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""I was too black for my husband" - Nkechi Amare Diallo (Swipe)"


  

          

http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2017/03/24/rachel-dolezal-too-black-my-husband/99578982/

Rachel Dolezal paints a dark picture of her childhood in her new memoir, In Full Color: Finding My Place in a Black and White World.

In the book, she says her brother molested her as a child, her family forced her to eat her own vomit and she wore clothing made of dog fur.

She talks about her desire to be black at a young age.

“I would pretend to be a dark-skinned princess in the Sahara Desert or one of the Bantu women living in the Congo … imagining I was a different person living in a different place was one of the few ways … that I could escape the oppressive environment I was raised in.”

She would rub mud on her hands, arms, feet and legs, she writes.

As she grew older, she didn't correct those who thought she was black. In fact, she embraced it. She tanned and braided her hair.

Her first marriage to an African American man was rough because Dolezal writes she was "too black" for him.

During a television interview in November 2015, Dolezal acknowledged being born to white parents, but also said she identifies as black. Amid the controversy of her racial identity she stepped down as president of the Spokane, Wash., branch of the NAACP.

Last year, Dolezal legally changed her name to Nkechi Amare Diallo, a West African way of saying "gift from the gods," to help with job searches but continues to use Dolezal for her public persona AP reports.

In February, Dolezal said she was on food stamps because she's been unable to find work.

Dolezal said in a release she wrote the book to "advance the conversation about race" and to set the record straight about her life.

"I wish Americans understood that race is a social construct, even if we don't want it to be," she said in the release. "The system of racial classification is fiction, and we need to thoughtfully evaluate whether perpetuating it rigidly or allowing fluidity across the spectrum best supports human rights and social justice."

In Full Color releases to the public March 28.

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M'kay
Mar 24th 2017
1
Baby's already over it.
Mar 24th 2017
3
lol
Mar 24th 2017
16
That's the Rachel I remember lol.
Mar 24th 2017
11
      how can you reconcile all this crazy shit if you're her family?
Mar 24th 2017
13
           Hopefully they figured it out like the ppl in this post.
Mar 26th 2017
29
i have no idea what to do with any of this.
Mar 24th 2017
2
Is it really any crazier than sheep, rabbit, coyote (a dog), mink, etc.?
Mar 24th 2017
5
you can buy those off the rack.
Mar 24th 2017
8
      You can get dog fur stuff off the rack (including the coyote fur)
Mar 24th 2017
18
           let's flip it then. Ol' priveleged ass Rachel !!!
Mar 24th 2017
19
                lol. There was a post a while back where I linked this extreme WPS:
Mar 24th 2017
21
                     LMAO!!!
Mar 24th 2017
24
Yo, that's the only thing in there that made me pause.
Mar 24th 2017
6
exactly
Mar 24th 2017
7
"after we get done tanning this dog hide, we're gonna get you!!"
Mar 24th 2017
10
      Lol!
Mar 24th 2017
27
Montanans
Mar 24th 2017
17
It'd work great in the fiction section.
Mar 24th 2017
12
lol
Mar 24th 2017
4
In Full Color releases to the public March 28
Mar 24th 2017
9
Exactly what it looks like at this point.
Mar 24th 2017
14
      Please find a different pic posting site my dude....
Mar 24th 2017
25
           That's my sig.
Mar 26th 2017
28
2BLACK, 2STRONG
Mar 24th 2017
15
Sad thing is, she ain't even have to do all this.
Mar 24th 2017
20
Yep. A "bitch, please" or two, and it would've been over.
Mar 24th 2017
23
"advance the conversation about race" - Very important lie right there.
Mar 24th 2017
22
*Hopes this made the FROCAST*
Mar 24th 2017
26
I married a white bitch for a reason. (c) the husband
Mar 26th 2017
30
Lmao... exactly.
Mar 26th 2017
31
LOL!
Mar 27th 2017
33
lol
Mar 27th 2017
35
LOL
Mar 27th 2017
36
“I would pretend to be a dark-skinned princess in the Sahara Desert or...
Mar 26th 2017
32
PRETEND???
Mar 27th 2017
34
can I play devil's advocate and say...
Mar 27th 2017
37
man, she trying to dismantle the transperson movement
Mar 27th 2017
38
Trying to turn that 15 into 30 minutes
Mar 27th 2017
39

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1. "M'kay"
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3. "Baby's already over it."
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16. "lol"
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11. "That's the Rachel I remember lol."
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And no she was still very much a white girl from Montana at this time.
Who did afrocentric art. And from what I understand came from a great
family. She just can't stop lying smh.

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13. "how can you reconcile all this crazy shit if you're her family?"
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People are probably looking at them like this is something THEY did.


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29. "Hopefully they figured it out like the ppl in this post."
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2. "i have no idea what to do with any of this."
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I kind of want to hear what her ex-husband has to say but also, I totally don't want to hear it at all.


Also, dog fur?


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5. "Is it really any crazier than sheep, rabbit, coyote (a dog), mink, etc.?"
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Or any of the other animal furs that are made into clothing?

https://www.thedodo.com/these-people-are-wearing-sweat-453318420.html

  

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8. "you can buy those off the rack."
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I've never met anyone who made their own Mink coat.


She's implying that her family made her wear clothing made of dog fur ( which I took to mean they somehow procured it themselves.)

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18. "You can get dog fur stuff off the rack (including the coyote fur)"
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And there are companies that specialize in this. Did you peep the link above?

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joseph-satto/is-that-dog-fur-on-your-c_b_8670400.html

Also, not everything is what it seems:

A Department Store's "Faux Fur" Coats Were Actually Dog Fur: http://abcnews.go.com/International/story?id=1533368

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/1505740/Cheaper-than-mink-or-sable-fur-coats-made-from-dogs-that-were-skinned-alive.html

  

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19. "let's flip it then. Ol' priveleged ass Rachel !!!"
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Wearing all that overpriced department store finery !!!


>And there are companies that specialize in this. Did you peep
>the link above?
>
>http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joseph-satto/is-that-dog-fur-on-your-c_b_8670400.html
>
>Also, not everything is what it seems:
>
>A Department Store's "Faux Fur" Coats Were Actually Dog Fur:
>http://abcnews.go.com/International/story?id=1533368
>
>http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/1505740/Cheaper-than-mink-or-sable-fur-coats-made-from-dogs-that-were-skinned-alive.html
>
>


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21. "lol. There was a post a while back where I linked this extreme WPS:"
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-538108/Hair-dog-The-animal-lovers-turned-dead-pets-coats-woolly-jumpers.html

As soon as I read "dog fur" it popped right into my head.

  

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24. "LMAO!!!"
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6. "Yo, that's the only thing in there that made me pause. "
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>Also, dog fur?

Who knitting dog fur coats?

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7. "exactly"
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like, that's such a labor intensive activity for an abusive family to undertake...

>>Also, dog fur?
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>Who knitting dog fur coats?
>
>**********
>"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then
>they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
>
>"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"


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10. ""after we get done tanning this dog hide, we're gonna get you!!""
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>like, that's such a labor intensive activity for an abusive
>family to undertake

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17. "Montanans"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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12. "It'd work great in the fiction section."
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4. "lol"
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She's gone to far to turn back now. Might as well turn it up to 11.

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9. "In Full Color releases to the public March 28"
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She better turn that crazy up to 15

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14. "Exactly what it looks like at this point."
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25. "Please find a different pic posting site my dude...."
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Them links be failing lol

  

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28. "That's my sig."
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15. "2BLACK, 2STRONG"
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bruh was like this bih crazy as hell.

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20. "Sad thing is, she ain't even have to do all this."
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If she would've just been who she is (a white woman), but stated "yeah, I just identify with and embrace black culture" she would have gotten FAR less shit.

  

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23. "Yep. A "bitch, please" or two, and it would've been over."
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>If she would've just been who she is (a white woman), but
>stated "yeah, I just identify with and embrace black culture"
>she would have gotten FAR less shit.

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22. ""advance the conversation about race" - Very important lie right there."
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If she wants to "advance the conversation
about race", she can start by admitting
all the racism she's practicing in her
actions. She can continue the work by going
among white people and teaching them how
they all participate socially... since
she claims to be aware that race is a
social construct.
Her bringing up the "social construct"
argument is interesting in that she uses
it ONLY as an attempt to support her
desire to be Black, but not as a means to
understand her own culpability in the
system. That's because she's not really
trying to get rid of the system of racism
(white supremacy). She's trying to enhance it.
Racial classifications only give voice to the
way the system operates. Removing the
classifications won't stop the system from
operating, and she knows that. Stopping the
system from operating just isn't her concern,
as evidenced by her actions.

And for anyone who thought I was talking nonsense,
here: http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=13136242&mesg_id=13136242&page=2#13136302

Here's an article I happened upon from 2 yrs ago:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/social-studies/201506/transracial

Notice a white woman wrote that. BOTH of these
are examples of why referring to this system
as a white supremacist "patriarchy" often serves
to minimize the very important role that white
women play in maintaining the system.






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26. "*Hopes this made the FROCAST*"
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30. "I married a white bitch for a reason. (c) the husband "
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31. "Lmao... exactly. "
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33. "LOL!"
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35. "lol"
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36. "LOL"
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32. "“I would pretend to be a dark-skinned princess in the Sahara Desert or..."
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one of the Bantu women living in the Congo" …lol wow

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34. "PRETEND??? "
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yeah, ok.

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37. "can I play devil's advocate and say..."
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If this were RONALD DOLEZAL out chea talkin about mutable race and identity, his 15 minutes would have BEEN UP...if he ever had any exposure at all...

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38. "man, she trying to dismantle the transperson movement"
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that's the only thing i can takeaway from this bc I don't know anyone giving her argument any real consideration

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39. "Trying to turn that 15 into 30 minutes"
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