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Trinity444
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"untitled "


  

          

"the woman I'm with would have to love God"
I asked what does that mean.
I'm waiting for him to get back....

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I was sharing with some friends my reservation about meeting someone new. like, what if I don't like the way he dress, his hair. They said, I can change all that. I told them I would be offended if a guy told me he didn't like the way I dress or the style of my hair. Am I crazy or are they?

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Yall gotta help me lol

  

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Thought this was gonna be a video of you singing naked...
Nov 02nd 2017
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give me a better title...
Nov 02nd 2017
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      "Don't Make Me Over"
Nov 03rd 2017
63
are they single?
Nov 02nd 2017
2
OR.....
Nov 02nd 2017
12
don't worry about how he dresses.
Nov 02nd 2017
4
I honestly don't know how to do that...
Nov 02nd 2017
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lots of people have all kinds of
Nov 02nd 2017
14
What if he shows up in pocketless cotton sweatpants...
Nov 02nd 2017
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      then she might have to run!
Nov 02nd 2017
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RE: untitled
Nov 02nd 2017
5
he seem always on...
Nov 02nd 2017
11
      he'd feel some type of way but within reason...nothin major
Nov 02nd 2017
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RE: untitled
Nov 02nd 2017
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Trin is difficult by default
Nov 02nd 2017
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LMAO...
Nov 02nd 2017
13
      while you may be difficult, this is true...
Nov 02nd 2017
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           thank you Kilo...
Nov 02nd 2017
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           see? i *can* be nice to you
Nov 02nd 2017
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           that part!
Nov 02nd 2017
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                you're my girl!
Nov 02nd 2017
45
lol
Nov 02nd 2017
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      you can ask anything..
Nov 02nd 2017
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his dick don't work.
Nov 02nd 2017
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RE: untitled (How Does It Feel?)
Nov 02nd 2017
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maybe he has a cat named god?
Nov 02nd 2017
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maybe I'm wrong but I feel like Trin don't want her chair pulled out
Nov 02nd 2017
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      really?
Nov 02nd 2017
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           I honestly have no idea where you stand on most issues
Nov 02nd 2017
28
           sincerity vs smarm
Nov 02nd 2017
31
                you totally got me!
Nov 02nd 2017
33
Ask him what's taking him so long to answer. What do you have to lose?
Nov 02nd 2017
22
Bet he says he was praying on it
Nov 02nd 2017
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he responded...
Nov 02nd 2017
34
      then check the sig.
Nov 02nd 2017
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           CHUUUCH!!!
Nov 03rd 2017
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you don't need help...just be ok with rejecting and getting rejected
Nov 02nd 2017
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RE: you don't need help...just be ok with rejecting and getting rejected...
Nov 02nd 2017
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      key observation you missed...i said in the beginning
Nov 02nd 2017
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      I'm talking about the line. I'm not here for you.. my parents just fucke...
Nov 02nd 2017
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           lol
Nov 02nd 2017
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      Stevie = sexy time?
Nov 02nd 2017
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           get your mind out the gutter. I said a candle lit dinner
Nov 02nd 2017
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                What else am I supposed to think?
Nov 02nd 2017
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                     You act like all I wanna do is zoom zoom in your boom boom
Nov 03rd 2017
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Ahm.
Nov 02nd 2017
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right. But then again if a dude takes a woman shopping
Nov 02nd 2017
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lol..what?
Nov 02nd 2017
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      I’m talking about how women try to dress men
Nov 03rd 2017
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           Ahhh. I get you. I dunno tho...to me...
Nov 04th 2017
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she wouldn't mind if she liked him...
Nov 02nd 2017
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      You mean ex husband? Lol
Nov 02nd 2017
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      this sounds like an insecure dude.
Nov 03rd 2017
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           depends on the man...
Nov 03rd 2017
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                she better put on some damn appropriate clothes!
Nov 03rd 2017
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                I can't say I'd care too much.
Nov 03rd 2017
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                     yeah pretty much, dudes gonna look regardless
Nov 03rd 2017
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                          depends...
Nov 03rd 2017
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                          haha EXACTLY!
Nov 03rd 2017
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                          and I think that's what this convo is about
Nov 03rd 2017
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                               I thought this was about just
Nov 03rd 2017
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                                    her friends told her she can change his style
Nov 03rd 2017
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so yeah...
Nov 03rd 2017
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Beware the catfish
Nov 03rd 2017
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lawd have mercy...
Nov 03rd 2017
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I walked into work....
Nov 06th 2017
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RE: I walked into work....
Nov 06th 2017
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      fluid...what say you?
Nov 06th 2017
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           I have to dig waaaaay back for those memories....but yes, I agree...
Nov 06th 2017
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                I feel like you're telling me to be careful...
Nov 06th 2017
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                     http://gifimage.net/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/huh-gif.gif
Nov 06th 2017
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                     what do you mean?
Nov 06th 2017
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                     I'm just saying don't retire them heels once you get him.
Nov 06th 2017
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flipnile
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1. "Thought this was gonna be a video of you singing naked..."
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...w/ everything *just* out of view.

  

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Trinity444
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3. "give me a better title..."
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flipnile
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63. ""Don't Make Me Over""
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Sticking with the song theme.

Sybil - Don't Make Me Over
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fvb6ovTNQPk

  

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RobOne4
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2. "are they single?"
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sure sounds like it

November 8th, 2005 The greatest night in the history of GD!

  

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12. "OR....."
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a pimping ass pastor with game

  

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4. "don't worry about how he dresses."
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focus on how he treats you during the date and how the interactions and chemistry go. not if his shoes match his belt.


you're meeting him. not his attire.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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Trinity444
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6. "I honestly don't know how to do that..."
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like, to not have any expectations. folks, keep telling me to relax but, am I really any different than anyone else?

  

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14. "lots of people have all kinds of"
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Thu Nov-02-17 11:08 AM by tariqhu

          

hang ups about the dating game. but try to focus on what really matters and think about the good things that could happen rather than the negative stuff.

if nothing else, you're getting a free meal and hopefully a good time. his gear should not be a deal breaker solely based on pics.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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17. "What if he shows up in pocketless cotton sweatpants..."
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...white tube socks, Jorns, a Lebron James Miami Heat throwback and a yellow Avirex leather?

  

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tariqhu
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40. "then she might have to run!"
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Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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5. "RE: untitled "
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>"the woman I'm with would have to love God"
>I asked what does that mean.
>I'm waiting for him to get back....
>

He's Christian...regular old school christian


>
>I was sharing with some friends my reservation about meeting
>someone new. like, what if I don't like the way he dress, his
>hair. They said, I can change all that. I told them I would be
>offended if a guy told me he didn't like the way I dress or
>the style of my hair. Am I crazy or are they?
>


if they old(er) and corny which they most likely are, they wouldn't care and prolly use to it in some fashion...the niggas who would care, would normally care or put time/effort into their look and you just wouldn't be feelin it
if they are young and corny they wouldn't care
if they are regular..they prolly wouldn't care for the most part unless you were tryin to completely overhaul their demo

>
>Yall gotta help me lol
>

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Coolin...

  

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Trinity444
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11. "he seem always on..."
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suit and tie everywhere type. mot that theres anything wrong with it
but, the style is more flashy than it is well put together. I guess the struggle for me is...can I get pass it or change it

of the pictures I have in my profile a guy asked which was the real me. I was a little put off by the question because in my mind there is no difference. yet, I told him I wanted to provide a causal and well put together look to shoe my versatility ...

  

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16. "he'd feel some type of way but within reason...nothin major"
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=======================================
Coolin...

  

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7. "RE: untitled "
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>"the woman I'm with would have to love God"
>I asked what does that mean.
>I'm waiting for him to get back....

he might cancel the date. I would..

If I'm a christian and you ask me what that means, that tells me you gonna be difficult. lol


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>/
>
>I was sharing with some friends my reservation about meeting
>someone new. like, what if I don't like the way he dress, his
>hair. They said, I can change all that. I told them I would be
>offended if a guy told me he didn't like the way I dress or
>the style of my hair. Am I crazy or are they?

you can change all that? At this age? Nah.. gotta roll with it. Just hope he is a good dude. He might dress like a Bamma tho..

but you wanna win or look good losing?

>
>/
>
>Yall gotta help me lol


help you what? It's a date not an arranged marriage.

just make sure you don't order from the fucking side of the menu.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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10. "Trin is difficult by default"
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13. "LMAO..."
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I'm a black and white thinker, there are no grey areas with me.

cant see the forest from the trees or is the trees through the forest? lol whatever


I'm a reasonable woman because I know this about myself.

you, he...whomever, has to be willing to challenge my thinking.

not many want this work LOL

  

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18. "while you may be difficult, this is true..."
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once whoever is able to get through that or learn how to deal with it, they've got a great one. whoever gets you will be lucky to have you. your loyalty is through the roof, and that's a great thing.

  

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Trinity444
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19. "thank you Kilo..."
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that was nice

  

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35. "see? i *can* be nice to you"
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;-)

  

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27. "that part!"
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https://media.giphy.com/media/32RVnVCM7fO12/giphy.gif

  

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Trinity444
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45. "you're my girl! "
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Trinity444
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15. "lol"
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Thu Nov-02-17 11:16 AM by Trinity444

  

          

>>"the woman I'm with would have to love God"
>>I asked what does that mean.
>>I'm waiting for him to get back....
>
>he might cancel the date. I would..
>
>

I cant I ask a question like that?

  

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21. "you can ask anything.. "
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but best believe if I say "I want a lady in the street and a freak in the bed"

and you ask me what that means?

I'm out.

I don't have time for the "but why, but why, but why..."

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8. "his dick don't work."
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he probly'll treat you nice tho.

IG: amadu_me

"...Whateva, man..." (c) Redman

  

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9. "RE: untitled (How Does It Feel?)"
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ok now i'll read the post.

  

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20. "maybe he has a cat named god?"
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I jest

prolly goes to church... says grace... believes in an afterlife and doesn't want to spend it without his chosen partner... as long as he doesn't let Jesus drive his car, speak in tongues or handle poisonous snakes, you'll probably be alright imo... but it's a fair question for you to ask as there are a wide variety of beliefs and interpretations to be had.

as for appearance I'd say just avoid the unkempt and the meticulous(unless you dig what the meticulous is doing with it).. the unkempt just don't care and will resent any input you may eventually give, the meticulous just isn't going to hear you as they will already be in love with what they got going on.... you want somebody who obviously cares about what they present but not to the point of vanity and self absorption

As most folks here have said focus on how you're treated.. doors should be opened for you. should stand when you arrive after him if not pull a chair out for you and if you arrive together should offer you a chair and wait for you to sit first etc... conversation should not be too focused on one or the other of you to the point of dominating the conversation one way or the other(indicating self absorption or aloof and creepy).

there that's my 34 cents worth

  

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23. "maybe I'm wrong but I feel like Trin don't want her chair pulled out"
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"don't be checking my ass out b"

like that's prolly what she would be thinking if he did that.

or opened the door for her

ionno, maybe she is traditional but I get a feeling Trin is rust belt with it on some "this nigga soft..fuck the door, start the car and make sure that heat is on playa.. you like Jay Z?"

just thinking back to some of my dates with women from the Burgh. That doesn't impress them, it makes them suspicious.

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26. "really?"
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I gotta stop playing with you because you got me all the way wrong. I welcome all that. What I struggle with is worthiness because I know there are some folks that don't know it like to "not" be taken advantage of...deceived...mistreated. what it feels like to be loved. So Id rather open doors, pay for dinner, whatever..

and that's just the half...

  

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28. "I honestly have no idea where you stand on most issues"
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you surprise me every day with some of your views/post

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31. "sincerity vs smarm"
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I think I got you... I'm sure there's a lot of finer detail I could learn about still... but I hope I got a sense of your broader strokes by now.

I'm talking about sincerity and respect rather than blatant attempts to impress through presentation.

  

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33. "you totally got me!"
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eh

  

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22. "Ask him what's taking him so long to answer. What do you have to lose?"
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"Get ready....for your blessing....."

  

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24. "Bet he says he was praying on it"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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34. "he responded..."
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I'm satisfied. its not overly religious in tone and makes sense considering the current state of his life.

  

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38. "then check the sig."
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"Get ready....for your blessing....."

  

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58. "CHUUUCH!!!"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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25. "you don't need help...just be ok with rejecting and getting rejected "
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my wife told me a lot in the beginning one thing that attracted her to me was I really did not court her
either you like me or not
if you do....cool
if you don't keep stepping
im not here for you...im here because my mom and dad fucked one night

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Navem nu, cuando sol
Tutu nu, vondo nos nu
Vita em, no continous non
Nos nu ekta nos sepe ta, amen

When the sun shades the ship
We sweat and life is not safe
To swim or to touch not
When we unite we hedge amen

  

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29. "RE: you don't need help...just be ok with rejecting and getting rejected..."
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>im not here for you...im here because my mom and dad fucked
>one night

ehh.. this can sound dope if we both high and Redman is playing in the background

but it can also kill the mood if Stevie was on and candles were lit at a dinner table.



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30. "key observation you missed...i said in the beginning "
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Navem nu, cuando sol
Tutu nu, vondo nos nu
Vita em, no continous non
Nos nu ekta nos sepe ta, amen

When the sun shades the ship
We sweat and life is not safe
To swim or to touch not
When we unite we hedge amen

  

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32. "I'm talking about the line. I'm not here for you.. my parents just fucke..."
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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36. "lol"
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"She was like, 'Redman! Buy me boots.'
So I, bought her Timbs, and a army
Suit" ~ Doc

  

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37. "Stevie = sexy time?"
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When did that happen?

  

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41. "get your mind out the gutter. I said a candle lit dinner "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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43. "What else am I supposed to think?"
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Candle lit dinners ain't for no barbecue picnic.

  

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50. "You act like all I wanna do is zoom zoom in your boom boom"
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39. "Ahm. "
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>"the woman I'm with would have to love God"
>I asked what does that mean.
>I'm waiting for him to get back....

....if you're not a religious person or at least 'spiritual'. Things might get tricky.


>
>/
>
>I was sharing with some friends my reservation about meeting
>someone new. like, what if I don't like the way he dress, his
>hair. They said, I can change all that. I told them I would be
>offended if a guy told me he didn't like the way I dress or
>the style of my hair. Am I crazy or are they?

Yeah...the societal double standards on this are real. Far more acceptable for a woman to want change her mans dress/hair/style. It's seen as 'upgrading' him. With the history of women/beauty standards and the male gaze etc it's not cool for the opposite.




>
>/
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>Yall gotta help me lol
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42. "right. But then again if a dude takes a woman shopping"
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and pays for it he might be able to get away with it.

but that means he gotta sit around while she tries stuff on.

Yeah... you right.

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47. "lol..what?"
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51. "I’m talking about how women try to dress men"
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and how the reverse can also happen if you are willing to put on some work.

but most of us aren’t willing to do all that.

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65. "Ahhh. I get you. I dunno tho...to me..."
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....the whole dressing your man/woman thing is a bit weird.
..buying stuff your partner likes is cool but I wouldn't buy something I know my lady doesn't usually wear that I'd like to see her in (lingerie excluded lol)....and I wouldn't be cool with her buying me shit I don't usually wear out the blue. But hey...that's just me.

  

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44. "she wouldn't mind if she liked him..."
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a friend of mine wasn't the most modest dresser. She once told me her husband told her she couldn't keep coming around dressed like that. He's now her husband...

  

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46. "You mean ex husband? Lol"
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>a friend of mine wasn't the most modest dresser. She once
>told me her husband told her she couldn't keep coming around
>dressed like that. He's now her husband...
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48. "this sounds like an insecure dude."
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Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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49. "depends on the man..."
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some men are ok with other men checking out their lady, while others aren't.

by way of example. you're standing around with the fellas and your lady walks up in a pair or daisy dukes. How you feeling?

  

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52. "she better put on some damn appropriate clothes!"
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53. "I can't say I'd care too much."
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they're gonna look whether its a nun outfit or bathing suit. if somebody's flirting, then there's an issue. looking, eh.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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54. "yeah pretty much, dudes gonna look regardless"
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but i'd be giving her the side eye like you're 35, why are you dressing like you're 20?

  

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55. "depends..."
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>but i'd be giving her the side eye like you're 35, why are
>you dressing like you're 20?

I like a booty hanging out....at the house lol

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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56. "haha EXACTLY!"
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>I like a booty hanging out....at the house lol
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57. "and I think that's what this convo is about"
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you like the woman, she likes you.. but he/she dresses like they fresh out the joint or in their early 20's..

all while having countless convos about why they aren't being treated with respect out in these streets.

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59. "I thought this was about just"
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her not liking how dude might dress. not necessarily about the age appropriateness of it. although that could fall into this as well.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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61. "her friends told her she can change his style"
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that's what I've been talking about this whole time. Age appropriate is just one example.



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60. "so yeah..."
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the date is pushed back another week
it was a mutual decision

we were going to meet for dinner
but there distance between us
his work schedule is crazy
and I usually need a nap right after work...

so far, he scoring points...

  

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62. "Beware the catfish "
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64. "lawd have mercy..."
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66. "I walked into work...."
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in red pumps...

my new "friend" asked if I like a lot of attention. I told him since women receive unsolicited offers daily, not really. its different when you welcome the offer. like, when you like the guy.

we did the video conference thing all weekend...

**blushes**

  

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67. "RE: I walked into work...."
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SSgp-IIgr4I&feature=youtu.be&t=20

"Get ready....for your blessing....."

  

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68. "fluid...what say you?"
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we date people but everyone doesn't hold our attention. When you find someone that does...the vibe is different.. or nah?

  

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69. "I have to dig waaaaay back for those memories....but yes, I agree..."
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When the feeling is mutual, anything goes.

I imagine it's a TAD different for women, because men will be pigs without hesitation...but I've witnessed first hand guys getting away with murder because the female on the receiving end was feeling the guy....maybe not murder...but I've seen guys say some wild shit and walk off with their prize like it was nothing.

With that said, when the relationship starts to get up there in years, don't forget to show glimmers of the past as a reminder.

>we date people but everyone doesn't hold our attention. When
>you find someone that does...the vibe is different.. or nah?


"Get ready....for your blessing....."

  

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70. "I feel like you're telling me to be careful..."
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I hear you

  

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71. "http://gifimage.net/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/huh-gif.gif"
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http://gifimage.net/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/huh-gif.gif

I think you hearing what you want/need to hear...

and that's cool

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73. "what do you mean?"
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72. "I'm just saying don't retire them heels once you get him. "
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"Get ready....for your blessing....."

  

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