This is basically am I right about my boyfriend or are my girls right about my boyfriend?

So when he cooks dinner I wash dishes in general and when I cook he washes dishes (keep in mind I rarely cook so there’s that but rules is rules lol).

So Friday night he made dinner and we went to sleep before anyone washed anything.

Before he left for work Saturday morning he asked if I could wash the dishes from the night before before I left (I planned to sleep in and leave when I wanted) and I was like “Sure no problem”.

But I mentioned the exchange to my girls (only because I was just telling them about my weekend in general) my girls were like "wtf I would never wash dishes in a guy's home even if he did cook for me, it’s one thing to do it out of kindness it’s another thing for him to ask you to do it like you owe it to him”.

I truly didn’t look at it like that and was happy to wash them (just two bowls, utensils, and two pots) but now I’m like “Wait is he being a dick?”

Poll result (23 votes) Me (20 votes) Vote My girls (3 votes) Vote

The little things matter.

WHAT ARE YOU DOING LISTENING TO YOUR GIRLS OVER SOMETHING SO SMALL AND PETTY!!!???

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puttin' the roota in the toota since 98'

you and him are on the same team.

your friends might not be relationship material imo.

the ask follows the expectation.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

My wife and I have the same agreement. It works well I feel.

�If a fat guy falls in the woods and there is no one around to see it, do the trees laugh?

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

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"To Each His Reach"

but.....

Fuck aliens.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

but their response seems gendered

which is whatever, but i feel like the rules ya'll setup override whatever they talmbout.

for a meal they didn’t cook?

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

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"...Whateva, man..." (c) Redman

assuming it’s a two way street and he’d help you out when you need it too.

three homeboys know about my shit, because I could trust that any feedback or constructive critiques of my wife come out of genuine love

if dishes elicits that type of response from them, I wouldn't ever vent to them if yall have any serious issues

"Get ready....for your blessing....."

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

lol.... we're both going to hell buddy.. we may be right tho.

a.k.a. you right.

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