I don't like it...

just curious...

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you dont wanna compliments from a man you cant smash or you dont trust THEIR motives? or none of the above?

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there is something behind it that makes me feel absolutely uncomfortable. When married men do it its almost like testing the water to see if you are game. FOH.

Men will say I just wanted to make you smile or brighten your day. As if their opinion of my looks could actually do that LOL It doesn't make me smile. It doesn't brighten my day. My husband complimented me this morning when I left the house. I don't need you to aid and assist.

there is no need for me to know what's going on in your head when mostly I already see it written on their face. U like what u see, head turn, yeah I know, I have a mirror.

If someone wants to comment on my biceps tris or quads or the detail in my back Im here for it. But please don't tell me I'm pretty (I have a mirror) or you like my hair/dress etc.

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i had the exact same response

but I kinda get it tho but still.

>If someone wants to comment on my biceps tris or quads or the detail in my back Im here for it.

I've often noticed a nicely defined woman in general or specific features like calves or whatever, but i wouldn't dare say it for everything else you said in your post.

If i ever got caught gawking i'd fess up and tell em why and apologize lol

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

you got em or you don't.

I receive compliments on my back and triceps all the time from men and women. These are probably people who values better than average physiques

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I almost complimented a co-worker yesterday. I actually thought about it first and decided not to. I am not interested in her or anything, I was just gonna tell her I thought her haircut was cool. Damn.

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Barely their outfits. I'll speak on their color selection. I like avoiding potential conflict. But that's me and not that dude.

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cause these women are really feeling themselves.

sure some dudes have ill intentions but most are probably just being nice.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

yeah, sometimes compliments are creepy compliments but sometimes they are just compliments.

“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

well adjusted people.




>I almost complimented a co-worker yesterday. I actually
>thought about it first and decided not to. I am not interested
>in her or anything, I was just gonna tell her I thought her
>haircut was cool. Damn.


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with respect.

don't listen to these muhfuggas. this is some of the most burnt-out $hit I have seen here. Common Core has fked OKP up. Which is amazing, cause most of these cats graduated from college decades ago.

smh

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you can only compliment certain muscle groups...

and only at certain times of the month

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like.

That same woman that feels one way today might feel differently tomorrow depending on maaaaaany factors especially who said it.

Her personal preference ain't that crazy.

Sheeeit, if some woman stopped me on the street to say i look handsome vs. you have really nice arms I'd be much more geeked at the arm comment cause i'm all curls in the gym lolz

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

seems like a needle in a haystack type of deal.

You can compliment the muscle group because it's a point of pride but if you compliment the hair, dress, etc... EVIL!!!

I been on this earth long enough to know most women welcome a compliment if its something they take pride in.

Calf muscles, new hair cut, new shoes, new glasses.

That's fine but if you compliment their calf muscles when they just got their hair did you might catch hell.

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How does THAT convo play out:

MALE: 'You look nice'

NM: Why'd you give me that compliment?

MALE: 'I just wanted to make you smile or brighten your
day.'

What kinda bull$hit is that?

also: complimenting your quads, delts etc...is a fastrack to Human Resources like a muhfugga and aint nobody here for THAT.

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>MALE: 'I just wanted to make you smile or brighten your
>day.'
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>What kinda bull$hit is that

This is the exact reasoning given on these here boards.


>also: complimenting your quads, delts etc...is a fastrack to
>Human Resources like a muhfugga and aint nobody here for THAT.
>

^^^^ never stated @ work
are the only women yall run into at work?
I would never expect anyone to comment on my appearance at work. Ever.

but okay.

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some people need to be constantly told they look amazing

some people dont need or like that sort of thing.

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says nice dress or something that other people have said to you, that's a problem?

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

so appropriate.

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Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

are too flirtatious, I have a problem...if you say, you look nice today...I'm cool. but if you say that Booty looks nice today...not cool.

Hell I've had a married dude ask me where I got a dress from once because he wanted to get his wife the same dress because he thought the DRESS was pretty lol

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however--MY PERSONAL OPINION--no man should ever compliment anything other than a woman's smile, until he gets to know her.

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I was just wondering because married or not, I didn't see how that particular compliment would fly.

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guess I'll give more of my gay friends compliments
they don't seem to mind

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>guess I'll give more of my gay friends compliments
>they don't seem to mind

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fuck your feelings...lol

seriously tho.. most men do it because we know most normal women appreciate a nice compliment.

and we don't have shit to lose so it's easy to throw out a compliment and not really care if you like it, hate it or think it's sleazy.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

"what they like" is pretty much the point of a compliment.

There should be an automatic subconscious calculation of whether or not your compliment- and the intent of the compliment- will be well received by the person you're complementation.

Because that's the point of a compliment.

If you don't care if your compliment will be poorly received and give it out anyways you're either an asshole or a creep or both.

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we know the difference between champs and chumps

thats some shit you have to work out on your own time...

while you looking at my ring thinking chump, creep, etc I'm already down the block handing out peace & blessing to the next sistah.

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man, sometimes I don't know what the f' you be talking about...

dude gives a compliment cause you trying to holla back.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

He actually thinks it's about him.

fucking idiot

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

LMAO.

You can't start a sentence with "seriously tho" and then get defensive and say "you think I'm serious too, fucking idiot" when someone tells you how ridiculous you sound.

You can't say "real talk" and then play that "lolz you think I'm serious too" shit.

It doesn't work that way. None of this works that way

And while we're tough typing and calling people idiots, you're EASILY one of the most basic motherfuckers on this site.

You prove your simplicity on a daily basis.
No critical thinking.
Everything you say is the most basic shit imaginable.
Anything remotely nuanced is a complete fucking mystery to you.

If we went through your text messages we'd see that shit would be written in the simplest jr. high level shorthand, full of "u" and "2" and "1" and "b", like "u gon b at da spot at 1?". not for convenience either, but because that's your fucking level.

Type of dude who stays tuned to "the hottest hip hop and R&B" station during drive time and LOVES that shit.

I bet you still walk around with your cell on a fucking belt clip so people can see it.

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Sorry but you're just really, really fucking generic.

You're basically that stock "create a character" guy in every video game ever.

Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

Tell me more about how outraged you are that I don't give a fuck when an inconsiderate asshole stopping traffic gets hit.

*awaits next hit*

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Yet another poorly thought out (i.e, not at all) "point" of yours.

Care to provide yet another entry to your long ass resume of shining examples of you being loud and wrong as fuck?

>Tell me more about how outraged you are that I don't give a
>fuck when an inconsiderate asshole stopping traffic gets hit.

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Who or what do you have to pray to in order to make sure that happens?

if that makes a woman mad it aint my fault...

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it's pretty much a win-win.

luckily me and my wife BOTH appreciate a nice ass/breasteses.

my condolences

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i'm always caught between lying that i ain't see it(of course i saw it) and telling the truth(well not the real truth)

She did that one around her moms and her moms was like don't be putting him in no win situations like that lol. I was like thanks moms....but what you talking about (doing the play dumb thing for way too long smh)

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

that ain't my problem.

If a married man tries to holla then sure, I see why she would be upset but a compliment? Nah...

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

For every new age weirdo chick who reacts all negative to nice gestures between homosapiens, there's plenty of healthy women (healthy people period) who are glad some of us still aren't afraid to spread the love in this cold ass world.

the idea of that thought going thru someones head is insane to me.

cold hollas and wolf whistling is one thing but hello? cmon yo

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4QelprVFHjU#t=31m51s

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>For every new age weirdo chick who reacts all negative to
>nice gestures between homosapiens, there's plenty of healthy
>women (healthy people period) who are glad some of us still
>aren't afraid to spread the love in this cold ass world.
>

Not everyone is 'healthy' in this world. Trampling over other people's issues to save inconvenience doesn't strike me as loving.

Just IMO though.