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Trinity444
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"I just cut off my hair..."


  

          

I'm examining myself again. I feel like every few moths I go through "this". Some days are more difficult than others; however, lately I'm discovering more...at least I think I am. lol

When I told the children I was cutting my hair off they said not to pick them up from school tomorrow. I can't wait to pull up on them....I might yell out the window at them.

but yeah, I'm on to something. I can feel it...

  

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Wakanda forever?
Apr 17th 2018
1
You Big Chopped?
Apr 17th 2018
2
no snark.. but is this really a thing with women and hair?
Apr 17th 2018
3
I feel like the hair cutting thing
Apr 17th 2018
4
I get it if you had real long hair for years
Apr 17th 2018
9
I don't know...
Apr 17th 2018
14
you gonna let us see the new do?
Apr 17th 2018
5
lemme find out..
Apr 17th 2018
10
she'll have a lot more fans...
Apr 17th 2018
11
Booooyy........
Apr 17th 2018
12
that edge up is too sharp for me
Apr 17th 2018
13
nah, men treat women different based on how she looks...
Apr 17th 2018
15
      I'm nice to ALL the ladies
Apr 19th 2018
19
Mandate
Apr 17th 2018
6
^THIS^
Apr 17th 2018
7
soooooo.....what did he do?
Apr 17th 2018
8
broke my heart...
Apr 17th 2018
16
Nothing like it.
Apr 17th 2018
17
I can recall the feeling of not caring when I had locs...
Apr 18th 2018
18
      back when I had locks it was so easy
Apr 19th 2018
20

KiloMcG
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Tue Apr-17-18 05:48 AM

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1. "Wakanda forever? "
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flipnile
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Tue Apr-17-18 06:51 AM

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2. "You Big Chopped?"
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legsdiamond
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Tue Apr-17-18 06:54 AM

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3. "no snark.. but is this really a thing with women and hair?"
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I get the whole "chop it off" once to go in a new direction but if you cut your hair off every few months does it have the same effect or is it just a haircut?

shut up already, damn

  

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tariqhu
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Tue Apr-17-18 07:40 AM

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4. "I feel like the hair cutting thing"
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is an old wives tale. I'm sure some folks are actually going through stuff and feel like changing the hair is part of it. but what about all those folks that don't cut their hair and are dealing with life?



nah, you trippin

  

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legsdiamond
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Tue Apr-17-18 08:32 AM

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9. "I get it if you had real long hair for years"
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I had locks and after 10 years I cut them. It really felt like a weight was lifted cause they were heavy.

and it really does change how people view you if all they see is your hair.

but I feel like that’s a once every decade type thing. Not 3 times a year n

shut up already, damn

  

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Trinity444
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Tue Apr-17-18 11:36 AM

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14. "I don't know..."
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it goes back to why I grew my locs. it wasn't for style...fashion; yet, the realm I was in. life was different for me back then. It was like, my period of enlightenment lol. After about 10 yrs and significant changes in my life, I cut them shorter. Let it grow again...cut it shorter again. I didn't grow it again just kept the same style for 7 more years. Then I "picked" them out.

so yeah. To answer your question. I don't believe I can go in a new direction when I'm holding on to the same hair. That hair held burdens. Its becoming for evident to me that I'm no longer the same woman.

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It didn't even cross my mind about it being snark

  

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tariqhu
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Tue Apr-17-18 07:41 AM

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5. "you gonna let us see the new do?"
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nah, you trippin

  

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infin8
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10. "lemme find out.."
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tariqhu
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Tue Apr-17-18 10:22 AM

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11. "she'll have a lot more fans..."
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nah, you trippin

  

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tully_blanchard
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Tue Apr-17-18 10:33 AM

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12. "Booooyy........"
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legsdiamond
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Tue Apr-17-18 11:23 AM

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13. "that edge up is too sharp for me"
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I don't mind low cuts on women but the hard lines don't do it for me...

shut up already, damn

  

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Trinity444
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Tue Apr-17-18 11:44 AM

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15. "nah, men treat women different based on how she looks..."
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let's be comfortable with the anonymity

It gives us more freedom


  

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infin8
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19. "I'm nice to ALL the ladies"
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thass why I'm in trouble NOW.

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MEAT
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Tue Apr-17-18 07:43 AM

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6. "Mandate"
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“There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn.” -Albert Camus

  

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KnowOne
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Tue Apr-17-18 07:56 AM

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7. "^THIS^"
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nm

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ambient1
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8. "soooooo.....what did he do?"
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:-D

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Coolin...

  

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Trinity444
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16. "broke my heart..."
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It was a selfless love too
and we don't get too many of them lol

what's up ambient

  

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Sepia.
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Tue Apr-17-18 06:39 PM

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17. "Nothing like it."
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It's been over 3 years now and I still enjoy cutting my hair back with that #1 guard comb.

I do look forward to the day that I'm in a place where having more
than a half inch of hair feels right, but at this time I just can't even stomach it.

It's too bad I "don't have the face" for it and cut off the one thing of beauty I had!
*skips off into the rain*

  

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Trinity444
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18. "I can recall the feeling of not caring when I had locs..."
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like. not concerned about how I looked. It was such a beautiful space to be in and this past year I’ve struggled to get back there.

I feel closer now that I’ve cut the hair

  

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legsdiamond
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Thu Apr-19-18 01:06 PM

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20. "back when I had locks it was so easy"
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I could look rough as hell and still get that "whew, look at you!" from the ladies

I showed some older coworkers (black churchy type) an old photo and they said they woulda crossed the street if they saw me. Fucking bougie asses...

only problem was the weed references from every white bro at parties.


not sure I would get the same good will overall in 2018 since locks are like tattoos, everybody got em

shut up already, damn

  

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