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I've mentioned this before, but my wife and I took in her brother and his "wife's" (they not really married but she is the mother of his kids) two girls.
They lived with almost all of 2015. We took them because they needed to not be homeless and have some stability. In the meanwhile (almost a year) their parents have remained homeless, and their situation has technically gotten worse. They are not doing much, if anything, to lift themselves out of their condition, when OUR hope was that by taking on their kids it would take pressure off them to be responsible for the girls and get their own, adult lives together.
During this time, we agreed that we would claim one of the girls on our taxes, and the wife would claim the other since she did work during the year (the dad, my wife's brother, hasn't worked since i've been with my wife and even if he did, the government would take all of his money due to random legal issues including child support for two other kid's with another woman - so, he doesn't file taxes).
So, we go to do our taxes and our return is rejected because they claimed both girls. Now, it's not just the lie and betrayal that makes me so mad and is likely going to be my final straw in dealing with them, it's that WE very likely would have gotten more claiming both girls (let alone the one we agreed upon) than they did...and our plan was to do something really nice for the girls with that extra money (the oldest needs a laptop of her own and the youngest? i know we'd figure out something). WE could have done something nice and still give their parents their "cut" which would likely have been more than the "wife" got on her own. so fucking stupid, these people.
so not only did they lie, but they took blessings out of their own kids' hands once again. since we can't claim either girl, we're not gonna get enough back to really spend it like we hoped.
i really hate them. how they produced two normal, amazing children is a minor miracle i'll never understand.
thanks for letting me vent.
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