1. "wuh/ why were you buying him lunch?" In response to Reply # 0
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
36. "um, can you buy me lunch? i don't mind getting it. :-)" In response to Reply # 11
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
51. "she's gonna ask to see a picture of you first." In response to Reply # 42
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
2. "You're supposed to bring it to my desk and lay out the fork and knife fo..." In response to Reply # 0 Thu Oct-13-16 09:25 AM by flipnile
That halfway stuff is some modern woman shit. Like making me breakfast, but I gotta fix my own plate.
OGs just aren't feeling that. You need one of these modern, "share the load" type dudes if you're not gonna go hard.
Edit: I'm assuming that there is romantic interest here. If this is just some friendly coworker stuff, then disregard what I wrote above. Homeboy can get his own shit then.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79607 posts
Thu Oct-13-16 09:27 AM
6. "Huh? If I offer to buy it, it's because I want you to go get it for us. " In response to Reply # 3
You want them to chew it for you and feed it to you like a bird too?
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79607 posts
Thu Oct-13-16 09:44 AM
26. "Only thing I would offer you is an altiod if for your ass smelling breat..." In response to Reply # 15
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
10. "i'm willing to go and get it if i can but that would have to be" In response to Reply # 8
made explicit. b/c w/o that being said i expect the person who offered to go and get it. i might ask if i'm not clear who is going to be going to get the lunch. b/c after all it could be some 3rd party. or maybe it's going to be delivered by the restaurant or some other service. i dunno.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79607 posts
Thu Oct-13-16 09:39 AM
22. "That's because you are an asshole..." In response to Reply # 10
Reasonable people realize if someone offers to pay you are expected to go.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79607 posts
Thu Oct-13-16 09:46 AM
27. "Nigga wipe your ass you leaky piece of shit. " In response to Reply # 23
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79607 posts
Thu Oct-13-16 10:02 AM
37. "Not anywhere as bad as his post" In response to Reply # 33
But I'm sure some will clutch and scream foul.
Fuck that never going to Cali ass nigga
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
40. "and not even in the neighborhood of his jokey sexual assault post" In response to Reply # 37
yesterday.
I'm sure it was just some locker room talk.
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79607 posts
Thu Oct-13-16 10:39 AM
54. "These people crazy as shit" In response to Reply # 49
You following me You wanna be me I know your obsessed with me Your jealous of me...
The narcissism is astounding.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
65. "lol he said trial lawyer like he's the starting ss for the yankees " In response to Reply # 54
or something lol
um, right on bro.
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79607 posts
Thu Oct-13-16 11:41 AM
75. "who the fuck says you wanna be me on a message board? " In response to Reply # 65
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
If I offer to pay you really think I'm driving to get it?
Offer is off the table... fuck that dude
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
35. "lolz wtf...so much wrong with this picture." In response to Reply # 24
-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79607 posts
Thu Oct-13-16 09:50 AM
30. "Of course she expects him to go get it" In response to Reply # 12
and if he doesn't want to, he doesn't have to...
to assume I'm buying AMD going to get it for you... for why?
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
46. "if i ASK YOU to BUY MY lunch" In response to Reply # 45 Thu Oct-13-16 10:28 AM by SoWhat
i would offer to go and get it. unless i already knew you were going out to get lunch. even then i'd offer to go w/you. or i'd offer to go for you so you wouldn't have to go at all.
and i'd only be asking if we were homies like that.
anyway, in the OP you didn't present the scenario w/the key fact that this dude ASKED YOU to buy his lunch. you said YOU OFFERED to buy his lunch. of course if he asks you to buy his lunch he should be going to get it.
>anyway, in the OP you didn't present the scenario w/the key >fact that this dude ASKED YOU to buy his lunch. you said YOU >OFFERED to buy his lunch. of course if he asks you to buy his >lunch he should be going to get it.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79607 posts
Thu Oct-13-16 10:40 AM
55. "RE: I worded it wrong..." In response to Reply # 39
>my bad. > >he asked if I would buy him lunch - I said yes... >I wasn't going out tho. > > > >
Lock the damn post... what type of lightworks shit is this?
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79607 posts
Thu Oct-13-16 10:37 AM
53. "Unless I have my keys in my hand or we are headed out the door..." In response to Reply # 34
It's safe to assume I'm offering because I don't intend on leaving the office
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
31. "did he not have time" In response to Reply # 0
to get lunch for himself? that was my assumption at first.
either way, if its been decided that I'm buying food for someone, that person is likely going with me. if I'm bringing it back, I don't have a problem taking it to her (most times it'll be a chick).
48. "A lot of missing info. Personally, I'm offering I do so w/no strings" In response to Reply # 0
If there's a reason I can't make the trip or something but if I'm offering something and don't specify particular terms, I don't expect the other person to do anything at all.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79607 posts
Thu Oct-13-16 10:41 AM
57. "She flipped the script on us.. he asked her to buy him lunch" In response to Reply # 50
Ionno what's going on.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79607 posts
Thu Oct-13-16 10:49 AM
61. "Damn, they trying you early as shit" In response to Reply # 58
They call you a yankee yet?
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
You offer to buy lunch but don't want to go get it. That is textbook definition of lazy.
It would be different if:
You paid for it online and they delivered. You handed him the money and said have fun. You offered it for the future. You called in delivery and paid for it when it got there.
Nah, you lazy for this and SMH at this shit. We've really lost recipes.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79607 posts
Thu Oct-13-16 10:48 AM
59. "If that makes her lazy that makes the other guy lazier and ungrateful" In response to Reply # 56
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79607 posts
Thu Oct-13-16 11:40 AM
74. "that's because you are normal" In response to Reply # 70
if a woman offers to buy me lunch I damn sure wouldn't think she is also going to get it for me.
WTF type of shit is that?
PATRIARCHY!!!!
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
84. "2 situations:" In response to Reply # 70 Thu Oct-13-16 12:09 PM by SoWhat
1. you come to ME and offer to buy my lunch.
..at this point i expect you're also going to get it. unless you state otherwise. b/c wtf? i can buy my own lunch so you're not doing me any favor if i go get your lunch in exchange for you buying me lunch. i'm not a delivery service.
2. i go to YOU and ask you to buy my lunch.
...i fully expect to go get it. unless you state otherwise. b/c wtf?
basically she who initiates the situation should be going to get the lunch.
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