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tully_blanchard
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"When you offend by asking a question so you don't offend...smh"
Mon May-21-18 04:42 PM by tully_blanchard

  

          

Hooray for marriage!!!!!!!

skiptomyloop..




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Today, I told my grandsons...
May 21st 2018
1
So, the 23 year old
May 22nd 2018
2
      Response WAS lightweight snarky fam..... but you should know....
May 22nd 2018
3
      Really? I'm looking over the text convo, and call me male
May 22nd 2018
4
           It's a text. So everybody can put a different voice to the same words...
May 22nd 2018
5
           it doesn't matter when it's a text
May 22nd 2018
6
                Amen bruddah...
May 22nd 2018
9
      he lives away...
May 22nd 2018
7
      Because the relationship aint always peaches and cream.
May 22nd 2018
8
           probably one of those times we want you to just listen...
May 22nd 2018
10
                It wouldve been easier to just listen if we werent texting
May 22nd 2018
11
                     fair point...
May 22nd 2018
12
                     thumbs up emoji bruh...
May 22nd 2018
13
                     perfect time for a "THAT'S what's up" reply
May 22nd 2018
14
                          bruh, my emoji game is on point
May 22nd 2018
17
      you don't want no smoke lol
May 22nd 2018
15
           She was ready to give me ALL the smoke bruh...lol..
May 22nd 2018
16
                #DoubleBarrows
May 22nd 2018
18
                     That's basically what happens...
May 22nd 2018
19

Trinity444
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1. "Today, I told my grandsons..."
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“y’all do know girls are smarter than boys, right?
they argued with me...
talking about, all the girls in their class are dumb

me: “in 20 years, you think back to this conversation and remember I told y’all that”
looked at my granddaughter and said, “aren’t we?
she kissed me and said yes

and we finished our burger...


  

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tully_blanchard
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2. "So, the 23 year old"
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Air Force Reserves, living with his GF in Augusta, like 2.5 hours away.

He got his duty changed to where he can do it here in Atlanta (Marietta, but still..)

Wife is all happy that her "baby" will be closer to home, cause his "presence" is missed at home.

Me-by presence, do you mean his actual physical presence, or the fact that cause he's got other things going on, he doesnt call as often, yadda yadda yadda


Wife-No to both (words, words, words), and I'm offended that you would even ask that, or think that I would try to clip his wings.

Me-Wasnt insinuating any of that, I was just asking you for clarity, so I'd know exactly what you were talking about, so I didnt assume one way or the other

..mind you, this is all in text.


She had just got finished saying how his brother (who's here in Atlanta) was saying to her how it sucks that his brother is so close, but still not here with everybody.


Honestly...was that a wrong move on my part? To ask for clarity?






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FLUIDJ
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Tue May-22-18 07:27 AM

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3. "Response WAS lightweight snarky fam..... but you should know...."
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"Don't NOBODY betta say nothin bout MY BABY" - Every Mom, Ever

"Get ready....for your blessing....."

  

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tully_blanchard
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4. "Really? I'm looking over the text convo, and call me male"
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but I don't see snark. I see somebody being careful to not respond wrong.


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PimpTrickGangstaClik
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Tue May-22-18 08:11 AM

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5. "It's a text. So everybody can put a different voice to the same words..."
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And come out with very different interpretations. In your head, it's straightforward questions.
On her end, it's said in a snarky way.

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Tue May-22-18 08:23 AM

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6. "it doesn't matter when it's a text"
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one thing I realized is no matter how you feel when you send a text it really depends on how the receiver is feeling when they receive it.

damn near every other text I send my wife I feel like she can take it the wrong way.. especially if she doesn't respond back for a few..

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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tully_blanchard
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9. "Amen bruddah..."
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But let us read it the wrong way...smh





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7. "he lives away..."
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why would you need clarity on what she meant by presence if he lives away?
just think about the distance between you and your daughter...


  

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tully_blanchard
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8. "Because the relationship aint always peaches and cream."
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And even her answer shows that I was right for not assuming that she meant "I want my baby back in the house".

I was ready to give the "let the boy live a little" but she was quick to tell me that she didnt mean she wanted to clip his wings, so before I said "let him live", I figured I'd ask exactly what she meant by presence.





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Trinity444
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10. "probably one of those times we want you to just listen..."
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all things assuming by me...

It may be why she was offended by it
because of their rocky relationship...

like. I’m very sensitive to discussing my ex. my bff asked if I heard from him. I looked at her, “why do you always asks me that - he’s dead to me”. Her: “because I know you loved him”.

I was pissed but not sure why
because she knew how much I loved him
or her reopening the wound...





  

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tully_blanchard
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11. "It wouldve been easier to just listen if we werent texting"
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A "no response" = "what I said to you aint important enough for you to respond?"






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Trinity444
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12. "fair point..."
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In that case, I may have replied...
“wonderful news honey”
“glad to hear something made your day”


  

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13. "thumbs up emoji bruh..."
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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FLUIDJ
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14. "perfect time for a "THAT'S what's up" reply "
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lol

  

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17. "bruh, my emoji game is on point"
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thumbs up
happy face
ok
cool

these responses never fail

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15. "you don't want no smoke lol"
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it's hard to read 'tone' into a text.

you said their relationship aint all peaches and cream, and you are justified in wondering what she meant...

but sometimes you hafta just leave it at a wonder.

your 'asking for clarity' may be inadvertently 'starting some shit' and ....yeah dont start no shxt.

marriage comes with enough shit without 'us' starting any more.

leave.that.shit.alone.

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tully_blanchard
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16. "She was ready to give me ALL the smoke bruh...lol.."
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I stopped trying to explain myself, let go and let God.



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18. "#DoubleBarrows"
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keep this one in your pocket.

I'm assuming there'll be a time when he'll be on her nerves, and you can smirk, as you hold your pinky outward, sipping your smooth whiskey....."ah, eah...but you glad to have your baby close..."


then you walk into your study, close the door and turn on the playstation. LOL

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tully_blanchard
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19. "That's basically what happens..."
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Thursday-OHHH!!! MY BABY IS HOME!!!!!!!

Friday-We talked all day long...I'm exhausted..

Saturday- Tully, this boy thank he too damn grown to listen to anything I have to say..

Me-Pouring a drink and looking for my Bobby Womack album to play

Sunday afternoon-I hate to see him leave..




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