your blessing....."

  

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legsdiamond
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20. "Yeah. My contractor did say it was worth trying before repairing "
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Oh well. Gotta keep the ugly roof a bit longer.

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21. "what helped us"
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was the damage from hail and some marks from branches. the contractor had dates for past storms that didn't even hit my area.

it all seemed kinda shady until the roof was on. I even got money back to do other repairs.

better luck next time.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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23. "That was the plan. Had a nice ice storm for the claim too"
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had all types of plans for that extra money. LOL

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18. "You have have to wait on he next big Hail Storm"
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.
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“Science without religion is lame, religion without science is blind.” ~ Albert Einstein

"I cannot see how nature could have created itself. Only a supernatural force that is outside of space and time could have done that. ~ Francis Collins

  

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19. "It might be time to acknowledge that there might not be many worth"
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arguing with here.

I find post boring when everyone is on the same page so I enjoy being challenged with different opinions but I guess not all opinions are worth entertaining with a response.

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wluv
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24. "yep"
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I slept

i missed out on a position posted at my job that would have paid 20k more. I assumed that it would go to a person who had the same credentials as the person who left the job, that i know i didn't have. So i never read the posting.

Now they hired this dude off the street with hardly no experience who was coming up to me asking to teach him. Nice dude too but when i learned what the job was paying, i got a little salty and less helpful. Really just pissed off at myself though. Dude didn't do anything to me.

I will say this though that sht wont happen again.

#eyeswideopen

  

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26. "Don't help him lol, f******k dat n***a"
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Anti-gentrification, cheap alcohol & trying to look pretty in our twilight posting years (c) Big Reg
http://Tupreme.com

  

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27. "Right? Lol"
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28. "dog eat dog world"
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>Anti-gentrification, cheap alcohol & trying to look pretty in
>our twilight posting years (c) Big Reg
>>http://Tupreme.com

  

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29. "Dude could end up being his manager or higher up in his chain one day......"
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--- praying for peace, love, and power

  

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31. "Hahaha, she won't be there long enough for that in this current market"
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Anti-gentrification, cheap alcohol & trying to look pretty in our twilight posting years (c) Big Reg
http://Tupreme.com

  

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30. "Let him fail"
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<--- Big Baller World Order

  

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32. "It’s going to be an interesting summer"
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