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This book is a surprisingly sweet delight. It's about the relationship between sisters and what it feels like to be the "responsible" one all the time. It's really lovely.
Small Country, by Gael Faye This may not be semi-autobiographical, but it is certainly based on Faye's personal experience -- He grew up in Burundi, born to a French father and a Rwandan mother. This novel is written from the perspective of a young boy who is trying to make sense of the Rwandan genocide and the violence in Burundi. It's riveting and harrowing and really beautifully written.
With The End in Mind: Dying, Death, and Wisdom in an Age of Denial, by Kathryn Mannix One of the best books I've read on the experience of dying written by someone not dying. It's a funny genre, you know. There are books about the experience of dying by people who are dying as they write their books. Then there are books about dying by people who see a whole bunch of people die, individually, I'm not talking about genocide here, and the sense is very different. Like, when you're around it a lot, you can make very truthful statements about the physical experience that most people have, but if it's you who is dying, you can only talk about your own experience and it is very likely to be totally different. So, anyway, this kind of book is super helpful to me as a hospice caregiver volunteer. You know, a huge percentage of people who are dying have never read a lot about what to expect, so it can be really great to be able to give them some comforting generalities. Okay, I'm kind of rambling. But I do think that this is a book that anyone would do well to read, if only to comfort themselves with the collected information on how it's not as bad as you think.
The Great Believers, by Rebecca Makkai This one really hit me where I live. I started doing hospice volunteer work in the 80s, when so little was known about AIDS, and there is so much in this book that reminded me of my own experiences. I guess I'm getting old enough that my teens and 20s are now a historical period huh. ~ ~ ~ All meetings end in separation All acquisition ends in dispersion All life ends in death - The Buddha
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