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The situation you laid forth is one of those things where, yes, by the graces it turned out well. Too many times I found myself where I should've gotten 2-3-4-5- DWI's instead of the one I got (almost driving into Mexico??? scary..). A camera and breathalyzer in your whip is not a good look.
I'm taken a back that your children's father would let you drive. Sounds like a POS. I'm literally shaking my head as I type this. I digress...
If you're really concerned about the damage done to your body, speak to a GI. I got a liver biopsy done and that's how I found out about my cirhossis. A few months earlier, I had liver failure and quite literally turned into a Simpson character color.
Taking lactulose and ultrasounds, endoscopys, blood work, etc every 3-6 months takes its toll on the body and psyche after a while. So if you can get ahead of it, and see where you stand physically, do it.
Seclusion comes with this territory. In my humble, it's about getting that routine. Stick to it... when you feel like not going through the motions, that's when you *should* go. Whether that's AA, calling a family/friend, sponsor, etc.
As far as you and your babies, that is easy enough for people on the outside to say, "You have *children*! Why can't you stop?". I don't have children and I wish I could have, but don't stop drinking for them. Stop b/c you want to better yourself. Your sobriety comes first before all else.
From there, blocks will fall in place. It's a lifelong process and project where the only reward is a smile at the end of the night because staying sober, regardless of how long, is a miracle.
Godleeluv.... guilt is tremendous. It weighs us down to the point you feel no one undestands because they don't. You alluded to having close supportt from fam/friends but also from these boards. Keep them close as I'm sure they (we) will do the same.
Only positive vibes - Joel.
_____________________________________ No need to get my mental status cold stressin
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