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FLUIDJ
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"Sickening and heartbreaking...PG County pedo...."


  

          

https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/public-safety/he-always-had-six-or-seven-kids-around-its-a-little-strange/2016/02/09/546489da-cf4f-11e5-88cd-753e80cd29ad_story.html?hpid=hp_local-news_carraway-837pm%3Ahomepage%2Fstory

Child-porn suspect ‘always had six or seven kids around. It's a little strange.’

Deonte Carraway was considered trustworthy by some — a man who did a good job keeping children entertained at the local recreation center and taking them to church on Sundays. To others, he seemed unusual— sometimes showing up as a volunteer at the elementary school near his home in pajamas and slippers.

But despite what many parents and neighbors thought about Carraway, one thing was constant, they say: The 22-year-old was often seen walking the streets of Glenarden, Md., in the company of young children.

Now, shock, anger and confusion have consumed much of the Prince George’s County city of about 6,000 residents after community members learned that Carraway was arrested for allegedly producing 40 pornographic videos featuring at least 10 youngsters.

Parents are demanding to know how Carraway apparently was left alone with students long enough at Judge Sylvania W. Woods Elementary School to produce the videos on school grounds and during the middle of the school day, as police have stated.

“He always had six or seven kids around,” said Neftari Argueta, whose children attend the elementary school where Carraway was a volunteer. “It’s a little strange.”

Carraway was charged Feb. 5 with 10 counts of felony child pornography and related charges in connection with videos he produced on his cellphone camera, Prince George’s County police said. Carraway has admitted to creating the videos, in which he sometimes can be seen or heard directing children between 9 and 13 years old to perform various sexual acts, police said.

A day after police announced charges against Carraway, the parking lot of Sylvania Woods Elementary was packed with worried, angry parents gathered for the school day.

Parents wanted to know the exact role Carraway had as a volunteer, who supervised him, how often he was at the school and whether there were previous complaints against him.

In an email, Sherrie Johnson, spokeswoman for the school system, described the situation as “very fluid” and said many of those questions were being looked into by law enforcement authorities.

A letter sent home with students Tuesday describes Carraway as a “former employee” and says he was charged with felony child pornography and sexual abuse.

The letter does not inform families that some of the alleged incidents took place at the school and during school hours. The letter also does not say that he had been an active, unpaid volunteer during this school year.

The three-paragraph letter says that the school system is shocked, that safety is a top priority and that employees are screened before they are hired — echoing much of what was in the school system’s statement Monday.

School administrators met with several parents Tuesday morning, and an informational meeting is planned for 6:30 p.m. Thursday at the school.

The case — which some experts in sex crimes involving children say is unusual because of the number of alleged victims and its scope — is complex and will probably expand beyond the 10 victims police have already identified.

Police said that in addition to the elementary school where Carraway worked, children were filmed at the Glenarden Municipal Center, the Theresa Banks Memorial Aquatic Center and in private homes.

In less than a day, about 20 people have called a tip line that county police set up after announcing Carraway’s arrest, police spokeswoman Julie Parker said. “We’re encouraged that the community is responding,” she said.

The FBI, which is also investigating, also launched a tip line Tuesday.

Sgt. John Linton, a detective with the Computer Crimes section of the Maryland State Police, said many cases he investigates have a single victim. “That’s a significant case when you have 10 children,” as the charges contend, Linton said.

The reported scope indicates “that is not somebody who started yesterday. That is somebody who has been engaged in this behavior for a while.”

The investigation into Carraway began after the uncle of a student noticed a nude photo on the child’s cellphone and notified police.

The message — and several others police later discovered — was sent through Kik, an anonymous messaging app.

Parents and neighbors said that Carraway, who was also director of the Glenarden Voices of Youth Choir, was often seen in the company of children at all hours of the day. It remained unclear Tuesday whether the choir is affiliated with any larger organization.

If they didn’t see him with children at the school, parents and neighbors said, they would see him taking children to choir, escorting them from after-school programs or hanging out with them at a local 7-Eleven.

“Once I saw the picture, I knew who he was,” said a woman whose daughter attends Woods Elementary and who spoke on the condition of anonymity to avoid identifying her child.

“He walked with a group of kids to and from school. I saw him many times,” the woman added.

A lifelong Glenarden resident who also spoke on the condition of anonymity to maintain her privacy said: “I’ve always known him to be with the kids and do an absolutely good job. It was very surprising to hear about what happened.”

Attempts to reach Carraway’s family were unsuccessful. Online court records did not list an attorney for him.

The Rev. Henry P. Davis, pastor of First Baptist Church of Highland Park, said Carraway joined his church when he was in high school and sang in the youth choir but eventually left. Davis said he doesn’t know whether Carraway had inappropriate contact with children from his church but said the church is launching its own investigation.

“Our prayers go out to all of the families who have been affected by this tragedy,” said Davis, who added that he plans to make an effort to see Carraway in jail.

In his online persona, Carraway portrays himself as an aspiring gospel singer and posted photos of himself reading a Bible. Images on his Instagram page often advertised his username on the messaging app, along with requests for people to “Kik me.”

“As we bring this year to a close I’m so proud that this year 2014 I got a job working with kids and I got a choir that has been a dream for me to direct and I just thank god for blessing me and 2015 I’m ready for you,” Carraway wrote on his Facebook page. “Start a new chapter.”

  

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wouldn't leave my kids with a 22 year old guy
Feb 11th 2016
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me either...or a teen even. I already have reservations about male child
Feb 11th 2016
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it's not just 'un PC' - it's flat out wrong.
Feb 11th 2016
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I'm not ashamed and i don't think I should be shamed for it.
Feb 11th 2016
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vulgar, foul, wrong and proud.
Feb 11th 2016
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'wrong' is the only descriptor i'll admit to potentially being accurate....
Feb 11th 2016
your stance is vulgar.
Feb 11th 2016
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I'll accept that. Never said I was proud though....
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      fine.
Feb 11th 2016
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yeah, this doesn't make sense
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      All of the teachers at her school are credentialed and highly trained.
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Breh u think they should pass legislation to legalize pedophilia..
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      so do you, bro.
Feb 11th 2016
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           Never called u one so don't even know where you're going with that
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                you don't know shit about shit, bitch.
Feb 11th 2016
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                     nah, you said some crazy things about pedo's bruh
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                     blah blah blah.
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                     If this guy was just going around flashing kids it'd be all good
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                          it's just a penis.
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                               I hear you and I get it now.
Feb 11th 2016
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                               yikes
Feb 11th 2016
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                               we're not rehashing it.
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                               ok i missed something.
Feb 11th 2016
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                               Indecent exposure is a "crime" depending on where you live
Feb 11th 2016
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                               smh
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                     Name call all you want. I know wtf you said
Feb 11th 2016
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                          well you said you've dreamed of making love to your granny's corpse.
Feb 11th 2016
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                          Even if that were true I damn sure ain't on record saying it
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                               they sell red herrings at the Seattle fish market.
Feb 11th 2016
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                               That's the best u could come up with?
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                                    what i said and meant are pretty clear in that post.
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                                         Lol damn right it is
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                               lol. uhm yes you are reaching
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                                    it didn't have to support pedophiles to be a savage and disgusting stanc...
Feb 29th 2016
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                          y'all chill.... no need to rehash that post here.....
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                               we can exchange crazy, fictional quotes.
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                                    peep my edit. also...just saw your reply above..and that's how I remembe...
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this is dumb..alot of male teachers get experience in day care
Feb 11th 2016
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      ^^^
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its also disgusting, fucked up and unfair to men.
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RE: me either...or a teen even. I already have reservations about male c...
Feb 29th 2016
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especially one named Deonte with a blonde streak in his hair
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"he in the choir though!" - church folk
Feb 11th 2016
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lmao
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no way im leaving my son with that guy
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OK?
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What if he was a first grade teacher?
Feb 11th 2016
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i'm looking at it two ways....
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if someone puts in years studying child development..
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      Only men are required to have these credentials to receive your trust?
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what about sports or after school activities?
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lol
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yeah...
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mine better doe
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      haha
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In general when posts take a turn like the above
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and the problem w/homie's stance is it can hurt the men
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i replied in a similar manner in the other post about this yesterday
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What are you referring to? No one has taken this into a Hetero/Homo dire...
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Being that nobody speculated on his sexual orientation
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this dudes sexual preference has nothing to do with the story
Feb 11th 2016
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shouldn't have been. that was more a stab at the church establishment
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do you have data/research to back that up or is it just your opinion?
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      RE: do you have data/research to back that up or is it just your opinion...
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he did a horrible job with the kids. the choir sucked.
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people probably saw his church steez and gave him a pass
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its on the parents, you don't leave your kids with just anybody.
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My boys have a male pre-school teacher. Pretty sure he is gay as well.
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gotta remember to think about what actually gets reported
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      these women wildin out too
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      You don't fuzz too tough with statistical analysis huh?
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So who molested him? That is the question. He's only 22.
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Mr Dub had a roommate/landlord back a few years ago
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TF? that entire story is just bizarre
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he was hanging out with children at 7-eleven
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      lol @ hell yeah im >gonna question his hair
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More info for you all.
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asked the severity of charges, life in prison he began to break down & c...
Feb 12th 2016
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RE: Sickening and heartbreaking...PG County pedo....
Feb 29th 2016
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ndibs
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1. "wouldn't leave my kids with a 22 year old guy"
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they don't even let 22 year guys rent cars for a reason

  

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FLUIDJ
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2. "me either...or a teen even. I already have reservations about male child"
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Thu Feb-11-16 09:17 AM by FLUIDJ

  

          

care providers in the infant & pre-K stages anyway....
this incident is a different age range of course...

I know it's not P.C. to say it...but that's just how I feel about it. And stories like this don't help.


"Get ready..for your blessing..."

  

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SoWhat
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6. "it's not just 'un PC' - it's flat out wrong."
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it's not supported by facts.

it's blatantly awful.

you should be shamed for it.

fuck you.

  

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FLUIDJ
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7. "I'm not ashamed and i don't think I should be shamed for it. "
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>it's not supported by facts.
>
>it's blatantly awful.

I just don't believe that male caregivers provide the same type of nurturing and presence and aura that's required for infants and toddlers. There's a difference. I can't put my finger on it, but as a parent, I've seen it and I can tell a difference.

I'm not speaking of grade school.... my issue is more with the pre-kindergarten years....

>you should be shamed for it.


"Get ready..for your blessing..."

  

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SoWhat
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8. "vulgar, foul, wrong and proud."
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fuck you.

  

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FLUIDJ
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"'wrong' is the only descriptor i'll admit to potentially being accurate...."


  

          

The rest are just unnecessary insults fam.....

My daughter's current care facility has multiple male care givers. Not like i'm rallying against it. And it's become less and less of an "issue" for me over the past few years that she's been there. But i've seen a marked difference in how she responds to the male vs. female caregivers. Her and other children. The balance in gender distribution is great, but it's still something that me and my wife are both personally getting used to still.

"Get ready..for your blessing..."

  

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SoWhat
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15. "your stance is vulgar."
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and foul.

and you're proud of how wrong you are.

or maybe you're not proud which would be something. at least.

sheesh.

fuck you.

  

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FLUIDJ
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18. "I'll accept that. Never said I was proud though...."
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>and foul.
>
>and you're proud of how wrong you are.
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>or maybe you're not proud which would be something. at
>least.
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>sheesh.

If something is what it is, and you present it as such, that doesn't equate to being proud of it. But I get where you're coming from though.

"Get ready..for your blessing..."

  

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SoWhat
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20. "fine."
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fuck you.

  

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legsdiamond
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24. "yeah, this doesn't make sense"
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a male caregiver who has all the proper credentials isn't a problem.

plenty of 22 year old women out here are crazy and disturbed

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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FLUIDJ
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30. "All of the teachers at her school are credentialed and highly trained. "
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>a male caregiver who has all the proper credentials isn't a
>problem.

My(our) issues is/were more about the nurturing aspect(wife & me) and an ego thing (me). Our daughter just responded differently to male vs. female. As a father, I just have an inherent ego thing about being the prominent male figure in her life...and I know that it's not right...and it's something i'm working on...but for this convo here...I have no problem putting it on front street because I think it adds to/enhances the dialogue.


>plenty of 22 year old women out here are crazy and disturbed

Indeed...INDEED!! I'll concede that it's more likely even....
"Get ready..for your blessing..."

  

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DJPoke
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11. "Breh u think they should pass legislation to legalize pedophilia.."
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Please have a seat somewhere

  

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SoWhat
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14. "so do you, bro."
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you're as much a pedophile as i am.

fuck you.

  

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DJPoke
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19. "Never called u one so don't even know where you're going with that"
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I do know you wrong as hell with your views on pedophilia tho. And frankly disturbing.

Sit this one out breh.

  

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21. "you don't know shit about shit, bitch."
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fuck you.

  

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legsdiamond
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25. "nah, you said some crazy things about pedo's bruh"
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****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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27. "blah blah blah."
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fuck you.

  

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29. "If this guy was just going around flashing kids it'd be all good"
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I guess he crossed the line somewhere.

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Everything looks like Oprah kissing Harvey Weinstein these days

  

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32. "it's just a penis."
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is what i said.

i said i wouldn't make a big deal out of it in order to avoid freaking out my kid - b/c my kid wouldn't know to be freaked out by seeing a penis unless s/he took a clue from me. b/c there's nothing inherently freaky about seeing a penis - even in public. i said i'd use the incident as a teachable moment and would affirm for my kid that s/he should keep their private parts private while in public b/c it'd be rude to show them to other ppl as that guy did. but i wouldn't freak out about the thing in front of my kid to avoid freaking out my kid.

that's what i said/meant.

fuck you.

  

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36. "I hear you and I get it now. "
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Everything looks like Oprah kissing Harvey Weinstein these days

  

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40. "yikes"
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indecent exposure is a serious crime. it's not about the private part; it's forcing someone to look at it. it's almost as bad as assault.

  

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43. "we're not rehashing it."
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fuck you.

  

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44. "ok i missed something."
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better that way i suppose.

  

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54. "Indecent exposure is a "crime" depending on where you live"
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Thu Feb-11-16 12:44 PM by PoppaGeorge

  

          

Give an example: In Berlin, Germany it's not considered a crime to walk down the street ass naked by anyone, so it's not uncommon to see men and women walking, biking, or just sittin off in a park asshole naked.

Do that ALMOST anywhere in the US and you'll wind up a registered sex offender.

I say almost because in some jurisdictions the act of being naked in public isn't considered indecent exposure, but there's a slippery slope: It becomes indecent exposure if the intent is sexual gratification on the part of the actor. This creates a condition where a person can simply be naked in their front yard and how the person that sees him/her perceives it is what can get you arrested, not what you're actually doing while naked.

It's for this reason that events like the World Naked Bike Ride in Philly, San Fran, and Portland have no mass arrests while the same event in Chicago did have arrests.

Truth be told, "Indecent Exposure" should be done away with. It's entirely too broad in scope and too vague. I can see prosecuting someone for public masturbation, that is something that shouldn't be done at all especially in front of or near children. But sittin off chillin in your yard naked or taking a stroll on a cool summer night? Nah b.

  

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63. "smh "
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________________________________________
"Take the surprise out your voice Shaq."-The REAL CP3
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v2H5K-BUMS0

  

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28. "Name call all you want. I know wtf you said "
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If I'm wrong please correct me.

  

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31. "well you said you've dreamed of making love to your granny's corpse."
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so i guess we both crazy, huh?

fuck you.

  

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DJPoke
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38. "Even if that were true I damn sure ain't on record saying it"
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You on the other hand..
http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=12899812&mesg_id=12899812&listing_type=search#12900416

(Reply #80 and u even triple down'd smh)

But yea. Keep tossing those red herrings like you're in a Seattle fish market.

  

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SoWhat
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42. "they sell red herrings at the Seattle fish market."
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Thu Feb-11-16 11:47 AM by SoWhat

  

          

this is that.

let's examine the context in which i made the statement.

it was in a post discussing an article where the author asked folks to be understanding and supportive of the plight of an admitted pedophile who's doing what he can to avoid acting on his urges. PoppaGeorge asked if pedophiles will be the next group to have their civil rights recognized as us gays have been gainin on jerks like you w/our civil rights progress. i said, facetiously, that if they can find groups to advocate for them as we gays did and if they can find room in the US Constitution for their rights to be protected then it's all good. i went on to say that's not likely to happen and i explained why - it's b/c the law seeks to protect kids from sex w/adults b/c they can't offer consent which means sex between adults and kids is basically rape and will remain illegal (http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=12899812&mesg_id=12899812&listing_type=search#12900421). i don't see how any group advocating for legalization of sex between adults and kids will get around that. but if they're able to get around it then as much as i may dislike it that is how it'll be. it ain't gonna happen and my 'acceptance' is conditioned on an impossibility. it doesn't amount to actual support for legalization of sex between adults and kids.

i'd say 'nice try' but i'd be facetious and you'd misunderstand it and later misrepresent it. LOL

fuck you.

  

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49. "That's the best u could come up with? "
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That you were being facetious?

Lol

Breh I know when you are being facetious on here. That wasn't one of them. You clarified what you meant 3 damn times. Wasn't nothing facetious about your replies. Nothing at all. First you lie and saying I made it all up. Now this bullshit ass faux-lawyer ass excuse about you being facetious. Naw breh. Maybe I would give you the benefit of doubt if you weren't always saying suspect pro-pedo shit on here.

But nope.

Just own it.

  

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50. "what i said and meant are pretty clear in that post."
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i didn't offer support for legalization of sex between adults and kids. i responded to an attempt to link the gay civil rights movement w/a pedo civil rights movement.

and your attempt to mischaracterize it is also clear.



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52. "Lol damn right it is"
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60. "lol. uhm yes you are reaching"
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what sowhat said does not show support for peadophilia

(i had to go read that post).

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which it was, and still is.

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33. "y'all chill.... no need to rehash that post here....."
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and I don't remember SoWhat blatantly advocating pedo's...
it was a different take on things...and ultimately I remember kinda getting his point....

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34. "we can exchange crazy, fictional quotes."
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this is OKP. it's all JOKES!

everything is funny.

it's like we're in a barbershop.

LULZ!!!!!

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35. "peep my edit. also...just saw your reply above..and that's how I remembe..."
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it playing out too.....



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66. "^^^"
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71. "its also disgusting, fucked up and unfair to men."
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77. "RE: me either...or a teen even. I already have reservations about male c..."
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Agreed. I'm sorry. Its one of the reasons why I can't leave my kid at my gym child care. My child is deathly afraid of one of the guys and its made me question why. So I don't leave her there.

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4. "especially one named Deonte with a blonde streak in his hair"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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9. ""he in the choir though!" - church folk "
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56. "lmao"
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26. "no way im leaving my son with that guy"
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55. "OK?"
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10. "What if he was a first grade teacher? "
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13. "i'm looking at it two ways.... "
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Even though this particular case doesn't really support this type of breakdown...

But from a structured school standpoint...I have to put a lot of trust and faith in the school that they have trained, vetted, and certified personnel leading the classroom. In that instance, I wouldn't bat an eye if my 1st graders teacher was a male.

From an after school or babysitting standpoint though, no, I would be 95% less likely to seek out and hire a male to perform that service at any age.




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51. "if someone puts in years studying child development.."
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child education or child psychology, then i'm more likely to trust them with kids, male or female...

  

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75. "Only men are required to have these credentials to receive your trust?"
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Women just get it automatically?

I remember Auset said some similar mess on here about not trusting
any males dealing with children including big brothers, coaches, etc.


This mindset is just all kinds of disturbing.



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48. "what about sports or after school activities?"
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coaches, etc. are usually volunteers.

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3. "yeah..."
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http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=12971215&mesg_id=12971215&listing_type=search

  

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5. "mine better doe"
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12. "haha"
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16. "In general when posts take a turn like the above"
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I always wonder if people forget that most pedophiles stay within the 'heterosexual' paradigm or turn out to be equal opportunity violators.

  

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17. "and the problem w/homie's stance is it can hurt the men"
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who are engaged in that work. and it can prevent some men from entering that field.

i know a couple of men who do that work and they're entirely awesome at it. they're credits to the places where they work and the kids they work with tend to really appreciate them. they don't deserve the bullshit thrown at them from ppl who agree w/homie above.

it's sick.

fuck you.

  

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41. "i replied in a similar manner in the other post about this yesterday"
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and i agree with you. it's really quite unfortunate that creeps like this guy give well meaning, excellent care providers/mentors/etc a hard way to go.

it's understandable, to a degree, but quite unfortunate.

  

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22. "What are you referring to? No one has taken this into a Hetero/Homo dire..."
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>I always wonder if people forget that most pedophiles stay
>within the 'heterosexual' paradigm or turn out to be equal
>opportunity violators.

I sure haven't. And I don't get the sense that NDibs or Poke has either....

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23. "Being that nobody speculated on his sexual orientation "
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What point is it you're trying to make here?

I'm confused.


Edit: replied in wrong spot. But u see it too.

  

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37. "this dudes sexual preference has nothing to do with the story"
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was it the choir joke?

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39. "shouldn't have been. that was more a stab at the church establishment "
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at least that's my take on it....


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57. "do you have data/research to back that up or is it just your opinion?"
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>I always wonder if people forget that most pedophiles stay
>within the 'heterosexual' paradigm or turn out to be equal
>opportunity violators.

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72. "RE: do you have data/research to back that up or is it just your opinion..."
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http://psc.dss.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/HTML/facts_molestation.html

"The empirical research does not show that gay or bisexual men are any more likely than heterosexual men to molest children. This is not to argue that homosexual and bisexual men never molest children. But there is no scientific basis for asserting that they are more likely than heterosexual men to do so. And, as explained above, many child molesters cannot be characterized as having an adult sexual orientation at all; they are fixated on children."

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46. "he did a horrible job with the kids. the choir sucked."
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he was apparently reported by several teachers and the principal (who is now on leave) failed to act.

  

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47. "people probably saw his church steez and gave him a pass"
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they thought it was weird he was hanging out with kids but saw/heard that he was involved with the church. what other 22 year old from the neighborhood could get away with hanging out with kids at 7-Eleven unless people could say "oh thats the boy who sings in the choir". volunteering at an elementary school? i wouldve been asked him straight up if he is studying to become a teacher and ask for transcripts. aint no 22 year old boy with even a heart of gold gonna volunteer like that.
major fail by the community in this situation. those people who initially "thought it was weird" are monsters too.

  

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59. "its on the parents, you don't leave your kids with just anybody."
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58. "My boys have a male pre-school teacher. Pretty sure he is gay as well. "
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Dude rocks. Been teaching in this school for 20 years. And is lo-key (sratch that) high key pro-black and pro-minority in a very white school. Got Malcolm, Martin, Rosa on the walls. I died when my boys told me they re-enacted the Rosa Park experience (with the white boys being Rosa Park). So glad he is their teacher.

Experience is the best antidote to prejudice. I think if any folks had experience with this dude they'd probably have a different opinion on this subject.




At the same time I ain't Super kumbaya about the topic.

I really don't like the idea of anyone being alone alone with my kids for extended periods of time. There really isn't alot of situations where that should be going on at a school.

Also, because a vast majority of sex offenders are male, I think it is warranted to give males higher scrutiny in positions of childcare.

If my boys are lost in the street and can't find a cop, and have to ask a stranger for help, I tell them to ask a woman. At that point it's just a probability game but that little bit of advice would have saved the lives of Leiby Kletzky and Adam Walsh probably.

But this conversation didn't really go there because there are plenty of other reasons why the dude in this story wouldn't be watching my kids or alone with them and it doesn't have to do with him being a male.

When dude walked in pajamas it would have been a wrap.


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62. "gotta remember to think about what actually gets reported"
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>Also, because a vast majority of sex offenders are male, I
>think it is warranted to give males higher scrutiny in
>positions of childcare.

the problem with this is women childcare workers are probably equally as likely to sexually assault children (actually more due to their numbers and bc of such high scrutiny of males) but it's far more underreported and not exactly an uncommon occurrence

just another example of misguided biases being treated as "common sense"

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64. "these women wildin out too"
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68. "You don't fuzz too tough with statistical analysis huh?"
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>the problem with this is women childcare workers are probably
>equally as likely to sexually assault children (actually more
>due to their numbers and bc of such high scrutiny of males)
>but it's far more underreported and not exactly an uncommon
>occurrence
>
>just another example of misguided biases being treated as
>"common sense"


Granted female abuse is probably under-reported but male abuse is probably under-reported as well.

I mean it's not even like the numbers suggest that it's close. Guys are more probable to do it by ALOT.

The fact that there are more women in childcare isn't relevant. You flip a coin ten times and get heads what's the probably you going to get heads on the tenth flip? Still 50/50. Same way that if you have two adults dealing with you kid statistically it is more probably by a lot that the guy is the creep.


I mean if you are not basing it on statistics, what basis do you have at all to say that women are more probable to do it?





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61. "So who molested him? That is the question. He's only 22."
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65. "Mr Dub had a roommate/landlord back a few years ago"
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who was engaging in some of the most horrifying and outrageous behavior you can possibly imagine. He's in prison now, thankfully.

NO ONE figured him for it. It was something he hid absolutely. His oldest friends were utterly unprepared for this revelation. And Mr. Dub was like, that is the last thing I expected from him. He was to all appearances a kind and thoughtful man, well educated, not creepy looking or acting in any way, who traveled to another state to sexually molest the 5-month old baby of a disgusting woman who rented her baby out to him. The only pictures of him that are posted on line were taken after he was arrested after an international flight and after interrogation, so he is tired and scared and the pictures look creepy. I can attest that he did not look creepy in person.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/02/03/kenneth-kyle-san-francisc_n_1253062.html

http://sanfrancisco.cbslocal.com/2012/03/09/former-csu-east-bay-professor-sentenced-for-infant-sexual-abuse/

So think about that the next time you say "Oh a man with a blonde streak in his hair who is in the church choir is obviously a danger to children." That could not be further from the description of this man.



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67. "TF? that entire story is just bizarre"
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69. "he was hanging out with children at 7-eleven"
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he was showing up in pajamas to volunteer at an elementary school. if those arent huge red flags worthy of critical judgement. so taking those things into account, hell yeah im gonna question his hair and affiliation with the church. like the church isnt known to overlook sex abuse and corruption from time to time. the man you posted was obviously more stealth.


>So think about that the next time you say "Oh a man with a
>blonde streak in his hair who is in the church choir is
>obviously a danger to children." That could not be further
>from the description of this man.

  

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70. "lol @ hell yeah im >gonna question his hair "
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>he was showing up in pajamas to volunteer at an elementary
>school. if those arent huge red flags worthy of critical
>judgement. so taking those things into account, hell yeah im
>gonna question his hair and affiliation with the church. like
>the church isnt known to overlook sex abuse and corruption
>from time to time. the man you posted was obviously more
>stealth.
>
>
>>So think about that the next time you say "Oh a man with a
>>blonde streak in his hair who is in the church choir is
>>obviously a danger to children." That could not be further
>>from the description of this man.
>
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73. "More info for you all. "
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http://www.fox5dc.com/news/local-news/89085987-story

UPPER MARLBORO, Md. - Almost a week after he was charged with producing videos of young children performing sexual acts on the grounds of a Prince George’s County Elementary School, Deonte Carraway spoke exclusively with FOX 5’s Marina Marraco in a jailhouse interview at the Prince George’s County Correctional Center.

Carraway was a former teacher’s assistant at Judge Sylvania Woods Elementary School in Glenarden. The 22-year-old is facing 10 counts of felony child pornography, sexual abuse of a minor and second-degree sexual offense.


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Prince George’s County police said they have identified 12 victims so far in their investigation ranging from 9 to 13 years old. Detectives found Carraway had about 40 videos showing the victims performing sex acts on each other or alone under his direction. Police also believe Carraway abused seven of his victims.
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No cameras were allowed in the detention center where Carraway was being held, but Marraco along with her photographer spent roughly an hour with Carraway, meeting him in the medical ward of the jail separated by a glass partition. He was wearing an orange jumpsuit, but was not handcuffed or shackled.

One of the first questions Marraco asked him was whether he was involved in the child pornography charges he is being accused of. He was very candid and told her he did participate in the filming and directing of some of these videos.

But when Carraway was asked if he understood the severity of his charges and the possibility of facing the rest of his life in prison, he began to break down and cry. He said he understood what he did was wrong and was sorry, but he claims he never sexually interacted with these children physically and was only watching them from behind the camera.

Carraway said he had access to these explicit videos of the young victims, many of them taken on the children's cellphones. These videos were sent to his cellphone through the Kik messaging app, he said.

He told Marraco everything all started as fun and games such as Hide and Go Seek or Truth or Dare. Then it evolved into kissing and more sexual acts between the children, including sexual intercourse. He considered himself more of a friend than an adult figure to these children.

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He said on the night he was taken into custody by police last Friday, he was at the home of one of the alleged victims.

Carraway told FOX 5 that he has a history of being sexually abused while growing up. He said he was raped when he was about 10 years old.

He said he was also bullied while attending DuVal High School in Lanham. He claimed that fellow students attempted to remove his clothing and that he was nearly raped in high school.

He told Marraco that he mentioned his troubled past to police officers.

According to Marraco, when he was asked if he understood the impact his actions might have on his alleged victims moving forward, Carraway just put his head down and cried and would not elaborate further on that.



Marraco appeared on Good Day DC Friday morning to discuss the interview with Carraway further. Watch that video below:

  

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74. "asked the severity of charges, life in prison he began to break down & c..."
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>But when Carraway was asked if he understood the severity of
>his charges and the possibility of facing the rest of his life
>in prison, he began to break down and cry.

  

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76. "RE: Sickening and heartbreaking...PG County pedo...."
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http://www.baltimoresun.com/news/maryland/crime/bs-md-school-aide-child-pornography-20160223-story.html

Prosecutors: Prince George's school volunteer charged with child sex abuse

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GREENBELT, Md. (AP) — The 22-year-old volunteer school aide with the blond streak in his Afro told students at a suburban Maryland elementary school that they were part of a special club. According to prosecutors, Deonte Carraway pulled kids out of classrooms in the middle of the day and made smartphone videos of them having sex with him and each other on school property.

Carraway is facing child pornography charges that could put him in prison for the rest of his life, Maryland U.S. Attorney Rod Rosenstein said at a news conference Tuesday. The charges mark the latest development in a sex-abuse scandal that has shaken parents' faith in Prince George's County school administrators.

According to police, Carraway is known to have victimized at least 17 children, ranging in age from 9 to 13. In addition to Judge Sylvania Woods Elementary School in Glenarden, where he stocked shelves in the library and directed an unofficial school choir, he also abused children at a church, a pool, a community center and several homes, Prince George's County police have said.

Two lawsuits, including a class-action complaint, have already been filed against the school system. According to the complaints, the school's principal, Michelle Williams — who was placed on leave after Carraway's arrest earlier this month — didn't follow up on reports by parents and teachers of predatory behavior by Carraway. When a relative showed an explicit video to Williams, she didn't call police, instead telling the relative to return to the school the next day, the lawsuits say.

The relative called police on his own, and Carraway was quickly arrested. Williams hung up when a reporter from The Associated Press reached her by phone on Tuesday.

Carraway, whose public defender declined to comment on Tuesday, admitted to investigators that he made the videos and told the kids they were part of a club he called "AKA," according to court documents.

"I know it was wrong. I'm a bad person. I'm no child of God for doing this," Carraway told investigators. "… I know I'm older and I knew it was wrong because kids don't know better and I just lost it and now it don't look good on my part."

Prosecutors said Carraway communicated with his victims and shared the videos on Kik, a messaging app that allows users to hide their identities, and gave the victims usernames for the app. One of Carraway's cellphones was found at the home of a victim, the documents said.

In one instance, Carraway asked a 9-year-old boy to take off his pants, and when the boy refused, Carraway threatened to contact the principal and police, prosecutors said. He then ordered another child to have sex with the boy and recorded the act on his phone, prosecutors said.

"I think that illustrates the evil, really, that we see in these sort of cases," Rosenstein said.

Carraway was charged with eight counts of producing child pornography, each of which carries a mandatory minimum sentence of 15 years in prison if a defendant is convicted. He was also indicted Tuesday in state court on child-sex-abuse charges.

Although prosecutors believe Carraway acted alone in making the videos, they did not rule out the possibility that other adults could be charged as collaborators.

Prince George's County, a suburb of Washington, is the nation's wealthiest majority-black jurisdiction. The school where Carraway volunteered is 56 percent black and 39 percent Latino. Less than 20 percent of students were deemed proficient in reading and math on standardized tests last year.

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