Let's say back in the day you were the one who had a car and you rolled out with your people to the club at said club, you hooked up with a girl and so you left with her to handle your biz (because she was bout it right now) leaving your people stranded with no ride (remember, no uber/lyft back in the day, taxi woulda been a c-note easily) After handling your biz and dropping the bird off you went back to the club (everyone's gone, they're outside looking homeless) and picked your people up
Are you wrong for that?
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Dead wrong: bros before hoes. Coulda handled that biz later
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 09:35 AM
1. "if I'm one of those friends you are dead wrong" In response to Reply # 0
we came together we leave together...lol.
nah, handle your biz, but at least give me ample time to try and find a ride home before you spring it on me.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 09:59 AM
8. "it's a fucking joke" In response to Reply # 4 Mon Jun-05-17 10:12 AM by legsdiamond
That's what a cock-blocking chick says at the club.
that's what the "lol" was for followed by a "nah, really"
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 10:13 AM
13. "damn, I just edited my post to play nice.. " In response to Reply # 12 Mon Jun-05-17 10:23 AM by legsdiamond
if you had any game you would have got the joke but I know you ain't never pulled some at the club.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 10:58 AM
21. "bottle service? back when I went to the club they didn't have bottles" In response to Reply # 18
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 11:31 AM
25. "back in my day it was awesome..." In response to Reply # 22 Mon Jun-05-17 11:42 AM by legsdiamond
but I agree, the success rate at the bar/lounge is much higher.
the joke works in a club or bar setting.
cock blockers go to bars too
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
I got no problem with a cat breaking out if he's got something going on. But you gotta let your boys know so that they can set up another way to get home.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 10:01 AM
9. "he said they were the only ones left looking homeless...lol" In response to Reply # 3
that's stranded to me.
and it's a bad look.
gotta give folks time to find a plan B.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 10:16 AM
14. "prolly turned down a ride too cause they were confident they had transpo" In response to Reply # 11
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 10:22 AM
16. "was it winter or summer? " In response to Reply # 0
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Tue Jun-06-17 10:45 AM
62. "oh.. no harm, no foul" In response to Reply # 58
at most I'm mad at myself for not pressing harder on the 6.5er with the Jetta at last call.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
17. "gotta give the heads up" In response to Reply # 0
but the niggas i grew up around was grimy so all that brotherly love shit went out the window when it was a full moon cause niggas turn lone wolf quick...
but you got to give a heads up...back in that day, there was always someone willing to come scoop or niggas would go into super thirst mode and bag women with cars...
one of my buddies growing up had the uncanny ability to charm older women and in this area that was a surefire way to go separate ways separately
Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble
26. "not even bros before....its common sense courtesy" In response to Reply # 0
give me the gameplan...i could have arranged other ways of getting somewhere or just been like i can t wait till you get back leaving without no plan is fucked up
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legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 12:30 PM
29. "no such thing as wasting time when getting some " In response to Reply # 28
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
Why not go scoop up your friends and drop everybody off on the way home? I would have understood that hot pussy has priority, but not enough to leave my friends stranded.
If you rode together in YOUR CAR then you assume the responsibility to be the uber for the night.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 01:18 PM
34. "we came together, we leave together!!!" In response to Reply # 30
maybe she was a strobe light honey?
Maybe driving her home is the gentleman thing to do?
Unless he has a bitch nigga in his crew they will get over it.
Real niggas understand. Just like we know that one friend is always going to be late as fuck. Never fails. You just know the next time you assume the risk.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 02:32 PM
38. "Strobe light means you don't want to be seen outside the club with her" In response to Reply # 36
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 01:27 PM
35. "Fellas, is it really our responsibility to drive you home from the club?" In response to Reply # 0
Isn't there a risk we all assume when we drive to the club with someone?
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
37. "It's about courtesy" In response to Reply # 0
I don't think anybody would trip if you told them that you gonna dip for a lil bit to handle some business with a chick. But, to up and bounce w/o any mention of why is foul.
This is why is important to have your own ride or enough money for a cab, just in case something goes down.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 02:34 PM
39. "or just have an understanding. I can get you there BUT" In response to Reply # 37
getting home is 50/50.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
>getting home is 50/50. > > Do you honestly believe that niggas should just "understand" that rolling to a club, concert, etc. would not be a guarantee of a ride back home?
Not to drag this out, but as much pussy is important to dudes, it should not make friends not extend courtesy towards one another. It really is not that serious.
I could not see myself being homies with niggas who would possibly leave me stranded over some ass.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 11:19 PM
50. "Dudes gotta act like they can call Uber, cab, etc" In response to Reply # 48
I'm sorry but pussy is serious business, especially club pussy. That spontaneous ass is the best and you may never get that shot again.
As long as I give you a heads up what's the problem?
My crew used to celebrate when a nigga gets club pussy.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Tue Jun-06-17 08:24 AM
52. "If I was 23 and it was before Uber I would be heated" In response to Reply # 50
but at this age and all these options to get home?
Nah... I wouldn't even be a little bit mad.
But then again, I know my people so I'm good to go. I know the people I kick it with now can bounce at the drop of a dime so I'm prepared.
Only way I would get angry is if I came to their city to kick it and was left hi and dry.
But I got kids now, I don't go anywhere. Lol
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
>I'm sorry but pussy is serious business, especially club >pussy. That spontaneous ass is the best and you may never get >that shot again. > >As long as I give you a heads up what's the problem? > >My crew used to celebrate when a nigga gets club pussy. > > Yes, club pussy is serious to some people. Some people would slap and spit on their mama for some club pussy. I get it, but don't agree.
I would not bounce on my rides to hook up with a woman from a club. So, those who feel that club cooch is worth possibly leaving people stranded, then knock yourself out.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Tue Jun-06-17 10:08 AM
55. "you make it sound like they are being left for dead" In response to Reply # 54
is it fucked up to not let them know? Hell yeah...
but is it fucked up to say "bruhs, I got one tonight, you gonna have to fend for yourselves?"
not at all.
most adult men would dap you up and buy you a drink.
but I must say, it's extremely noble of you to tell a woman "sorry, but I can't do it tonight cause I drove my herb ass crew to the club and they need me to get home"
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
56. "You are putting extras on it! Lol" In response to Reply # 55 Tue Jun-06-17 10:33 AM by BabyYoda
Look, I get the mindset. I just don't agree because I would not do it to anyone, herb or player.
I also would not ride with someone who would willingly leave me stranded at a club because he too thirsty for some cooch that may be tainted.
Now, if everyone else hooks up and find another way home, then cool. I guess it is a matter of perspective. People see it how they wanna see it and take it how they wanna take it.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Tue Jun-06-17 10:22 AM
57. "haha.. I hear you but I don't agree. " In response to Reply # 56
LOL at tainted ass
sounds like some shit you would say to your boy after he tells you to find a ride home.
"you leaving us for her? shit prolly tainted!"
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
66. "Cool. We can agree to disagree " In response to Reply # 57
>LOL at tainted ass > >sounds like some shit you would say to your boy after he tells >you to find a ride home. > >"you leaving us for her? shit prolly tainted!" > > > > I say that niggas of a feather should flock together!
Someone like me isn't a good person to roll to the club with, if you the type who would leave people at the club. I prefer to drive anyways, because I don't like being at the mercy of someone who got the control of driving.
Nowadays, there are services like Uber and Lyft, where one could call up, if in need of a ride home. Also, depending where the club is and the city one is in, a person can take the train, bus or walk home.
Hopefully, everyone who rolls to a club or venue will pull something nice where getting rides home would not be an issue.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Mon Jun-05-17 04:14 PM
42. "My sides are killing me... " In response to Reply # 40
Shit kept getting better and better..
and when I thought it was over ole boy came in with the photo.
Damn atruhead.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Tue Jun-06-17 08:28 AM
53. "So much comedy in that post" In response to Reply # 51
Why was dudes arms resting like that at a concert. A nigga was in the sunken place 10 years ago.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
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legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Tue Jun-06-17 10:43 AM
61. "how mad were they? " In response to Reply # 59
did one dude refuse to get in for a minute?
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Tue Jun-06-17 10:43 AM
60. "I left the club to get some ass back in the day" In response to Reply # 0
I wasn't driving tho... so I didn't strand anyone.
HOWEVER
The next day I call my boy to see how the club was and dude goes "nigga, you didn't hear? We shut that bitch down, it was a gotdamn riot"
So the story goes like this. Another girl i was messing with was being called all types of hoes and bitches by dudes from a rival HS and my boy said fuck it and rallied the troops. Shit got real ugly.Chairs were thrown, girls were punched.. they tore the place up.
and when it was all over everyone was in the parking lot looking for me on some "well where the fuck is legs?
meanwhile I'm over at a mansion in the jacuzzi where these 2 girls were house sitting trying to get it in.
and no, I didn't but I had fun trying.
the next day people were walking up to me showing their battle scars while screaming "I got this and YOU WEREN'T EVEN THERE"
i was like Sal in DTRT.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79616 posts
Tue Jun-06-17 10:54 AM
65. "damn you are a hater. " In response to Reply # 63 Tue Jun-06-17 10:55 AM by legsdiamond
I even confessed I didn't close the deal.
and you sound like my friends the next day.
2 girls, in a jacuzzi huh? liar.
lmao
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
68. "And that's how I learned karma is real" In response to Reply # 0
a couple of years later after this alleged incident I'm at this chick's house who I wanted to give the biz too she was giving me vibes, showing me her tan lines and shit I'm going giggedy giggedy, only a matter of time right?
my sidekick rings (this was the myspace era) and of course it's my crew begging me to go pick them up they got south beach towed and I'm clear across town with a girl I ain't hit yet but all indications are that it's going down
so the angel on one shoulder: "Do the right thing, it's damm near 3 am, she still gonna be there tomorrow, etc"
and the devil on the other: "they grown men, they shoulda parked where they supposed to, you not a taxi driver, ain't no pussy like new pussy, etc"
Empathy won out and I told homegirl I'll catch her later
Picked them up, dropped em off, called homegirl back of course she didn't pick up
Couple of days later, hit her up again she hits me with "yeah I'm talking to somebody already"
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