Not out of any specific sense of honesty, I've needed her to unlock my phone more times than I've unlocked hers. That and I couldn't remember her Samsung pattern when she did let me know.
------ “There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn.” -Albert Camus
6. "Do you live together?" In response to Reply # 3
Sometimes I can't find my phone and need to use hers to call it. Sometimes I need to look something up real quick, and her phone is right there and mine is upstairs or whatever. We both know each other's and it's not a big deal.
23. "not living together, no." In response to Reply # 6
i've lived alone for years while managing to make it w/just my phone. so if/when i cohabitate i should be able to continue making it w/o access to his phone.
my boy is on his second wife because his first wife went online and read his text messages and printed them out and sent them to the church.
and this nigga still has all types of shit on his phone.
I'm impressed by how sloppy he is with his marriage.
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16. "nah, she makes big bank..." In response to Reply # 12
dude is just stuck in his ways...
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62. "yea, so strangers have a hard fucking time with using it." In response to Reply # 54
any time I've lost my phone I also immediately go to Find My Phone and lock it down completely with a message displaying my SO at the time or parents'/closest friend's phone number. Unless you really want to steal phones and can run the whole game on refreshing them, you can't have mine or the info inside it.
But I really don't care if friends need to use it. You have to be careful with strangers or lost / forgotten phones though.
14. "I know hers..i don't have one." In response to Reply # 0
I need to in case i lose my joint, but i like the convenience of not having to put on in
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43. "and store them in your unlocked phone!!!!!!!" In response to Reply # 24
>I take photos of things like licenses or cards in case I lose them.
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74. "That is LITERALLY insane. Someone's gonna hack your shit" In response to Reply # 24
if they ever steal your phone, they will have a really easy time ripping off your whole identity. You should really think about putting a code on there (and deleting your credit card pics)
31. "Thing is, you end up looking guilty as hell when" In response to Reply # 26
you in the kitchen and your phone rings in the living room right next to your SO and you OJ Simpson leap across the room to get your phone rather than say "hey babe, grab that for me and see whose calling"
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30. "She doesn't have my email password. Or my computer. " In response to Reply # 22
There's still a level of privacy. I'm one that used to sleep with my phone for years. Now I don't and life hasn't changed. But I wouldn't have done that with most people.
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44. "We know eachother's code" In response to Reply # 0
We've got nothing to hide. Plus we take a fair amount of road trips so I often need her to do something on my phone why I'm driving.
The only thing that *might* be a little awkward would be if she saw who I follow on IG, but she wouldn't go snooping on my phone beyond needing to accomplish some specific task. And if she did see IG feed, not much explanation would be needed. LOL.
49. "RE: Is there usually a prior acts exclusion on this?" In response to Reply # 47
> of people from past relationships?
I'd be careful with this. Your S/O might say "I don't care about that...that's your past" but if they see some old pics, they probably will feel at least a little something not positive. I'd just delete it.
48. "yep we know our codes. I got nothing to hide. That being said.." In response to Reply # 0
There is a need to respect personal space. Just cuz I got nothing to hide dont mean I want you sitting reading all the text convos me and my boys have. Something she started doing when I first gave it to her & I had to check her on it. Now just that fact she has it & knows she can go in it anytime is enough for her. She trusts me again.
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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out? Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then? They don't want to call for peace then.
She doesn't use one but she uses the same password for everything like a dummy and I know that one. I've told her mine reluctantly so she could unlock my phone for something. Not sure if she remembered it or not (lets be honest, she made sure to commit that to memory immediately). I don't have anything to hide, I just want my shit to really be locked when I lock it.
60. "she might, but not directly." In response to Reply # 0
she's been driving and we've gone through the ATM and my PIN is the same as my phone. The screen also locked as I turned it to show her something and I just had her put it in. But we haven't explicitly told each other what it is, like for memory's sake.
For what it's worth, her phone doesn't even have a lock on it. But her text messages don't display a preview on the lock screen.
73. "I am. I didn't even know until months later" In response to Reply # 72
We got in this huge fight that night, and I thought she just peeped my code. Months later after everything was smoothed out I was talking about how I was gonna change my code, but I left it the same to show her that I had nothing to hide, and she was like, "Why do you keep talking about a code? I don't know your code. I used your thumb when you were asleep." I was like, "Damn. "
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