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Lmao... what does a Tinder flame look like? |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 1
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I don’t know, looks like a single flame I guess. |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 4
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What's he researching for |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 2
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ReSEARCHING to see if he still got it. |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 8
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Lol. I delete all my dating apps when we decided to be exclusive. |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 12
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I could see if it was under 6 months |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 17
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Sounds like a scam |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 3
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Tinder can be lowkey HILARIOUS |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 14
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Then he could be sharing that with her. |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 15
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True. |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 33
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RE: Tinder can be lowkey HILARIOUS |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 126
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if you don't think he's cheating, |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 5
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Oh yes it is definitely about my feelings, you’re right. |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 10
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also this gotta cast at least *some* doubt on the cheating thing |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 94
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Simply move on. |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 6
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how long have you been together? |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 7
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It was one year in February. |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 11
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sounds like BS to me |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 16
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I asked him to see his tinder app since he said he didn’t respond to m... |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 18
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WAIT!!!! He wouldn’t let you see it? |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 20
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I understand, being secretive or withholding makes it worse |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 22
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"Research and humor"? The fuck is this guy? |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 9
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theres a whole subreddit devoted to tinder |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 40
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Dump him? Maybe not |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 13
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Illusion of control + male ego = relationship DOA |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 19
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if you aint gonna leave then let that man cheat in peace. |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 21
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Breh... |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 25
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Yo, I laffed but...this shit makes sense! LMAO! |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 26
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exactly, or start cheating, too |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 43
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as a man, i feel like its a red flag for him not to feel like its awkwar... |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 23
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your man could 'research and find humor' on a number of apps |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 24
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Bruh |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 27
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after my wife and I started dating |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 28
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RE: after my wife and I started dating |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 127
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What's Tinder? |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 29
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Have you told your female friends yet? |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 30
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Yeah everyone thinks he sucks. |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 36
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asking me to delete it would make me not delete it |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 31
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You mean demanding. Know damn well she didn’t ask |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 34
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Lol nah I asked |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 37
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Sweetness... |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 59
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i mean asking is pretty much the same as demanding in this situation |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 38
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yep |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 50
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It’s a cost/benefit analysis |
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Mar 23rd 2019 | 171
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being stubborn in response to an earnest request? |
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Mar 23rd 2019 | 170
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to be clear, i doubt i'd be in a relationship with an active tinder acct |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 172
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lolz |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 32
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Walks in and sits down for this. Chomp, Chomp, Chew. |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 35
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his profile is untouched |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 39
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2 things that matter more than him on Tinder |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 41
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DING DING DING |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 60
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would dude really put shit on thin ice for "research and humor?" |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 42
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he's just not that into you. |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 44
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i hear about this a lot |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 45
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that’s the nerdiest possible response he could have given |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 46
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It's over |
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Mar 18th 2019 | 47
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lol |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 52
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He's corny and you can do better nm |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 48
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This is like a weekly post on r/relationship_advice |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 49
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Man...fck all the noise these other folks yapping... Are you happy? |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 51
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No I’m not really happy. |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 53
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Make a clean break then if it ain't worth salvaging. Struggle shouldn't |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 55
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You are right. My dad thinks I should not talk to him for a week |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 56
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rule # 1 - dont listen to your parents (over something this trivial) |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 77
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i'm not trying to give sweeping advice without knowing y'all BUT |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 96
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"Are you happy?" |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 66
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just seeing this lol... |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 91
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it's not weird that you noticed |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 54
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Same sorta happened to me. |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 57
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I get the 'research and humor' excuse. |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 58
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how is tinder an ego boost |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 61
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I'd assume women are a lot more discriminating than that. |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 62
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interesting... |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 63
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Tinder be trolling niggas to stay on the app |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 64
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Well, it was doing a terrible job with me, if so. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 106
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Why is this even a situation. It's Delete, No, Ok, Bye! |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 65
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Real dudes go and find side chicks in-person instead of online |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 67
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But, is that what's really going on? |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 68
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My guess is he wants to keep his game strong... |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 79
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Real dudes have side chicks who find them |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 69
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I don't call it, pussy be crawlin' to me (c) Curren$y |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 99
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lol but how many dudes are real? |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 95
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She said she thought about this man for years.. |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 70
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I was all fucked up for a minute |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 71
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I'm still confused. Lightworks was on the breakfast club? |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 107
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was he a late bloomer? |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 72
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Yep, I’m only his third girlfriend. |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 73
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girlfriend? |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 74
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not too late to try and inbox her |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 75
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lmao |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 80
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^^^^ Pregnancy brain |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 81
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To be fair her profile says "male". I went through this ... |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 82
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I just forgot. I was a lil iffy, but rather error on the side of caution... |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 86
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Oh. I don’t even look at profiles unless the photo is wild |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 88
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The Gender in the Profile says MALE! |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 84
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Where have you been?! lmao |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 83
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Hey, The Profile says Male, I wasn't sure anymore - fluidity |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 85
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MY BAD! I forgot. I'm 45 with 2 kids on the way. |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 87
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not wanting to put "in a relationship" is sketchy |
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Mar 19th 2019 | 76
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Leave him. |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 78
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flora/ababa says hi |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 89
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What cooler than cool???? |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 90
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godcam be like: |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 92
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Jesus... |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 93
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Orisha Chango |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 98
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Oop! |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 100
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joystickbagdotcom |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 173
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yowza! |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 185
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There's no need to have a dating app if he's no longer out dating. |
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Mar 20th 2019 | 97
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RE: Sooo...My boyfriend still has Tinder and it upsets me greatly. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 101
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She said she was unhappy. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 102
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What’s weird is he doesn’t seem to think anything is wrong. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 103
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Your confused because he picked a day for date night? |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 104
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RE: Your confused because he picked a day for date night? |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 108
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She isn’t asking where this is going |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 117
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Yes that’s exactly what I’m doing lol. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 118
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I’m sure I’m not explaining myself well here. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 110
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You could always be straight up about how you feel |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 105
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This |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 114
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"...just so I could see him in person to end this" |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 109
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Oh I was gonna go to his house. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 111
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Oh, word... ok, Carry on then. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 147
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Trying to get one more stroke in to see if it’s worth salvaging. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 121
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what's the endgame here? Marie Kondo his ass.... |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 112
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Lol that’s a solid point. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 113
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you've had some time and he's had some time... |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 115
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Great advice. Thank you. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 116
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New advice needed |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 119
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Nigga sound live to me. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 120
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yep |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 130
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Nerds don’t have kids they never seen until they date you. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 132
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Funny you say that... |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 133
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seems like she could see him cheating with her own eyes |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 136
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How much are you willing to put up with? |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 122
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^^^this is really good input^^^ |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 123
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damn thats whats up |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 176
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Cut that Dude! Stop wasting your time time |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 124
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end it. Writing is on the wall |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 125
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yeesh! |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 129
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Really good points. I agree with you. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 131
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time to go |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 162
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You already know what to do..you just scared to do it. |
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Mar 25th 2019 | 196
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Did you meet on Tinder? Likely what u c is what u get if so |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 128
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Yes but what’s wrong with meeting on tinder. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 134
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I was gonna say, how else do people meet in this decade? |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 135
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College, Grad school and the social networks that last for a time after |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 138
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I guess if you're looking to get married right around/after school |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 140
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That's the best time to find a secure partner and when secure folks |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 141
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Yeah, you're never more secure than you are at age 23 |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 148
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It's a minority for sure since more people are single than married |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 157
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Lmao. This sounds crazy. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 142
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lol the pay ones suck too |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 145
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Yeah, this is just different experiences |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 150
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When it works it works. Easier the younger you are I'd wager |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 154
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You don't DATE online, though |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 151
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True but that inital process is awful. Sometimes you get lucky |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 155
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Oh, it's certainly not perfect, and there are flakes |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 156
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I'm going with the. 80/20 rule on this one |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 158
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I met my wife on okcupid |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 164
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Is this for real? |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 161
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Nothing is wrong with it, just not the best environment IMO |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 137
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I am gonna disagree with you primarily because I saw A LOT of crossover |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 139
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Cool I hope you have sucess with it and the numbers work in your favor |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 143
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Niggas just casting wide nets. Why limit yourself to one app? |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 144
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It's hard but being around new people is the best way to meet them |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 146
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If I was single I would use it |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 149
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Yeah that gets old after a while unless that's all one wants |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 159
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I met my Wife on Tinder, soooooo, hummmm |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 167
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*points @ multiple OKP marriages & love stories* |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 152
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That was back in the OKP golden age |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 153
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Niggas is getting chose on the internet is all he saying |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 160
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I literally went to an okp wedding six days ago. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 163
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When did the couple meet? |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 165
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three weeks ago here |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 166
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went to an OKP divorce "party?" 5 weeks ago. |
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Mar 21st 2019 | 168
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fam what is a divorce party? lol. |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 187
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https://giphy.com/gifs/foxhomeent-dance-whitney-houston-26FL9AWfcQuNgLRW... |
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Mar 25th 2019 | 195
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the problem is what he values more than your feelings |
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Mar 23rd 2019 | 169
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We broke up last night. |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 174
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RE: We broke up last night. |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 175
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Well I never thought he was perfect lol |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 180
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you sound like you just wanna hang on to da relationship not like |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 177
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I WAS looking for cheating you’re right. |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 179
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why you wanna be wit somebody who pushin you away n keepin his |
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Mar 25th 2019 | 192
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RE: We broke up last night. |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 178
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You’re correct. |
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Mar 25th 2019 | 190
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It's already over |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 181
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Lmao... did you break up and get back together within 24 hours? |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 182
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Sis. |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 183
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Elaine and Puddy over here |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 184
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you gotta be lightskin. |
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Mar 24th 2019 | 186
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I’m is lol |
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Mar 25th 2019 | 189
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ONE MORE QUESTION (just shouting because this thread is long) |
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Mar 25th 2019 | 188
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maam you already wearin out ya welcome in dis POST! X dat nigga |
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Mar 25th 2019 | 191
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This isn't even the first time! |
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Mar 25th 2019 | 198
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No more questions. You got all the answers you need |
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Mar 25th 2019 | 193
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You right you right. |
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Mar 25th 2019 | 194
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exactly. i'm done with this post |
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Mar 25th 2019 | 197
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^^^ she could have said "I'd rather be unhappy than single" |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 210
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It bothers *me* when people ask what my plans are, instead... |
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Mar 25th 2019 | 199
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You know how many dicks there are in the world? |
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Mar 25th 2019 | 200
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If you were a priority he would have deleted the app |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 209
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I’ve started reading up on emotional manipulators. |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 201
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i think you are one |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 202
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It’s over - rdhull |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 203
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are you codependent? |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 204
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^^^^ |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 205
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No. |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 206
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sorry, but you are |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 211
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I don’t mind being single. |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 213
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This whole thread reads like you are afraid of being alone |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 212
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That's more a byproduct of seperation anxiety than co dependency imo |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 215
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I just did some googling of anxious/avoidance & push/pull |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 216
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it totally changed my understanding of relationships |
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Mar 27th 2019 | 218
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How old are you? |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 207
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I am mid-30’s. |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 208
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ive been the man in this situation plenty of times. |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 214
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Thank you for your thoughts. |
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Mar 26th 2019 | 217
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