**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
11. "Hopefully, ideally? Keep my cool and take the legal approach. " In response to Reply # 0
In terms of revenge fantasy, I can imagine all sorts of scenarios, but I'd rather ponder ways to hold it together since I'd need to be around for my kid through her recovery, among other things, I'd also need to be around for my younger son.
So my hope is that I'd be able to hold it together.
But that's as an observer and/or learning of the incident after the fact.
Now, if I'm there when it happens? Who the fuck knows. I hope I'd be more focused getting down to help my baby (always!) Then taking instant vengeance.