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veritas
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"When people fulfill their stereotypes in your daily life"


          

Are you disappointed? Amused? Bemused? Does it matter how bad the stereotype is?

I opened the door to the bar/restaurant to walk in. A group was walking out, so I held it for them.

Group of five. A black woman, three white women, and a white man.

Two people said thanks. You know which two.

I couldn't help but laugh.

i still blame hip-hop.

  

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when they brought the whole watermelon to work but let okp tell it
Jan 26th 2016
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My wife got ripped into for that.
Jan 26th 2016
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      RE: My wife got ripped into for that.
Jan 26th 2016
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      Can't be this chick
Jan 26th 2016
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      Holy shit, 4th comment down is a dude I work with. lol
Jan 26th 2016
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      Damn.
Jan 26th 2016
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      smh
Jan 26th 2016
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      look how happy they all are
Jan 26th 2016
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      I remember my internship, it was me, one Black girl, n that's it
Jan 26th 2016
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Not saying thank you for holding the door makes my blood
Jan 26th 2016
4
A kind gesture done with the expectation of thanks isn't kind
Jan 26th 2016
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Yup, ain't nothing kind about it. I do it because I was trained
Jan 26th 2016
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I always say "You're welcome" they usually realize after that and apolog...
Jan 26th 2016
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my old building had 2 doors about ten feet apart
Jan 26th 2016
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haha nice
Jan 26th 2016
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Same.
Jan 26th 2016
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Woman w/ blonde hair + medium to giant SUV (or a Prius)
Jan 26th 2016
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huh?
Jan 26th 2016
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      Chevy Blazer to Chevy Tahoe-size. Or a Toyota Prius
Jan 26th 2016
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           lol ok..i thought you were describing one vehicle at first
Jan 26th 2016
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At the library, Asian father and son...
Jan 26th 2016
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white coworker said the office smelled like wet dog..
Jan 26th 2016
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Old(er) black women take a looooooong time at the ATM
Jan 26th 2016
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any time I see a black person at an atm like its a slot machine
Jan 26th 2016
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      That shit incenses me.
Jan 27th 2016
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wait. ive done the math and I cant tell who said thanks.
Jan 26th 2016
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everyone that isn't a white woman
Jan 26th 2016
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      right,t hat's the only thing that makes sense mathematically
Jan 26th 2016
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           He knew. I'm not sure why he pretended he didn't.
Jan 26th 2016
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                actually no. I re-read your post a half dozen times
Jan 26th 2016
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                     That people can do basic math?
Jan 26th 2016
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                          I mean it COULD have been one or more of the white women
Jan 26th 2016
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I got on the work elevator wi th two hasidic jews
Jan 26th 2016
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Man when I was in BedStuy for a wedding
Jan 26th 2016
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my boy rented an apartment from one of them
Jan 27th 2016
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The muthafucking JCC nickle-and-dimes the shit out of people
Jan 27th 2016
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i'm amused by extremely poor white people who are die-hard republicans
Jan 27th 2016
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rdhull
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1. "when they brought the whole watermelon to work but let okp tell it"
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poundin they chest to it lol


>Are you disappointed? Amused? Bemused? Does it matter how bad
>the stereotype is?
>
>I opened the door to the bar/restaurant to walk in. A group
>was walking out, so I held it for them.
>
>Group of five. A black woman, three white women, and a white
>man.
>
>Two people said thanks. You know which two.
>
>I couldn't help but laugh.

  

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2. "My wife got ripped into for that."
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When we were just friends she worked as a secretary for a group of GM engineers. They had a potluck lunch, she brought watermelon, the Black engineers weren't having it and told her to put that shit up.

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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

  

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rdhull
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3. "RE: My wife got ripped into for that."
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>When we were just friends she worked as a secretary for a
>group of GM engineers. They had a potluck lunch, she brought
>watermelon, the Black engineers weren't having it and told her
>to put that shit up.
>

hahahah

  

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7. "Can't be this chick"
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6TBNuIGjJ90


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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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DavidHasselhoff
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11. "Holy shit, 4th comment down is a dude I work with. lol"
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flipnile
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14. "Damn."
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Cenario
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15. "smh"
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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31. "look how happy they all are"
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25. "I remember my internship, it was me, one Black girl, n that's it"
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One meeting, I made it right before it started, and I had just picked up a fruit snack because I missed lunch.

At the end, her ass talkin about "why you gotta be so Black? You had to be the last one to walk in, then you came in eating watermelon!!!"

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4. "Not saying thank you for holding the door makes my blood"
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boil.

Actually, I don't even need a verbal thank you. Just that thank you eye contact is enough.

  

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Atillah Moor
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8. "A kind gesture done with the expectation of thanks isn't kind"
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______________________________________

Everything looks like Oprah kissing Harvey Weinstein these days

  

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9. "Yup, ain't nothing kind about it. I do it because I was trained"
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to do it and there's a societal expectation that I do it, which I follow.

  

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10. "I always say "You're welcome" they usually realize after that and apolog..."
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Cenario
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16. "my old building had 2 doors about ten feet apart"
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i'd hold one and if someone didn't say thank you...i'd let the 2nd one close on them and watch them catch it in the shoulder.....door was nice and heavy too.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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33. "haha nice"
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32. "Same. "
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I feel a similar way when I am extra courteous on the road to someone and don't get the obligatory wave.

>boil.
>
>Actually, I don't even need a verbal thank you. Just that
>thank you eye contact is enough.

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flipnile
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5. "Woman w/ blonde hair + medium to giant SUV (or a Prius)"
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Tue Jan-26-16 02:42 PM by flipnile

          

More often than not, they have their phones in their hands (with the screen lit) while driving. They take a long time to pull away from green lights (maybe because of the phone?) and they drift around in their lane (and other lanes) like crazy. Lane changes are often done with looking in the mirrors and/or a headcheck.

  

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17. "huh?"
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>medium to giant SUV (or a Prius)

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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flipnile
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19. "Chevy Blazer to Chevy Tahoe-size. Or a Toyota Prius"
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Tue Jan-26-16 04:45 PM by flipnile

          

The ones that drive those mini-suvs like CRVs seem like they pay just a little more attention.

  

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Cenario
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21. "lol ok..i thought you were describing one vehicle at first "
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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6. "At the library, Asian father and son..."
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Dad with his laptop doing something from a book he was reading there. Son was sitting at the table with his back to me, so I could see his laptop screen; lil dude was MAYBE 6 or 7 taking a test on HTML5.

I cracked a smile.
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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

  

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12. "white coworker said the office smelled like wet dog.. "
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I was weak...

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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flipnile
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13. "Old(er) black women take a looooooong time at the ATM"
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It's to the point that if I see a black woman that appears to be over 50 at the machine, I'll automatically just start walking to the next one a block or two over. It's faster that way.

  

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23. "any time I see a black person at an atm like its a slot machine"
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you know the type who puts their card in 3 times and keeps getting receipts

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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34. "That shit incenses me."
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I can deposit a check, check my balance and take money out all with only one card insert. For the life of me I can't figure out why older black women gotta put the card in 2, 3, 4 times and still ain't done yet.

  

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18. "wait. ive done the math and I cant tell who said thanks. "
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the black woman and the white man?

two white women?

one white woman, one white man?

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20. "everyone that isn't a white woman"
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*Jews you*

"this is okp tho, reading is completely optional" (c) desus

Proceed with caution. I am overtly racist.

<-- In Pigpen we trust

  

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22. "right,t hat's the only thing that makes sense mathematically"
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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veritas
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24. "He knew. I'm not sure why he pretended he didn't."
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i still blame hip-hop.

  

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26. "actually no. I re-read your post a half dozen times"
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you post assuming some things are universal truth

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Cenario
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27. "That people can do basic math?"
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>you post assuming some things are universal truth

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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veritas
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30. "I mean it COULD have been one or more of the white women"
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But the way I phrased it made it obvious it wasn't.

Obvious enough his first guess was right.

i still blame hip-hop.

  

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Cenario
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28. "I got on the work elevator wi th two hasidic jews"
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I got on first and didn't bother to hold the door open button as they were 3 steps behind. They got on as well, looked at the keypads, then mumbled something to me, as the elevator began to rise. I said excuse me with an attitude and he repeated his comment about the weather. We made small talk and all got off on the same floor.

I felt like an ass bc i assumed he was mumbling to me to press his floor smh.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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veritas
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29. "Man when I was in BedStuy for a wedding"
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(Hotel was supposed to be in Williamsburg but I guess that sounds better than BedStuy on the website)

I'm standing on the balcony smoking a square watching some kid like eight years old cleaning his apartment's windows meticulously.

And throwing all of his used paper towels (like 20 of em) on his downstairs neighbor's (also Hasidic) balcony.

I couldn't look away.

i still blame hip-hop.

  

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35. "my boy rented an apartment from one of them"
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and told me "every stereotype about those motherfuckers is true"

he was so pissed all I could do is laugh.

another time an older woman's total at the print shop came to 23 cents. She handed me 2 dimes. I said 3 more cents... and she just stared at me for a minute with eyes that said "woe is me"

then she pulled out a change purse filled with coins.

my white coworker was like: my friend, have you just experienced the jewish shake down.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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36. "The muthafucking JCC nickle-and-dimes the shit out of people"
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We're back to using the JCC as our gym, and that shit is a mess. First and foremost, it's not cheap. There are two membership types; regular and platinum. Regular is not cheap. It's on that YMCA/LA Fitness tier.

-Regular members don't get towels or have access to the locker room with the whirlpool, sauna or steam room.

-NONE of the exercise classes are included in the membership. You must pay per class. We have a family membership that my wife doesn't use, because she only likes classes.

-You can pay $9 for babysitting at the time of dropoff or you can pay $30/mo. They do not prorate, and they ONLY use the calendar month, so if you sign up on the 15th, you only get half the month at full price.

-You must pay for a full year. Yes, if you cancel your membership, whey will continue to bill you until the end of your contract.

  

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37. "i'm amused by extremely poor white people who are die-hard republicans"
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i'm talkin below the poverty level types that be on that

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