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Buddy_Gilapagos
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"Anyone else feel like they are getting dumber?"


  

          

Can't finish a book.

Not only movies feel too long, but hour long dramas seem to much like a time commitment.

What do I do with my time, flip between web pages and twitter delivered articles.


I am considering radically changing my internet usage. Read the news once a day, and limit twitter and okp type pages usage.

Anyone else feel this way?

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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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Oct 10th 2017
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Nope. I've been learning more than ever the past few years.
Oct 10th 2017
2
do you work?
Oct 10th 2017
3
Computer programmer, so I gotta learn stuff for the job too.
Oct 10th 2017
9
You a big gym rat right? Smoker? Drinker? Kids?
Oct 10th 2017
5
Medium gym rat, I chief, got kids.
Oct 10th 2017
11
      respect. I am trying to replace the drinking socializing with
Oct 10th 2017
13
      I Like this...
Apr 15th 2019
63
Stands in this line.
Oct 10th 2017
8
      Man, figuring out how to mute strings on guitar is driving me crazy
Oct 10th 2017
15
           I call it Dad Bod home gym
Oct 10th 2017
16
                haha there's no weight lifting associated with Dad Bod
Oct 10th 2017
20
                     Exactly. If I don't lift I'm gonna get dad bod.
Oct 10th 2017
22
total opposite....only thing i'm losing is energy
Oct 10th 2017
4
physically or mentally?
Oct 10th 2017
7
physically.... but prolly because i lift very large weights over my head
Oct 10th 2017
12
Word :(
Oct 10th 2017
17
nah, i just dont have patience for alot of stuff.
Oct 10th 2017
6
Mayne, think about what Negroes felt like in the post reconstruction
Oct 10th 2017
14
i'm not as hopeful and optimistic as i used to be about society
Oct 10th 2017
10
this
Oct 10th 2017
18
added to my list, thanks!
Oct 11th 2017
36
no worries... let me know your thoughts after.
Oct 13th 2017
42
worth repeating....
Apr 16th 2019
67
the opposite
Oct 10th 2017
19
definitely feel you on the internet usage.
Oct 10th 2017
21
i've been trying to become 'smarter'
Oct 10th 2017
23
RE: i've been trying to become 'smarter'
Oct 23rd 2018
54
"Most people are only as smart as they need to be"
Oct 10th 2017
24
Great point. I saw a few text books and gagged
Oct 11th 2017
34
You're bored not dumb
Oct 10th 2017
25
Yes, and limited internet worked for me before
Oct 10th 2017
26
Brain rewired from internet detox
Oct 11th 2017
35
not dumber, but less time and care about
Oct 10th 2017
27
About the Internet, I mostly use it as a library, for tutorials, music.....
Oct 10th 2017
28
Ninja, you up in this place bout as much as me. What you talking bou.
Oct 10th 2017
29
      Work hours, bruh. You're right tho, OKP is social media
Oct 10th 2017
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           lolol i'm wit you tho...i put OKP in a whole different category than soc...
Oct 10th 2017
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I read a lot more than I use to
Oct 10th 2017
30
nahhhhh. much smarter. i just care less about things in general tho.
Oct 10th 2017
31
sustained concentration is basically under assault
Oct 11th 2017
37
not yet, but i know how much i rely on my memory/wits
Oct 11th 2017
38
The exact opposite.
Oct 12th 2017
39
watch "fahrenheit 11/9", you love it
Oct 25th 2018
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RE:
Oct 12th 2017
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my memory is shit now
Oct 13th 2017
41
wow, yes. all of that exactly.
Oct 13th 2017
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RE: Anyone else feel like they are getting dumber?
Oct 23rd 2018
44
i think part of it is the quality of writing in articles
Oct 23rd 2018
45
and I KEEP. FALLING. FOR IT.
Oct 23rd 2018
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      i usually try to pick which article i click on
Oct 23rd 2018
50
poor diet
Oct 23rd 2018
46
Yes. With my upcoming birthday and after very close to 20 years here,
Oct 23rd 2018
47
you mean no more videos of what you're listening to in the car?
Oct 23rd 2018
51
      Pretty much...
Oct 23rd 2018
52
           haha
Oct 23rd 2018
53
1 year later I haven't done none of that shit. SMH.
Oct 23rd 2018
49
Twitter is the worst of them to me
Oct 23rd 2018
56
idk if 'finishing a book' is a mark of intellegence
Oct 23rd 2018
55
not dumber but social media/smartphones/tech killed the attn span
Oct 24th 2018
57
Folks are only curious about stuff that isn’t easily accessible
Apr 14th 2019
60
How's this coming along?
Apr 14th 2019
59
LOL. Bruh you know how much you have to be in your feelings..
Apr 16th 2019
65
      You do this all the time. Thought I'd return the favor for once.
Apr 16th 2019
66
           Yeah, I was tripping for a minute
Apr 16th 2019
68
No, you’re just old & washed nm
Apr 14th 2019
61
Nope. I recently took a drinking break and replaced
Apr 15th 2019
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Hey!!! Glad to hear.
Apr 16th 2019
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Trinity444
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1. "Time?"
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I feel like it’s not enough time in the day. like. I’m running out of it. I’m was talking a man in the check out line one day. He mentioned how he got bored he in retirement and returned to work. He laughed when I told him was crazy, lol.

but yeah, there’s so much I would do if I had more time to do it.

Funny, I just my library card in the mail....

  

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flipnile
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2. "Nope. I've been learning more than ever the past few years."
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Tue Oct-10-17 10:03 AM by flipnile

          

Home repair & maintenance, I do all the work on my motorcycles so I've had to learn mechanic skills and the inner workings of a 4-stroke engine, I play bass and keys and am always studying music (self-taught, I started late 20s), and have picked up the guitar a year or so ago. I'm thinking about getting some woodworking tools also.

  

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3. "do you work? "
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Or are you one of the people that never sleep, lol

  

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flipnile
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9. "Computer programmer, so I gotta learn stuff for the job too."
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Constantly.

I'm a complete oddball tho. I don't watch much TV (like ~2 hours a week). All the stuff I listed seems like work, but is very relaxing to me. I don't sleep as much as I should, either.

  

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5. "You a big gym rat right? Smoker? Drinker? Kids?"
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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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flipnile
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11. "Medium gym rat, I chief, got kids. "
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To be real, having kids (and not as much time) is what sent me down this path. I basically eliminated everything that wasn't work, family or hobby related.

  

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Buddy_Gilapagos
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13. "respect. I am trying to replace the drinking socializing with"
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exercise to try to do the focus on work, family and hobby.


>To be real, having kids (and not as much time) is what sent
>me down this path. I basically eliminated everything that
>wasn't work, family or hobby related.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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63. "I Like this... "
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>To be real, having kids (and not as much time) is what sent
>me down this path. I basically eliminated everything that
>wasn't work, family or hobby related.

It takes all kinds to make up a world, son. -My pops

I just live for the comments -Da wiz

  

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MEAT
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8. "Stands in this line. "
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Last night we watched information on how wood glue is made
The past weekend we went to the Falling Water house and learned about architecture.
On the ride up we listened to the Tao of Pooh and recapped Taoism
Birthing classes give us new things to learn about weekly
We've had guitars for a couple years and this past weekend I figured out how to reduce the feedback when playing rocksmith
Just busted out a muffin and jam recipe
Been studying up on different lifts for the home gym.
And that's just in the last seven days.

Not a day goes by that I don't feel myself learning more and thinking more

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15. "Man, figuring out how to mute strings on guitar is driving me crazy"
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Tue Oct-10-17 10:55 AM by flipnile

          

>We've had guitars for a couple years and this past weekend I
>figured out how to reduce the feedback when playing rocksmith

On bass it's easy, I just use my thumb or the heel of my hand, keeping my fingers free to play. I just can't figure out how to mute and play at the same time with a pick.

>Just busted out a muffin and jam recipe

I just looked-up a bunch of Jamaican recipes over the weekend after going to my favorite spot in Brooklyn. Rice and peas are gonna be on the menu this winter.

>Been studying up on different lifts for the home gym.

This is what I need: A home gym. Travelling to and from the gym wastes too much time I've realized. I have a spot in the basement just waiting for a bench and squat rack (now I just need to find something affordable used)

>Not a day goes by that I don't feel myself learning more and
>thinking more

Word. I feel so proud of myself every time I learn a new skill now. I took it for granted as a kid because we learned all the time, but now little things give me a sense of accomplishment that makes me want to learn more.

  

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16. "I call it Dad Bod home gym "
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https://imgur.com/a/ZUX87

I tried starting off with just some plates and a bar. Deadlifts just weren't enough though.
Whole set up has probably run about 5-600 so that's like two years of gym costs. But I do it daily and don't have to dedicate time to it. Can just dip in for a quick set and go back to other things

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20. "haha there's no weight lifting associated with Dad Bod"
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22. "Exactly. If I don't lift I'm gonna get dad bod. "
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I feel a lot of people trick themselves into what they'll be able to do after a baby comes. I don't believe it. I've been working to make sure I have as much as I need and want at the house so that transition from no kids to a kid is about stealing minutes rather than trying to do a full life overhaul.

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4. "total opposite....only thing i'm losing is energy"
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Coolin...

  

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7. "physically or mentally?"
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12. "physically.... but prolly because i lift very large weights over my head"
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and pick heavier things up and put them down all the time


i just never seem to get enough sleep

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17. "Word :("
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>only thing i'm losing is energy

  

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6. "nah, i just dont have patience for alot of stuff."
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ie watching commercials...I watch everything on DVR now. What is the purpose of live tv...nah i'm good.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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14. "Mayne, think about what Negroes felt like in the post reconstruction"
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era.

oh wait, we in it.


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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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10. "i'm not as hopeful and optimistic as i used to be about society "
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doing better...

  

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18. "this"
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it's not your imagination... if not dumber, the way we think is changing... personally I try to fight it and still read books a fair amount... you should consider checking this book out it was fascinating on this very topic...

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9778945-the-shallows

  

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36. "added to my list, thanks!"
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For the record, my teams:
MLB: Mets / Soccer: PSG
NCAA BB: Arizona / NCAA FB: Michigan
NBA: Spurs / NFL: Jets

  

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42. "no worries... let me know your thoughts after."
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67. "worth repeating...."
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19. "the opposite"
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21. "definitely feel you on the internet usage. "
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but I also use it for so much info it's crazy.

I've fixed a ton of things around the house using youtube.

used it for online courses, etc...

my biggest problem is probably consuming too much wasteful news online.

Read about a dude who stops using the internet after 6PM. Not sure I can do that but I need to slow down. my screen time is disgusting when you add in work hours.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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23. "i've been trying to become 'smarter'"
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I don't feel like I've gotten dumber but I think I've become less interesting.
family and work got me mad boring, so I've been trying to get back into hobbies and learn new shit.

i told myself, if i go out to happy hour or somewhere I want to have something interesting to talk about other than the kids, work, or whats on social media.

Recently gotten back into reading books. I used to read like 20-30 books a year, now its hard to read 5. Made a personal goal to read one book every month this year. Also, just starting working out in the gym for the first time in my life last year.

  

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54. "RE: i've been trying to become 'smarter'"
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I feel that less interesting point. I am definitely stuck in a boring ass adult routine. I am bored with my old hobbies too. Thought about constructing a wooden dollhouse from scratch the other day. Paint the furniture like the old dude from The Wire during lunch. lol Hmmmm...


I'm a lurker. What you have just posted must have been that awesome!

  

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24. ""Most people are only as smart as they need to be""
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One of my employees told me that. And damn if it hasn't stuck with me.

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34. "Great point. I saw a few text books and gagged"
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I have finished a Masters, Grad Cert and even 1 year of PhD Courses. Then I just hit a wall. All that "Edumacation" did not seem to do me any good financially in the real world.

My job wanted me to learn completely different skills. Why am I reading and writing 20 page papers?

I use the internet for everything. I have hard copy books that I can barely make it through. I download 80 percent of my books on audio books.

Rise & Shine
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25. "You're bored not dumb"
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Find a hobby.

I kicked up my gym time to 4-5 days a week, started audiobooks and focusing more on my kid's activities.

  

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26. "Yes, and limited internet worked for me before"
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>I am considering radically changing my internet usage. Read
>the news once a day, and limit twitter and okp type pages
>usage.

My online media consumption operates in this self-fulfilling dynamic where I spend a lot of time reading and thinking about things that do and, in fact, *should* resist nuance. Politics in 2017 ought to be Manichean in scope because there is so much going on that actually is outright evil. Most of the people who want subtlety or nuance in their political thought are trying to smuggle something genuinely bad as something ordinary. And online media is congruent with that. We live in big, fat takes and it doesn't just seem right given the subjects, it actually is right. For instance, I just read on my phone a long, detailed piece about a kid who's been in prison in Texas since he was fifteen and on death row since he was twenty, for killing a guard. He's 38 now and seems bright and thoughtful. The takeaway from this article: prison is bad; capital punishment is even worse.

That's absolutely the correct conclusion to take away from that piece. But it's also not the same thing as complex thought, which should take chapters to develop instead of sentences. But that article was emotionally and mentally exhausting, so the last thing I want to read afterwards is a book.

Anyhow, last summer I went on a roadtrip to visit my wife's family at the very northern tip of Minnesota - 22 hours driving total. We talked, listened to podcasts, stopped in Chicago and Minneapolis to see friends, etc. Nothing big, but I never really had the option to just fuck around on my phone or a laptop while minutes became hours. It was like detox.

But I still needed to replace all of that media with something. While we were staying there, I started reading the stupidest series of books that I've ever read: The Dresden Files. It's about a wizard who lives in Chicago and solves crimes. It is intensely stupid, but there are a ton of them. Fifteen novels. Twenty two independent short stories. And a couple short story collections. I read one of the novels per day while I was at my wife's parents house. Then upped it to one and a half a day when I returned home (I teach, so my summers are fairly free except for class prep). Instead of cruising from hot take to hot take for hours every morning, I read about this crime fighting wizard like it was a religion.

And when I finished (there are apparently more novels forthcoming, but I caught up to where the series is now) it felt like my brain had been totally rewired. Over the next month, I finished off the fifth chapter of my dissertation (which I'd been blocked on for months); a ton of substantial edits on the previous four; and started a couple new writing projects.

Once I submitted my dissertation, I fell right back into old habits. Though, honestly, it felt deserved. I graduated in March, and I'm just now trying to shake myself out of it. I try to take a couple hours every morning and at least one more every night to read actual books and remember how to learn things patiently again. It kind of sucks, particularly because I haven't really found something as dumb and trashy that I actually enjoy like the Dresden Files, so I've been trying to skip to actual smart stuff.

But in any case, my experience is that the steps you're talking about totally work.

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35. "Brain rewired from internet detox"
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This makes complete sense. It is filled with bits of information that should enlighten us. But it is really junk food. We are beign force fed A LOT of information.

I used to breeze through books, now my attention span is just shot. I am not a digital native. I spent the first 28 years of my life without social media. Surely I an get through the next phase of my life without it.

Rise & Shine
Thrive & Grind
Heart & Mind

  

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27. "not dumber, but less time and care about"
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certain things. patience is shorter too. so I now tend to take more time BSing.

family, household stuff, practicess, work. etc. take up my mental space. oh and working out. I'm stronger now than ever before.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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28. "About the Internet, I mostly use it as a library, for tutorials, music....."
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...and other information.

I stay off social media, though I do keep accounts so people can contact me. I avoid using the internet on my phone as well (except to play music). I was like this when I fell back off casual computer use: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X4YyRbjrri4

  

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29. "Ninja, you up in this place bout as much as me. What you talking bou."
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**********
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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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32. "Work hours, bruh. You're right tho, OKP is social media"
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After 6pm I'm ghost, unless I get bored right before bed. I'm on OKP and Instagram mainly.

  

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33. "lolol i'm wit you tho...i put OKP in a whole different category than soc..."
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media.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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30. "I read a lot more than I use to"
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But I definitely have a shorter attention span when it comes to tv and movies.

An hour long show on Netflix is a struggle for me to get through.

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31. "nahhhhh. much smarter. i just care less about things in general tho."
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37. "sustained concentration is basically under assault"
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meditation, mindfulness, logging off and logging in to life are becoming freaking radical and essential acts. being off line in places like cuba on a regular basis has been incredible since as a teacher i can travel my ass off, and i do.

  

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38. "not yet, but i know how much i rely on my memory/wits"
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I'm really concerned that I need to develop habits that will keep me on top of my shit when that starts to slip.

I keep watching for signs of it in my parents too.

As a teacher the balance of spending so much time learning/seeing people learn and then having a long bus ride and now drive as a commute as quiet space definitely helps. My students have meditation time and reading/writing time and I've been trying to get them to a point where I can actually meditate and read/write alongside them. It's healthy for my mind and I think it's important to model it for them, but with being preteens and the hurricanes and all the other routines of starting the year, they're not quite where I can just be with them without leading them.

Last Thursday was the first day I didn't any work at all since last March. I have online courses, do a lot of lesson planning/emailing/grading on Sundays, and took a weekend/summer job last April. I'm so thankful that my life is ordered enough that it doesn't feel like a burden, but I also don't know how I stayed sane. I can't wait for this winter holidays.

  

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39. "The exact opposite."
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I've never been a television watcher with a few exceptions. I've always been a movie guy.

I don't watch many movies anymore. On a typical evening....My SO and I will choose a podcast or interview or other internet medium and spend 2 to 3 hours listening while intermittedly pausing and reflecting. But that's how we spend our evenings now. Culture and politics expressed through words. We don't really 'watch' anything anymore.

I started surfing twitter when Trump became relevant. I've got around 40 feeds I check in with every few days. To be honest...I've NEVER spent LESS time on frivolous, escapist media than I do now. Partly because I genuinely think we are witnessing the fall of Rome right now.

I think we just passed the second anniversary of Trump saying 'I like the soldiers who DON'T get captured'. After which he went up in the polls. That was the turning point for me. Since that day....I feel like I'm wasting time indulging in escapist forms of entertainment. I've been admittedly clenched like an uptight fist ever since. In my eyes...the world hasn't been the same since that day.

  

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58. "watch "fahrenheit 11/9", you love it"
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michael moore's new film.

  

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40. "RE:"
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I can't find the article (it's from Time.com from 2014) but according to science our mind's raw ability to take in a process information peaks in our twenties. But the mind's ability to become more creative and change (thanks, neuroplasticity) does increase into a person's forties.

Over the past eight months or so, I've ramped up learning about web design, by listening to podcasts, online reading and YouTube, so I am more learned in that sense. My attention span is okay but I meditate and try to keep my time on social media to early in the day and right before I go to bed.

I also exercise some which apparently helps with learning aside from being good for the physical body. My memory is okay. I probably need to start writing things down more. Also, mindfulness is good for ease of mood and concentration but not good for memory apparently, so I probably need to play Memory or something to improve that.

But I do wish I was more capable a reader and writer. I keep telling myself that I need to write out a book idea or to read about issues rather than news but that's something else to figure out.

  

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41. "my memory is shit now"
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________________________________________
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43. "wow, yes. all of that exactly."
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i'll spend an hour looking at Facebook but not an hour reading an actual book

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44. "RE: Anyone else feel like they are getting dumber?"
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45. "i think part of it is the quality of writing in articles"
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it is not rare to have to read 4 paragraphs of opinion or recap of other stories before you get to the content of the title. usually the information regarding the title is scarce. theres no relevant details.

i find myself skimming through articles cause i dont want to read drivel.

  

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48. "and I KEEP. FALLING. FOR IT."
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I get into the article and I think...wait is this what I...did I just get click-baited by a WEATHER ARTICLE

It's like everything is trash. I gotta go to the library and read some old shxt. even the old authors writing new shxt are writing trash to keep up with the times.

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50. "i usually try to pick which article i click on"
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i use google news so i can expand to see other sources so i try to click on one i think might give me good info. many times i will just not click cuz i can tell based on the title nothing of substance will be in there.

sometimes you just have to click to find out though.

  

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46. "poor diet"
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I do feel the same, but I know that I'm not feeding my mind properly.

I used to be really curious, and I think that fed my intelligence. But now I ain't really curious about much - nor do I care to be and the end result is THIS!!


I used to read encyclopedias for cryin out loud, cuz lordt knows I wasn't gettin no a$$. LOL


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47. "Yes. With my upcoming birthday and after very close to 20 years here,"
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my plan is to STOP all social media activity with the exception of this place. I'm usually only here during the weekdays to help pass time while in the office.

Them rabbit holes get real deep when you on that IG Explorer Page. And FB is FB. I need to pick up more books and increase other activities to stave off my becoming more dumb.

--- praying for peace, love, and power

  

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51. "you mean no more videos of what you're listening to in the car?"
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52. "Pretty much..."
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--- praying for peace, love, and power

  

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53. "haha"
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49. "1 year later I haven't done none of that shit. SMH. "
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My twitter usage has actually gone up.

I have started to try and reading longer articles and books again.

I probably have cut down on tv.

I want to focus on diet and exercise to improve my memory and focus.

Speaking of forgetting, which one of you dum dums tried to use this post to argue me down about me being not so bright?

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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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56. "Twitter is the worst of them to me"
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I'm not really on it much, and maybe I just do it wrong.. at its best it can be hilarious, but it mostly comes off as the most mob mentality-ish place where people are preachy and generally shitty

FB for all the vapid stuff people can post, at least some friends and fam are kind of sharing their lives.. plus there are people I only communicate with through fb

I've come to prefer IG over both lately. More fun, generally Trump free (at least on mine). Not that its gonna feed your brain, but its def the most pleasant.

  

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55. "idk if 'finishing a book' is a mark of intellegence"
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receiving the information is what makes you smarter, not just the practice itself.

we ingest so much information all the time nowadays, idk how people even get through a chapter without feeling fatigued.

i pulled up a lot on my internet usage. or at least the way i use it because of the same thing

  

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57. "not dumber but social media/smartphones/tech killed the attn span"
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i cant even go more than 4 hrs wit my old lady anymore bc who has the time



society overall and younger generations are somehow dumber tho.
literally any info worldwide is a few thumb swipes away, for free, 24 hrs a day, and yet, folk are just amazingly incurious about the world around them



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60. "Folks are only curious about stuff that isn’t easily accessible "
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>i cant even go more than 4 hrs wit my old lady anymore bc who
>has the time
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>society overall and younger generations are somehow dumber
>tho.
>literally any info worldwide is a few thumb swipes away, for
>free, 24 hrs a day, and yet, folk are just amazingly incurious
>about the world around them

WHAT'S GOOD *****? What's REALLY good?!?!????!!! Ha HA!
http://40.media.tumblr.com/d8e2daf9f3f37244cd05436bcdf05973/tumblr_mt4qibKq4c1rgam01o1_1280.png

  

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59. "How's this coming along?"
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>I am considering radically changing my internet usage. Read
>the news once a day, and limit twitter and okp type pages
>usage.

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65. "LOL. Bruh you know how much you have to be in your feelings.."
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to dig up and re-up this post (and to think that its an effective way to take shots at me??)


To answer your question though, I have been reading more longform, exercising more and writing more. I think I may have but I am not sure if I post less (can't remember how I was posting when I made this post).

At any rate, if you want someone to talk about your feelings I am here family. No lie. I feel bad for coming at people so harsh here some time. I shouldn't do that when I don't have any idea what people are dealing with IRL. I'll do better. I promise.





>>I am considering radically changing my internet usage.
>Read
>>the news once a day, and limit twitter and okp type pages
>>usage.
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66. "You do this all the time. Thought I'd return the favor for once."
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So I don't know why you're acting above-it-all now.
This is the first time I've actually done it BACK to you.

>To answer your question though, I have been reading more
>longform, exercising more and writing more. I think I may
>have but I am not sure if I post less (can't remember how I
>was posting when I made this post).


Good for you, man.


>At any rate, if you want someone to talk about your feelings I
>am here family. No lie. I feel bad for coming at people so
>harsh here some time. I shouldn't do that when I don't have
>any idea what people are dealing with IRL. I'll do better. I
>promise.


I'm 100% good. You've made the promise to do better before, and I was sincerely trying to be on good terms with you then, so excuse me if I don't trust you. I've run out of patience.
http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=13176768&mesg_id=13176768&listing_type=search#13188111
You ended that post with:
"In closing I will say it was a good convo once we got pass the old beef. You are definitely a smart, passionate dude which I respect. I sincerely will make an effort to be more respectful and productive in the future."

I don't mind any of yall disagreeing with me, but if you think I'm just an overall ridiculous person, then bypass me altogether, because the lack of respect and personal insults won't produce a civil interaction. You not the only one who can be petty.

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68. "Yeah, I was tripping for a minute"
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Buddy is real good at digging up old ass post to slap a spade down.

I’m impressed at how folks can search and find old post. I give up after 2 tries.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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61. "No, you’re just old & washed nm"
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WHAT'S GOOD *****? What's REALLY good?!?!????!!! Ha HA!
http://40.media.tumblr.com/d8e2daf9f3f37244cd05436bcdf05973/tumblr_mt4qibKq4c1rgam01o1_1280.png

  

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62. "Nope. I recently took a drinking break and replaced "
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It with exercise, socializing, and research. I just had my first beer a couple days ago. Went 18 days without a drink at all. Drinking excessively clouded my mind and made me think small. It was all about replacing bad habits.
... "A Beautiful Struggle"
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64. "Hey!!! Glad to hear. "
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the 18 day stretch will soon be replaced with a 30 day stretch.

Which will turn into a 4 month stretch.

I turned a corner when I caught myself saying, "nah I don't want to drink tonight because I want to go to the gym in the morning".


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