legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79559 posts
Mon Feb-04-19 02:56 PM
"If you caught the mother of your 3 year old child cheating"
would you question if the baby is yours?
My boy caught his GF creeping. She was mad young too (red flag).
He said the way she sounded on tape (yeah, he used his phone to record her shenanigans) it couldn’t have been her first time.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
1. "only if there is doubt to begin with." In response to Reply # 0
babies in my family look like babies in my family. If the baby had a different look then I would worry, otherwise, time to draw up a divorce and move on with life.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79559 posts
Mon Feb-04-19 03:14 PM
8. "Yeah. My kids look exactly like me when I was a baby" In response to Reply # 2
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
4. "I questioned whether the baby was mine with no cheating" In response to Reply # 0 Mon Feb-04-19 03:15 PM by flipnile
Nor did I suspect cheating, or have any reason to think the baby wasn't mine. No way I wasn't *not* gonna be suspect about such an important thing tho. No DNA, just checked his features... seeing what he has that came from me... and he looks like mini-me. I never said anything, was more just passive observation.
15. "I wanted to check to make sure the kid was, in-fact, mine." In response to Reply # 12
Obviously not enough to get a DNA test, but enough to give him a solid once-over. Not strange to me. I think ALL kids should be paternity tested by law. It can be devastating for a man to raise a kid for years only to find out he's not the biological father.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79559 posts
Tue Feb-05-19 03:06 PM
30. "That shit was beautiful " In response to Reply # 22
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79559 posts
Tue Feb-05-19 02:23 PM
25. "Even if you weren’t married? " In response to Reply # 5
You a better man than me.
I can see if married...
but if it ain’t mine and not married.... I’m out. I’m crushed but I’m outta there.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79559 posts
Tue Feb-05-19 03:04 PM
29. "I hear you. Wouldn’t be the first time it’s happened. " In response to Reply # 27
A lot of families have these arrangements.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79559 posts
Mon Feb-04-19 03:58 PM
11. "His job drug tested him because he was showing up looking crazy" In response to Reply # 7
Unshaven and not giving a fuck.
I had no idea.
When he told me he moved to my side of town I thought it was because he wanted to be closer to better schools.
Another friend told me she was mad young so he wasn’t really trying to have her around our wives. He called it.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
16. "My cousin got dumped" In response to Reply # 0
By this girl he was really feelin. He was really hurt so he was knockin off any girl that came his way. Ended up having a purely sexual relationship with some girl and she gets pregnant.
6months into the pregnancy his friends are sending him screenshots of some other girl postin pics of the ultrasound with a caption saying the babies name, which they hadn't decided yet, and that "2 mommies are better" with ol girl tagged in it.
He confronted ol girl about it and she confessed to being married to girl in the navy. He brought up the paternity test to her and she threatened him.
The baby is 1yr old now and I still can't tell who in the Fam she look like. She don't look like no Fam baby pics. Asked him if gonna get the test multiple times and he still hasn't SMH.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79559 posts
Tue Feb-05-19 09:31 AM
23. "A friend of mine signed the birth certificate" In response to Reply # 18
His momma told him that baby ain’t one of us
She refused to get the test and lawyers couldn’t do shit
Fast forward 18 years later and she tried to get him extend the child support until college. He said once he gets a chance to see the kid as an adult he will get the test done.
He rarely saw the kid even tho his fam tries since she lives in PA.
So glad I never had to deal with that type of shit.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
20. "What's the threat here?" In response to Reply # 16
>He confronted ol girl about it and she confessed to being >married >to girl in the navy. He brought up the paternity test to her >and she threatened him. >
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