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Cold Truth
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"2015 has been the best year of my life. I've never been so thankful. "
Thu Nov-26-15 12:23 AM by Cold Truth

  

          

-Things weren't looking so hot at the job at the beginning of this year. Fortunately a good friend pulled a string and got me a transfer that been repeatedly denied until she got involved. I've been on a VERY strong uptick since then. Every metric has seen a massive improvement. Long story short, that's what the fuck happens when people stop fucking with me and just let me do my work. Shit I've even started getting awards. All of this is particularly satisfying as it validates every ignored issue I tried in vain to address at the old office.

-**Before I left, I successfully coached one of our translators (classified as an office assistant, not making much) into a significant upgrade to my position and then into a position higher than mine. By "coaching", I helped shore up her interview and resume skills because our department has a very particular interview style. She wrote a letter on my behalf about this. I helped a friend improve her stature in a huge way. That's a blessing.

-My wife also promoted this year. In fact, we're now in the same office. This likely wouldn't work for many but for us it's been great.

-My wife gave birth to our son in April, our second. Going in I feared I wouldn't feel that same love as when we had our daughter, in part due to the seeming impossibility of how that emotion could ever be replicated, but also due to the incessantly stupid remarks about how "it's different when it's daddies girl". Soon as he arrived that emotion rushed me and never left. Plus, we had previously been told my wife miscarried so this was an extra bit of emotional triumph.

-WE GOT OUR HOUSE. We moved in the first week of November. Selling the previous house turned out to be a mess but we're done and moved in, though not entirely settled.

Now is where things get a little poetic and some things come full circle. We moved back to my hometown. The development we moved into is fairly new, built in 06. I delivered pizza to this neighborhood at the time and I was so envious because this wasn't you're run of the mill So Cal orange roof housing tract. It's only two streets deep and surrounded by apartments and a railroad track but it's a nice as neighborhood. I LOVED this place, wished to god I could live in a place like this someday. Well, here I am. It's weird but damn does it feel amazing. I'll post some pics once we're a little more settled.

-MY GRANDMOTHER FROM ANOTHER MOTHER. Not blood, but a very critical person in my life. I've lost several of those already. She was on her deathbed a few months ago. At one point she flatlined. She was in ICU for several weeks. My aunt inadvertently saved her life by being emotional and reckless, I'll spare that story since this is already long, but she pulled through and actually went HOME. We all thought she would be gone at any moment.

I told her she wasn't allowed to go anywhere because she hadn't met my son or visited my new house (we actually had the new house at the time, but still hadn't sold the old house to pay for it yet). She'll be joining us for Thanksgiving dinner tomorrow.
Apparently she's very excited and so am I.

The last two are such an incredible tandem of events for me. I have the honor of hosting this wonderful woman took me in as a teenage runaway in my new home for Thanksgiving dinner. It's difficult to find a way to overemphasize how amazing that is to me. There aren't enough words.

That said it's been a fantastic 2015 in the CT household. How about you?

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

  

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Good for you, man
Nov 26th 2015
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Feel free to add your own
Nov 26th 2015
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i'm glad for you man, even though you had playa hated on me before
Nov 26th 2015
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Good stuff, man.
Nov 26th 2015
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show it on the boards, stop spazzing and disrespecting women and
Nov 26th 2015
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I'll gladly help you derail some other thread with your bait. Not this o...
Nov 26th 2015
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He's right.
Nov 26th 2015
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      Naw. Y'all ignore context at all times.
Nov 26th 2015
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           didnt she call you an undercover dick lover?
Nov 26th 2015
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                .
Nov 26th 2015
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                Oh boy here we go....
Nov 26th 2015
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                     nah man, just trying to show context...lol
Nov 26th 2015
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seriously? save that for another thread negro
Nov 26th 2015
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      The fuck are u? I can post what I want when and where I want
Nov 27th 2015
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           kept it real, huh? i guess you feel like a real man now
Nov 27th 2015
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                lol... i keeps it realz
Nov 27th 2015
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Great to hear!!!!!!
Nov 26th 2015
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hey man i am glad to hear it, enjoy it
Nov 26th 2015
12
Thanks!
Nov 26th 2015
14
Good stuff. Nice to hear positive stuff on the boards
Nov 26th 2015
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i want to type something like 'i hope you die in a fatal accident.'
Nov 26th 2015
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I'm just here for the victory celebration. *passes you a Corona*
Nov 26th 2015
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please ignore anyone trying to throw you off in here
Nov 26th 2015
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Lol this is rich
Nov 27th 2015
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      lol
Nov 27th 2015
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      Lmao
Nov 27th 2015
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      Im able to engage trolls without losing my cool
Nov 27th 2015
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You've come a long way, man.
Nov 27th 2015
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cheers brother
Nov 27th 2015
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That's awesome.
Nov 27th 2015
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LMAO...i forgot who this nigga was.
Nov 27th 2015
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That's precisely the sort of ego tantrum that prompted the sig
Nov 27th 2015
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Word. Glad to hear this, man.
Nov 27th 2015
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Great read. Good to hear you're doing better.
Nov 27th 2015
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Congratulations! I hope major doors keep opening for you.
Nov 27th 2015
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Glad youre doing well, hope 2016 is even better
Nov 27th 2015
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Im happy for you :-)
Nov 27th 2015
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John Forte
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1. "Good for you, man"
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Congrats

  

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Cold Truth
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2. "Feel free to add your own"
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-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

  

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mistermaxxx08
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3. "i'm glad for you man, even though you had playa hated on me before"
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i ain't never tripped and wish you all the best.

everyday is a good day because its a gift period and i takes nothing for granted. i stay humble through it all peace.

mistermaxxx R.Kelly, Michael Jackson,Stevie wonder,Rick James,Marvin Gaye,El Debarge, Barry WHite Lionel RIchie,Isleys EWF,Lady T.,Kid creole and coconuts,the crusaders,kc sunshine band,bee gees,jW,sd,NE,JB

Miami Heat, New York Yankees,buffalo bills

  

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Seven
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4. "Good stuff, man. "
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blkprinceMD05
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5. "show it on the boards, stop spazzing and disrespecting women and "
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Telling ppl to kill themselves. Spread ur "joy"

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stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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Cold Truth
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6. "I'll gladly help you derail some other thread with your bait. Not this o..."
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Bye.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

  

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Big Kuntry
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Thu Nov-26-15 11:17 AM

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7. "He's right. "
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Cold Truth
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8. "Naw. Y'all ignore context at all times. "
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I don't see you telling the ONE person I tell to off himself to leave me alone. Yet, here you and passive aggressive prince tell it, it's "people", not that one guy. The lone exception was homegirl who flipped out on me and even then I saw the emotional meltdown and assumed it was Beetlejuice.

I didn't see you tell her not to disrespect me with her wildly disproportionate rant in response to me merely telling her that her logic was bad.

Every last person I supposedly "spaz" on? Yeah. They're giving as good is I am.

These are readily viewable facts you and P.A. Prince historically choose to ignore in your biased efforts to police me.

So no, he's not remotely right.



-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

  

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10. "didnt she call you an undercover dick lover?"
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Thu Nov-26-15 12:10 PM by legsdiamond

          

I mean... that was harsh.

ignore them bruh, this was a great post. Glad to hear life is working out well this year.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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11. "."
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Thu Nov-26-15 12:09 PM by legsdiamond

          


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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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Amritsar
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13. "Oh boy here we go...."
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15. "nah man, just trying to show context...lol"
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they bring it up like he just spazzed for no reason.

let me shut up tho.. it's supposed to be a positive post.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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20. "seriously? save that for another thread negro"
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CHOP-THESE-BITCHES!!!!
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Un-OK'd moderator for The Lesson and Make The Music (yes, I do's work up in here, and in your asscrease if you run foul of this

  

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23. "The fuck are u? I can post what I want when and where I want"
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I kept it real. When u post on an open forum u open urself up to any response. Oh well.

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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Garhart Poppwell
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25. "kept it real, huh? i guess you feel like a real man now"
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So you're no longer needed here.

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CHOP-THESE-BITCHES!!!!
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Garhart Ivanhoe Poppwell
Un-OK'd moderator for The Lesson and Make The Music (yes, I do's work up in here, and in your asscrease if you run foul of this

  

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36. "lol... i keeps it realz"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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c71
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9. "Great to hear!!!!!!"
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yes!!!!!

  

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12. "hey man i am glad to hear it, enjoy it"
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Like most amazing things
It's easy to miss and easy to mistake
For when things are really great
It just means everything's in its place

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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14. "Thanks! "
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-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

  

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16. "Good stuff. Nice to hear positive stuff on the boards"
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Just IMO though.

  

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17. "i want to type something like 'i hope you die in a fatal accident.'"
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Thu Nov-26-15 06:31 PM by Kwesi

          

just so you can see how dumb that shit is when you type it to me.

are you able to finally admit that you REALLY don't want me to die?

and that these are all jokes?

  

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18. "I'm just here for the victory celebration. *passes you a Corona*"
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Peace to you and your family. It's great to see someone truly win. I would never move back home because it's not a wholesome place with an excellent business environment and opportunities for young professionals.

>That said it's been a fantastic 2015 in the CT household. How
>about you?
>

It's too early to call this year for me.

  

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19. "please ignore anyone trying to throw you off in here "
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24. "Lol this is rich "
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believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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32. "lol"
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I wanna go to where the martyrs went
the brown figures on the walls of my apart-a-ment...

  

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33. "Lmao "
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35. "Im able to engage trolls without losing my cool"
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I wanted dude to have his moment without it becoming a clusterfuck, yall love to see him melt down and prod him trying to make it happen

for the record Im neutral and not taking sides

  

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21. "You've come a long way, man."
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I can remember years ago when you felt like life was kicking you in the balls. Glad to hear of your turn around, man.



Since 1976

  

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22. "cheers brother"
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hope 2016 is just as good

November 8th, 2005 The greatest night in the history of GD!

  

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26. "That's awesome."
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Love to hear that about your guest for Thanksgiving dinner. Cheers

  

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27. "LMAO...i forgot who this nigga was. "
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so, I'm reading this shit and i get to the very end and i'm bout to type some shit like "happy for you, dogg...hope you and your receive more blessings"...THEN, i see the bamma sig and my face scrunched up like shit.

LMAO...whatever. HAPPY for you, dogg. I hope you and your receive more blessings for the remainder of this year and many more in the next.




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Steph: I was just fooling about

Kyrie: I wasn't.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8OWNspU_yE

  

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Cold Truth
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30. "That's precisely the sort of ego tantrum that prompted the sig"
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I honestly I never meant to leave it up this long and in the spirit of the holiday I'm going to remove it.

Have a good one.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

  

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28. "Word. Glad to hear this, man."
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I can say that 2015 has been a better year than many recent ones for myself as well.

Without going into all the details, from 2011 forward, it has been a slow but steady descent into darkness. I believe I removed myself even from here for over a year's time, when it was at its worst.

At the end of last year however, two friends of mine that I met hereabouts were in town, and I decided to come out of reclusion to meet up with them. I realized I hadn't seen either of them in 5 years.

Struggling to get through the workday was enough for me. I made some real life changes. Come April of this year, I was recognizing the guy in the mirror again. The wind was at my back, and I finally stopped wasting the sunshine when it was around.

I've been to Boston (for work), to DC, to all of the towns I used to call home. All within the span of the last 3 months. Met a number of y'all here, and it was just a great feeling.

The little things don't bother me the way they used to. Life seems manageable, liveable.

I feel like happiness is something that can actually exist now.

Total 180 from last year.

  

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37. "Great read. Good to hear you're doing better."
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29. "Congratulations! I hope major doors keep opening for you."
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31. "Glad youre doing well, hope 2016 is even better"
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I wanna go to where the martyrs went
the brown figures on the walls of my apart-a-ment...

  

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34. "Im happy for you :-)"
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I don't have any thing to complain about...

  

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