Doubt anybody remembers the back story from when I used to post about the drama back in the day. But basically she married dude that she was cheating on me with. They been together 3 yrs. New house,Couple of cars, Dog etc. Anyway I'm guessing for the past year she done been stepping out on this nigga like she did with me. Probably been longer but I wasn't aware till last summer when my son told me she was staying out all night a couple times out of the week. And also back in March we met up for coffee to talk about some shit that went down with my son and a teacher at his school. Which I thought that's what it was going to be about but 10 mins into our conversation she start throwing it at me. Almost went down too. Had her back at my crib and everything but I had to dead it. Started feeling sorry for her ass. She really got a problem yo. But anyway my son called me today and told me ol boy was packing up all his shit and leaving. Baby momma still at work. I asked him was he ok and if he wanted me to come pick him up. He said he was cool. Told him make sure dude don't take your ps4 and he laughed and said ok. So that's that. I almost feel sorry for ol boy. I mean back in the day I was contemplating going upside his head every time I saw him.
But over the years I realized he was just a square ass nigga that fell under her spell. Yea it takes 2 to tango and he was wrong for violating but ain't no telling what she was telling dude. Her side of the family was thinking I was a monster up until a few years ago. So she probably had dude really believing he was saving her n shit. He a good dude. Treated my son good. Only issue I had with him with my son was that time he made my son change his clothes after saying he looked like a bum when my son had on an outfit I had just brought him. He also brought my son an ipad after I had told my son i wasn't getting him one cause his grades had slipped. But we got that handled.
Well that's it. Not going to lie I was laughing my ass off when I got off the phone with my son. Like wtf you think was going to happen when you establish a relationship off some fugazzi ass shit? But reality starting to set in now and I'm getting nervous thinking about having to go thru this shit again with another nigga and wondering what kind of dude she about to have around my son now.
15. "Yea you was on one lol" In response to Reply # 13
It was too outlandish to get me mad tho so I ain't trippin. I did feel some kinda way when niggas was clowning me on dressing in matching fits with my boy tho lol. I was like damn maybe this shit do look cheesy. Fuk it we still do it on occasion. Whenever he start rocking skinny jeans I'm going to have to retire tho
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Wed Aug-19-15 08:50 AM
19. "man, i skimmed that shit and you were in full effect mode..." In response to Reply # 13
there was some truth in your post but the delivery was on some hurt people shit.
daps for seeing it tho...
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
3. "RE: Babymomma's husband left her triflin ass today" In response to Reply # 0
I had a situation similar to this but didn't have any children with her thank god. I went my way and she went hers... I'm so happy I don't have to deal with her today.
I'm for truth no matter who tells it. I'm for justice no matter who it's for or against. - el Hajj Malik el Shabazz
10. "I like how you called him a square...but he gets to leave without a kid" In response to Reply # 0 Tue Aug-18-15 07:29 PM by Heinz
with that crazy chick. You attached to the crazy for LIFE. Sure u happy and greatful to have your son but on his end he is probably wiping his brow even after being an idiot for falling in love with her/trying to save her from being a hoe.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79586 posts
Sun Aug-23-15 12:19 PM
36. "You look bad in this thread bruh" In response to Reply # 33
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
37. "Naw I really don't get your angle at all" In response to Reply # 33
Me and hers relationship is actually good now. I don't live with her so I don't have to deal with her crazy. Her crazy in our relationship came from her infidelity issues. I obviously don't have to deal with that anymore so again I'm not getting your angle.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
"You can take an African out of Africa, but you can't take Africa out of the African" Afro-Americana/Afro-Caribbana/Afro-Latino unite. We are ALL Black!
14. "Lol man I ain't even thought about all that" In response to Reply # 12
I don't even know. I wouldn't have a problem with him kickin it with my boy. Not on days I have him though. He more than welcome to go eat lunch with him at the school n shit. I don't plan on chopping it up with him or anything like that. That shit is just weird. I've had exes that became friends with each other before. I don't get that at all. I do want to know what all happened tho. He converted to jehova witness before they got married. So whenever couples get divorced they got to get up in front of thrones church and tell they business if they want to continue to be accepted in the church. I might have to sneak in the back with some popcorn if they do that lol.
16. "Dude....that having niggaz in the crib shit" In response to Reply # 0
The only thing I can say is that the mother of my children generally has good judgment when it comes to that shit. Yeah....there was a dude who was there for a bit but I honor that nigga. He was a street dude but when he took up residence he hit me up like "Yo....this is my number...you have ANY issues with the children and me, hit me up direct"
I said all of that to say that 18 isn't as far away as you think. I got 4 more years with my 1st set and then I'm out of her circle other than celebrations.
32. "RE: Dude....that having niggaz in the crib shit" In response to Reply # 16
>Yeah....there was a dude who was there for a bit but I honor >that nigga. He was a street dude but when he took up residence >he hit me up like "Yo....this is my number...you have ANY >issues with the children and me, hit me up direct" >
"You can take an African out of Africa, but you can't take Africa out of the African" Afro-Americana/Afro-Caribbana/Afro-Latino unite. We are ALL Black!
>I'm >getting nervous thinking about having to go thru this shit >again with another nigga and wondering what kind of dude she >about to have around my son now. >
was the first thing I thought about. THis dude aside from how their relationship started sounds like he was a some what ok stand-up guy. Hope her next aint some knuckle head that brings more drama to the fam.
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