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Buddy_Gilapagos
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"When your boy's girl is a nag."


  

          

Does your boy know she is a nag? Does a woman know that she is a nag? Do women in general know how painful a nag is to be around (even to observe as an outsider)?

I feel like there are a lot of women who know how to address issues with their man but know how to do it without nagging.

Anyone else feels like not nagging is an acquired skill?

Do some dudes nag? Or is there a male equivalent of nagging?

If you haven't figured it out I hate nagging.

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I think insecurity in regard to the relationship is the male equivalent
Aug 17th 2015
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Funny you should say that because my dude who has the girl who nags
Aug 18th 2015
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      hahaha
Aug 18th 2015
26
Homeboy's not handling business, in one way or another
Aug 18th 2015
3
eh, it aint always that.
Aug 18th 2015
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Or that's just how she is
Aug 18th 2015
5
      I think the number one indicator of nagginess is her parents relationshi...
Aug 18th 2015
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           This is interesting. I never really thought about it like this
Aug 18th 2015
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           women can also learn that shit from their mothers.
Aug 18th 2015
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i can't believe you just typed this shit.
Aug 18th 2015
15
      ok
Aug 18th 2015
22
it's levels to this nagging thing..
Aug 18th 2015
7
What do you nag about?
Aug 18th 2015
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I nag about having to nag lol
Aug 18th 2015
13
This is true. Definitely with the dudes I am thinking about.
Aug 18th 2015
11
      sounds like they need to take their interactions really sloooowly
Aug 18th 2015
19
i already accepted imma end up w/ a naggy ass woman
Aug 18th 2015
10
You got a high tolerance for nagging then huh?
Aug 18th 2015
12
      finally, buddy. we're here ><
Aug 18th 2015
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      nah i hate it lol
Aug 18th 2015
24
i don't think i could have a real buddy that wifed a nagger.
Aug 18th 2015
16
Nacho p*ssy, nacho prollem.
Aug 18th 2015
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nah man. don't give this a pass. that's your boy, you gonna let him
Aug 18th 2015
18
Yep. His wife/woman/girl whatever has no impact on my living. if he
Aug 18th 2015
21
I don't want to be around it. Make me not want to invite them to ish.
Aug 18th 2015
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as long as she don't do it in public we cool. / its the mark of a good w...
Aug 18th 2015
25

Atillah Moor
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1. "I think insecurity in regard to the relationship is the male equivalent "
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Buddy_Gilapagos
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2. "Funny you should say that because my dude who has the girl who nags"
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alot is also the insecure type. They are ying and yang on the two most annoying people to try and date.


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26. "hahaha"
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flipnile
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Tue Aug-18-15 09:06 AM

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3. "Homeboy's not handling business, in one way or another"
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KiloMcG
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Tue Aug-18-15 09:18 AM

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4. "eh, it aint always that."
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flipnile
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5. "Or that's just how she is"
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At least with the first two, he can try and do something about the issue.

  

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Buddy_Gilapagos
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6. "I think the number one indicator of nagginess is her parents relationshi..."
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Her mom and dad together and cool, less likely to nag.

Her dad not around or her mom is a nag of her dad, more likely to be a nag.

I don't know if a dude has any control over it other than chosing that person to be with.

Chris


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flipnile
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8. "This is interesting. I never really thought about it like this"
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Also, I've just realized that most of the women I've dated didn't grow up with a traditional 2-parent household (though most have had both parents in their lives growing up).

  

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KiloMcG
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14. "women can also learn that shit from their mothers."
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had a homie who's ex-wife, yes EX, was a major fucking nag. so was her damn mama.

  

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Kwesi
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15. "i can't believe you just typed this shit."
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flipnile
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22. "ok"
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chanel9000
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7. "it's levels to this nagging thing.."
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Guy's say they want a women who's demure but alot of guys don't know what that looks like.

Guys who grew up with nagging mothers, aunts, sisters etc. seem to only respond to nagging so no matter how sweetly softly kindly you speak to them they don't see you until your heads on fire. It's like someone who's been physically abused doesn't register emotional abuse.

nagging is just as exhausting to the nagger as it is to the nagee.

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flipnile
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9. "What do you nag about?"
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And why?

  

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13. "I nag about having to nag lol"
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I'll ask once in a soft tone with intense doey eye contact..a smile.. a sweet caress..

if he doesn't cooperate in a reasonable amount of time then Im like oh, you not into that huh??

switch it up - meek

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Buddy_Gilapagos
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11. "This is true. Definitely with the dudes I am thinking about. "
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Ain't a coincidence that trifling dudes end up with nagging women.

What I am notice though is that I have a couple of friends who have improved dramatically. Like one was a drug addict and has cut all that ish out and is a good father and wifey Still nags incessantly.

I keep thinking, if you are going to nag him whether he is doing good or doing wrong what's the incentive to do good?




>Guy's say they want a women who's demure but alot of guys
>don't know what that looks like.

>Guys who grew up with nagging mothers, aunts, sisters etc.
>seem to only respond to nagging so no matter how sweetly
>softly kindly you speak to them they don't see you until your
>heads on fire. It's like someone who's been physically abused
>doesn't register emotional abuse.
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>nagging is just as exhausting to the nagger as it is to the
>nagee.
>
>


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Movies I need y'all bastids to see so we can discuss:

Five Star
Appropriate Behavior
Margaret

  

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19. "sounds like they need to take their interactions really sloooowly"
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and commit to not going THERE, which is easier said than done and takes practice.



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BrooklynWHAT
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10. "i already accepted imma end up w/ a naggy ass woman"
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just because i like to do shit on my own time (allowable right?) and you gotta nag tf out of me to do it ASAP.

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Buddy_Gilapagos
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12. "You got a high tolerance for nagging then huh?"
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I mean the ish goes through me and makes my soul rattle.



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Five Star
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20. "finally, buddy. we're here ><"
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24. "nah i hate it lol"
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but im a forgetful person and i like to do things on my own schedule (terrible combo of traits) so i need to be nagged sometimes.

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Kwesi
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16. "i don't think i could have a real buddy that wifed a nagger."
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i think i'd lose respect for the nigga.

or like. nah.

my man aint about to be getting nagged all out and public.

i really don't think i could let that happen.

  

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17. "Nacho p*ssy, nacho prollem. "
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18. "nah man. don't give this a pass. that's your boy, you gonna let him"
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go out like that?

  

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21. "Yep. His wife/woman/girl whatever has no impact on my living. if he "
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likes it, I love it.

Those are his issues and woes--all i can do is be his friend and listen to when he complains about her.

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Buddy_Gilapagos
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23. "I don't want to be around it. Make me not want to invite them to ish. "
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Movies I need y'all bastids to see so we can discuss:

Five Star
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Margaret

  

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2.tears.in.a.bucket
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25. "as long as she don't do it in public we cool. / its the mark of a good w..."
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Tue Aug-18-15 11:56 AM by 2.tears.in.a.bucket

  

          

it's akin to checkin ur woman in the company of others. shits tacky.

i ain't gonna lie tho that shit be needed. keeps the family running smoothly.

need to be worried when she stop nagging, then u KNOW u fucking up

all women nag tho, in varying degrees, so there's that

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