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cant trust her-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 1
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In the words of the great negro philosopher Staciford Adams... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 2
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lmao |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 181
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Teal |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 3
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and if a man did that to you?-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 11
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I'm one of those people |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 57
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and you'd be friends with her?-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 77
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I might even braid her hair! |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 138
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^ sounds like someone has better cards to begin with |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 282
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voted yellow. prolly shoulda been (teal? no votes yet for ol |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 4
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you're right |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 24
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exactly it |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 60
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i agree with this |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 186
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Wait, so is Jessica lying? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 5
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Well she is admitting that the sex did happen. He can't really say |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 16
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Gotta multiply that by two at least. So maybe kinda deep. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 345
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So 'word on the street' is that got down...but when asked she said |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 6
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Nah, she admits to it. Just downplays it |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 9
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that's not downplaying it. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 10
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it is a big deal-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 19
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naw. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 20
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sowhat, god love ya-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 26
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right. i'm gay so i know women better than you, homie. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 39
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you know them better platonically-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 55
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i know them intimately. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 64
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^ been backstage at the puppet show; seen the strings |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 222
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lol |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 226
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I'll say that it's no way to know if she's downplaying it for real |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 21
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he needs to grow up. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 25
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shes absolutely wrong-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 30
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i'm not at all surprised that YOU feel that way. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 41
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well...nobody is 'wrong'....it's just if he can handle that or not |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 14
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agreed. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 23
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yep... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 75
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SO IN THE FUCK WHAT??? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 7
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pretty much where i'm at with it. Deron wrong and insecure like a bitch. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 12
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GTFO-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 22
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yes i could, because i'm not insecure. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 28
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LOL secure-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 34
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bruh, the He-Man Woman Haters Club meeting is THAT way. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 36
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u trippin fam, i wouldn't give a shit either way |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 73
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i'm sure she didn't tell him because of this reaction. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 97
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agreed. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 99
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he's reacting bc she intentionally left that detail out |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 103
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if its bothering him then it matters bruh |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 189
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That's really what's bothering him, and I get it, I'd be mad too. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 111
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yea, but if he's one of those people |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 122
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and what if a few weeks from now ANOTHER friend fesses up? |
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Jul 01st 2015 |
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she absolutely should, assuming she knows that. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 207
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^^^ |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 201
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LOL |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 31
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this is a really immature reply |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 293
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smh... nah, Deron sounds like a normal dude |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 63
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I'm in this line. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 42
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pretty much |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 44
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6 years is not almost a decade ago |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 67
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8 years is almost a decade. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 71
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she's not THAT wrong |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 84
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if someone comes to me about this they get shut down. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 89
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good for you |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 107
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i shut it down and then me and the s.o. would laugh about it. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 117
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and really that's the REAL problem. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 115
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lol, yes, bc that works in real life |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 120
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yes it does. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 209
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yup. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 121
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I like to know the history of folks in my house and my face |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 72
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that ain't me. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 92
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Which is understandable, just let me know if they're in my house |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 128
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sure. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 135
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Why fuck him tho? He was the one deceived via omission |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 196
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b/c i said so. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 211
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smh |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 316
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i'm sorry you got here late. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 323
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what info am i seeking? I'm shaking my head at how much of a cunt ur |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 424
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blah blah blah. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 434
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This. This. THIS. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 422
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I agree...he needs to take a big shot of whiskey and man up... |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 442
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RE: Guy finds out his fiancee's homeboy used to sex her down in college |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 8
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agreed - Deron needs to grow up. |
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Jul 01st 2015 |
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and if a man did that to you-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 38
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If she was cool? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 51
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this isn't just insecurity though |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 87
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exactly... i did this shit back in the day and ole girl was mad as shit |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 98
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I'm sayin. Don't think I've ever MET the woman who wouldn't |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 175
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bull and-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 101
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One of the greatest things that would go through me was the idea that |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 13
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doesn't sound like an old flame situation. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 18
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i would too...especially if previously informed |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 108
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'apparent that it would come out' |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 123
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then u can't stand a ton of people |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 130
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nope. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 137
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oh, sorry i mistook you for Deron |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 141
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you did. lol |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 145
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nobody is wrong |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 15
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A dude I know married this girl I used to mess with... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 17
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I cant understand why she'd want to be friends |
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Jul 06th 2015 | 557
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None of this is a big deal, but one thing bothers me |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 27
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it should have been |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 70
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Exactly! lol |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 78
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the only thing 'wrong' is that jess didn't mention it up front |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 29
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Similar sitch happened in my friend circle & friendships imploded. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 32
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exactly...it's a social consideration lol |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 88
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nobody's wrong. that's just their issue to work out. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 33
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All y'all sayin Jessica's wrong... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 35
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RE: All y'all sayin Jessica's wrong... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 45
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So you're saying you've told your wife about everyone you smanged? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 59
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no because she doesnt know any of them-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 93
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But how can you be certain? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 172
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that is completely different than introducing her as a friend |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 198
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I really just think it sucks for everyone in this case. Timing wise, |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 52
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It's kinda suspect that other folks put her out like that... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 167
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Basically. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 192
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Not even KINDA. It's REALLY fucked up. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 290
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HELLO. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 297
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the op says the parties that spilled the tea DIDNT kno deron and Jess |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 315
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^^^ lawyers & engineers in here parsing iut premises |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 329
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'SOMEHOW word got to Deron...' (Emphasis added) |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 336
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this is why she needed to tell him |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 317
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Cause it's clearly not as simple as everyone wants to make it out to be |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 330
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I've been friends with a guy I banged in college. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 339
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if that person is still a friend and in our circle of friends...hell yea... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 91
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why not? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 100
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Personally I'm a big proponent of transparency. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 116
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then she could at least not minimize his concerns |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 140
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I agree with you. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 155
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no-one is really wrong...but i wouldn't like it |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 37
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he stay trolling |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 40
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<-- has been in a stable male/female relationship. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 43
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sure you have buddy. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 48
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right. i sure have. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 53
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k. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 102
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2 years, buddy. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 110
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yeah if the last time you had a woman was highschool... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 176
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great. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 185
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why would i cry over someone being delusional? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 202
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only you can answer that. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 213
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irony: |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 227
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LMFAOOO |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 223
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and it turned ya gay!!!-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 83
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lmao |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 205
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It's always funny to me that certain women always agree w/ him... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 240
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the blind leading the blind. i don't think they realize the harm |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 256
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Say word, family. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 268
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oh stfu with ur strange ass |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 393
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they always super single too |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 366
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any1 in her circle that told her fiancee wrong. u take that 2 the grave. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 251
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Maybe it's being shallow but I'd have to call off the engagement |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 46
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shit, i'm friends right now w/3 male couples |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 47
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Do gay couples tend to operate different about these things? |
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Jul 01st 2015 |
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there are definitely some gay dudes who are as stupid as Deron. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 66
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but its different tho fam-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 62
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god damn i'm glad i don't dislike women as much as you. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 68
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i like them fine-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 76
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uh huh. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 82
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congrats Deron...u win the give less fucks award |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 150
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thanks! |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 158
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...it would be appreciated if homegirl would have told the cat early on.... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 49
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Where's the "Deron and Jessica are wrong?" option? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 50
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ladies-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 54
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^what I just said above...your girl ain't even trying to hear it |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 56
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if my gal pal came to me w/this story i'd tell her |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 58
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ok but would you advise her-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 69
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the fact that the other woman smashed EIGHT YEARS AGO |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 79
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It's a big deal if those guys are still in her circle of friends |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 90
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again - if my gal pal came to me w/this mess |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 95
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I bet another female friend wouldn't shade her - she'd say that ish |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 132
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*shrug* |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 139
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Logical comparison has no place here, man. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 96
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oh look bloo is back |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 61
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with a vengeance, thickness-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 85
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nah |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 257
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I originally voted yellow |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 65
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so basically it has nothing to do with her sexual past |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 105
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u made the point... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 118
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lol I mean I knew that conclusion before I even typed that |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 152
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lol well yeah |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 224
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wtf are you taking about? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 161
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Yeah if I had to choose |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 106
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thank you for alladis |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 114
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dammit, i luh honesty and common sense. thamk you |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 170
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just think, everytime he has gone down on her |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 74
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RE: just think, everytime he has gone down on her |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 94
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she apparently knows him well though if she felt |
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Jul 01st 2015 |
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Both wrong |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 80
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He's about to Marry the love of "His LIfe". Dude needs to chill. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 81
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Toni Braxton's 'He Wasn't Man Enough' is in my head now. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 86
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i don't think anyone is wrong but to avoid awkward or uncomfortable |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 104
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See, and that's really all I think Deron wanted... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 119
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he might not be built to be w/a fine woman. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 133
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he'd likely rather not be cool with those dudes |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 146
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that's one of his limitations. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 149
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^^THISSSSS. And I totally get that part, too |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 184
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end post. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 203
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yeah who knows how he heard it but |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 134
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yo, that joint was at least on and off for 2 years |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 154
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Yupp!! |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 242
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^^^^ |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 319
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Always marry a 7 or 8 never a 9 or 10 |
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Jul 03rd 2015 | 547
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yep |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 127
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I don't see any issues, He with her now, thats the point |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 109
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LOLOL. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 112
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my only thing is it's highly unlikely he wouldnt smash again |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 113
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even YOU see it-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 125
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there are billions of men in the world who would smash her. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 126
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they don't want to hear it |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 131
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not quite |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 136
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truth hurts. |
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Jul 01st 2015 |
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again, not quite. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 157
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yup. quite. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 160
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just because women DONT do it doesn't mean they don't want to... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 166
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congratulations, yall are making the most irrelevant points ever. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 173
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the point is choice |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 182
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some dudes dont respect limits at all |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 191
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not really, because back to what SoWhat said |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 193
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but it wasnt... it was a guy she introduced to him as a friend. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 328
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even the messy person who shared the info said they were friends |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 338
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My dude can be friends |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 386
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exactly. especially when the friend is close |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 432
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they aren'te exes though |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 458
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Ex boyfriend, |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 462
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NO, SoWhat made a statement and you said not quite |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 187
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the meat and gravy: why does she still have this dude in her life? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 195
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RE: the meat and gravy: why does she still have this dude in her life? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 220
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you actually said: |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 194
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im confronting the problem head on, you're talking hypotheticals |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 208
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you actually said: |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 217
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thanks, I know what I said. it didnt pertain to outside scenarios |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 244
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and that's why i said: |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 246
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i'll explain the average heterosexual male mind to you. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 263
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i understand this. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 265
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LOL this is not the same thing at all |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 218
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But she's chosen to be with Deron. Not Rico |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 144
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yup. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 147
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smh |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 151
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that history would have to be shared to be known right? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 159
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lol but when she said "yes" to that proposal that means |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 199
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I dont know what consititutes "grimy as fuck" |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 168
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Damn y'all really talk about women like they're children nm |
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Jul 05th 2015 | 555
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Shorty should have told him when him and ol boy got cool. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 124
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Sucks but Deron should have been wise in the first place. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 129
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Surprisingly, it's a good number of close homegirls who I have never |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 153
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Yup to all of that, but do you have a good number of women friends |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 165
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Not "friends" who are around frequently. It's different being a DJ, thou... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 177
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^ this is what I'm saying. Gotta keep em' separated © The Offspring |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 214
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No secrets no lies |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 142
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kinda sloppy, but eh doesn't seem like a big deal |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 143
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Did they previously lay all their cards on the table for each other? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 148
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Not that I'm aware of, not sure how much they discussed |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 169
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i can't even remember a youngins face that I fucked 8 yrs ago... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 156
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even if u saw her yesterday, lol |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 163
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even if u saw her yesterday, lol |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 164
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prolly not especially if we just fuckin |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 171
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Ric's comment went over your head. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 179
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lmao, yeah I think he missed the part that they are 'close' friends and ... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 312
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LMAO THEY ARE STILL FRIENDS THOUGH!! |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 174
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SO WHAT?! |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 183
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That ain't a "so what" |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 190
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Dudes got two choices, leave her or get over it. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 197
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she lied by omission-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 210
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they ain't married, bruh |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 228
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No but they're engaged to be |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 320
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It ain't married |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 370
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They both wrong, she wronger |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 162
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seriously? LOL. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 178
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homeboy in the bathtub w/ his clothes on like mario winans LOL |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 188
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and if you find out your husband smashed-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 204
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i believe that men and women CAN be friends. sorry. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 283
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lol didnt answer the question |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 296
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ALWAYS PROTECT THE BLIND SIDE!!! |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 180
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actual factuals.....n/m |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 529
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Anyone else picturing the same 'Rico' that I am ? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 200
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I'm kinda in the middle... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 206
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the key point is here-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 216
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Word. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 261
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You can't drop hints to this story & leave us hanging |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 221
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lol |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 259
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Damn. That's cool they're still together... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 267
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Word... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 274
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i feel like making assumptions: |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 212
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if Deron said choose him or me is he wrong? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 232
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he wouldnt be right or wrong. hes gotta go for what works best for |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 270
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If you are friends with your exes and you guys are cool |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 215
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and if you dont tell-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 219
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these 2 are not 'exes'. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 225
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What if Deron eventually found out that it was more to it than "just se... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 230
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that's not the case. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 236
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RIGHT?! |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 231
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Straight dick is powerful. You don't know |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 241
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:) |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 245
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LOL. that plus i forget that women are incapable of |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 252
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Of course they're incapable. That's the power of straight dick, but |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 260
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so true. thanks for the lesson. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 264
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<3 |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 258
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My example wasn't geared towards any particular gender |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 331
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kudos. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 385
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Just common relationship courtesy *shrug* |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 327
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Keyword: exes |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 340
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Interesting. It's wild that "date" is so vague, but even that could work |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 229
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nah, you should let a 3rd party drop the bomb to show them |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 234
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REAL TALK -- if all things being equal -- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 248
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The good, bad and sideways: |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 233
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I respect this |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 238
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agreed. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 243
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oh, now u agree lol |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 269
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right. that post said no more than what was already argued previously |
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Jul 03rd 2015 | 553
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lol |
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Jul 06th 2015 | 559
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All of this! |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 325
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I'm about to keep it all the way real |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 235
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understandable. lol |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 239
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Thank you |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 249
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Man. And as I said before, women I've dealt with have NEVER, ever ever |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 253
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but what if you never suspected it? and a 3rd party told you? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 406
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I try my best to not deal with hypotheticals or grey areas |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 433
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Having been the "Jessica" between two women; fess up early or deny deny ... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 237
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i think that a lot of folks thinking she was wrong |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 247
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I copped to this in #235 |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 250
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I can cop to it too because I know... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 367
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*ding* |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 254
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yep |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 255
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Say word... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 262
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Hearing how some of yall think is interesting... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 266
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nope-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 271
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but why is it a "BIG" problem? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 309
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This is true |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 272
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possibly |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 273
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people get scared the truth will scare people off or disrupt the status ... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 275
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Yeah so letting them hear it thru the grapevine makes it all better |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 277
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^ |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 287
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im not saying that it is. im just saying its a reason that someone might |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 304
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Gotcha |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 360
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Base |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 276
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That was ultimately my motivation to speak up |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 284
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they're allowed the process. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 289
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why would u even apologize when u would handle it the same |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 322
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to make him feel better. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 326
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U can't treat him like a child while saying he should grow up |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 281
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True, but give me the opportunity to check myself |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 285
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who said she was doing that? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 294
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knowing your audience is key tho |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 437
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But how do you know if it's not a big deal to *them* unless you ask? |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 461
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fuuuck no. if anyome has an ego its Jessica |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 337
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unless you marry a virgin |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 341
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U know? Lol |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 344
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im not trying to make it seem like it's simple or easy |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 347
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That's how I see it too. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 350
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not surprised.. but if your dude hears about E from a 3rd party... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 352
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if he hears about it and brings drama |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 355
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I believe you |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 368
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Except there are married men and women agreeing with me. Lol |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 369
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stop lying. ain't no married people agreeing with you. lol |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 381
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never let the next man tell him about your ex man |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 351
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Keywords: ex man |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 357
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it doesnt matter if he just put the tip in or ate the puss |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 371
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Well, now he knows. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 372
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shut up. you just wishing for another man to be on the market. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 382
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why do yall keep talking about virgins? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 346
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believe it. you don't believe a past lover can be a friend |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 349
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i dont like that she wasnt woman enough to tell me |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 359
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Bye, Feliciano. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 363
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lol, ole forever single ass |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 373
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Oh I am? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 374
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let me know, let me knooooow. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 364
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I would be okay with the info in this situation. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 354
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ok sowhat, we get it. you are the gay terminator robocock |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 375
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yup, that's me. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 376
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you can't be mad in 2015 about who your girl fucked in college |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 278
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willfully missing the point-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 279
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Yall wanna treat Deron like a child while saying he should grow up |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 280
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DO REMEMBER! © DJ Clue? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 288
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again, that's assuming that folks didn't mention it |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 299
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It all sounds like a cop-out for not being honest, imo |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 457
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If you require disclosure, disclose your requirements. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 286
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and there you have it (c) average joe |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 295
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He was supposed to to ask her "ARE Y'ALL FUCKING???" |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 302
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RE: He was supposed to to ask her "ARE Y'ALL FUCKING???" |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 305
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I hear you. To be honest, I've never even really thought about this |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 441
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d/p |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 303
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i mean he shouldn't have to ask every dude she intro's as a friend if th... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 324
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exactly-- |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 342
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I'm not saying to do that |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 343
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oh I see what ur saying and agree |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 397
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Don't people have the talk about their pasts? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 411
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i try not to, convos about exes do creep in but im not asking for |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 431
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EXACTLY |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 377
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WHAT IS HE MAD AT? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 291
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^^^ Read the ingredients and asked what's in it |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 292
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real problem is the smarmy T Howard dude that told Deron |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 298
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basically. Ol Messy McGee stirring up the pot |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 300
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YUP. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 301
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he's probably the one actually plotting on Jessica lol |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 306
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yep! |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 394
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SoWhat is.......pressed |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 307
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A+ posting DJ R-Tistic. Bravo. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 308
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Yup.. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 389
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Some horrible analogies in this post. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 310
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deron is immature and insecure |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 311
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Now NAN person in here thinks its about wanting to marry a virgin. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 332
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A few folks have said some similar shit though. They're all missing |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 334
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i've been where Jessica is...almost. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 313
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no you werent, because you like drama. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 318
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how can i serve you, seasoned vet? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 321
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a glitter bomb would suffice |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 333
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You? probably not - you've established you/they don't care |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 356
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Right. I'd be inclined to break up with Deron over his reaction to this. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 361
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good post |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 314
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agreed - kept me busy and entertained for quite awhile. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 358
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Niggas know how niggas get down b. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 335
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smh at letting some random nigga do your dirty work for you |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 348
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Not a big deal to me.. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 353
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RE: Guy finds out his fiancee's homeboy used to sex her down in college |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 362
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exactly, how the fuck is HE in the wrong? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 365
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Me, you, all of us. We are all going to be dead someday. Does this matte... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 378
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no.. it;s simply about being honest and up front with your fiancé |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 379
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you should post about it a few more times |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 380
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sees it ^^^^ |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 383
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We all intend to. It's a message board, genius. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 384
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dude is a clown |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 392
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^^ has legsdiamond confused for SoWhat |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 390
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Lmao |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 401
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damn, everybody knew but, Deron...that's fucked up....geesh... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 387
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the person probably said "I don't know how you do it man... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 388
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lulz |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 395
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dude prolly felt bad Deron wasnt in the loop |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 396
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they're setting Deron up |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 416
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Your boy is creating his own unhappiness |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 391
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or he finds a woman who is woman enough to not set him up |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 398
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Set him up? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 417
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yes, set him up. we all have a past... |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 438
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there is a difference between being a "friend" vs being a friend |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 463
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what i did in my past is my business until that person meets my wife |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 498
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I understand your point |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 519
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lmao...he JUST found out...y'all are trollin'...there is no human being |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 399
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basically |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 402
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Trolling? |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 420
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but the issue is Deron didnt know she liked to chill with an old lover |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 435
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There is a reason why Jessica and Rico didn't say anything |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 460
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I wouldnt seriously date a woman with a kid. i tried, it wasn't for me |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 466
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Question: Why is it important for you to know...? |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 483
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RE: Your boy is creating his own unhappiness |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 400
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I hear you, but.. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 423
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*pets babyyoda* love you, i do...still. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 404
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Eh |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 425
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he sure is. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 409
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if he buggin, jessica probably needs to dump his lame ass |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 403
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RE: if he buggin, jessica probably needs to dump his lame ass |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 405
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ikr |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 408
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that dude Rico has been buzzing around for EIGHT YEARS |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 407
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RE: that dude Rico has been buzzing around for EIGHT YEARS |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 410
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so true. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 413
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RE: so true. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 418
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this secret baby angle is awesome. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 436
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or a secret abortion? like the sands of time, these are.... |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 439
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the kink in the chain is that everyone knew but, Deron. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 412
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the real kink is |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 414
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lmao... |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 419
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lol@ you knowing my feelings on this issue |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 428
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This post is the "Aight.......bet" of the year. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 415
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dammit...late on the count...lol. |
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Jul 01st 2015 | 421
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Some you are really stuck in the Victorian age. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 426
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And some of u are stuck up your own asses, but to each their own |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 427
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Kind of feels good, though. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 429
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RE: Some you are really stuck in the Victorian age. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 430
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Awaiting post from DEMONTAVIUS |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 440
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Deron has to decide if he's cool with a lying & deceitful fiancee |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 443
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I smashed a couple of my female friends back in the day |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 444
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Ya'll know you've been introduced to an Ex's new SO |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 445
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dude is looking at the wall of photos like the cop in usual suspects |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 447
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LMAO. Those wink smileys she put in her texts have new meaning now |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 450
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"i told you that you would like Rico, hes cool... like a big brother" |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 469
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this post is pissing me off. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 446
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Why, fam? Keep it a hunnit. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 |
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Why, fam? Keep it a hunnit. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 456
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Crazy how folks are in here e-shaming Deron for having feelings |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 448
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Men can't have emotions; shouldn't mind his fiancee's lies of omission |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 449
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he should marry a virgin. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 464
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So many pleas copped for Jessica in here, yall THAT committed to GW? |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 451
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This post needs Memes |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 452
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bruh, lol. yall niggas TRIPPIN |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 453
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who woulda thought the plot to the best man would get so many replies |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 454
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like we didn't see the movie |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 459
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She should ve told him |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 455
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Ladies get money & ignore these types of insecurity temper tantrums. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 465
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smh.. this isnt about being a virgin |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 467
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it's also not about casual sex with no strings being some sort of |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 468
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they cam be friends... just let me know so I can decide if im cool with ... |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 470
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are lies of omission not lies? Is honesty not expected in relationships?... |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 471
|
which goes back to my point |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 473
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this is about everyone BUT Deron knowing... period |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 480
|
k |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 481
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Jess & Rico good at keepin quiet so we don't know whats gone on lately |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 488
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isit wasnt a big deal so i didnt tell you |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 494
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Why would your lover/SO/fiancee ever want you out there like that? |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 500
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out there like how? |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 504
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They didn't "go about they biz", they still chill together heavy |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 510
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well, a lot of people on here struggle with relationships |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 506
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RE: smh.. this isnt about being a virgin |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 474
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not exes. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 475
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This is about his fragile ego being caught off-guard |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 476
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that's really what it is |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 479
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well, yeah... i mean, we have egos and feelings and shit. wtf? |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 485
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Like, why wouldn't she consider & value his emotions/ego? |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 497
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he is a man, he doesnt have feelings. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 502
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yup Rico had sex w/Jessica eight years ago |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 499
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you're probably closer to right but you never know. |
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Jul 06th 2015 | 560
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it's not wrong, it's your issue and yours alone. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 505
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no. its their issue now. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 515
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if you know you don't throw the dick well |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 478
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R-tistic, I'ma start calling you Tyler Perry |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 472
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Tyler Petty |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 477
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The language in here is so tellling |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 482
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EVERYONE KNEW BUT DERON |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 484
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but sitting across from a dude that used to stick someone you love |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 490
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that po baby! |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 491
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Wait til he finds out what she did at Mardi Gras |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 492
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well, if it wasnt intimate it doesnt count. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 495
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True |
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Jul 03rd 2015 | 545
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Wait til he finds out what she did at Mardi Gras |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 493
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if she were keeping it quiet he never would have met Rico. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 508
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no. women can have friends who they had casual sex with.. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 517
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So she should have to relive a forgettable experience |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 521
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Well, reliving it is part of the risk when you keep Rico and his friends... |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 524
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Clearly you think she's ashamed of it. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 534
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Her new man/fiancee would be left in the dark about Rico, too |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 535
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She certainly isnt proud of it... lol |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 536
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Truth is only she and Rico know how forgettable or not it was |
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Jul 03rd 2015 | 544
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pretty sure Deron knew she wasnt a virgin |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 487
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RE: The language in here is so tellling |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 496
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Oh yeah loyalty..too many gangster movies |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 503
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HELLO. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 507
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RE: HELLO. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 511
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uh huh. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 516
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RE: Oh yeah loyalty..too many gangster movies |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 509
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GENDER WARZ *clang clang* |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 512
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RE: GENDER WARZ *clang clang* |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 514
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and Rico's dick might be more pleasing to her than Deron's!! |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 518
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RE: and Rico's dick might be more pleasing to her than Deron's!! |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 520
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Yes, it is about her lying about having sex with another dude |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 513
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I can't believe yall are still saying this. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 523
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^^^^this |
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Jul 03rd 2015 | 550
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'The Whole Town's Laughing at Me', Teddy P. |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 486
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Who Has The Last Laugh Now - Bloodstone |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 501
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*conviently ignores what you say to push own agenda* |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 489
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*attempts meta-witty recap of 500+ reply post* |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 522
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=/ |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 526
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"Men don't have platonic friends, just women we haven't fucked yet..." |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 525
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until told otherwise, and even then I'm like ....yeah aight |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 527
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just continue to date her, dont marry her |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 528
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Amen brother |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 530
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Watch Deron break off the engagement & she turn around and marry Rico |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 531
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^all signs point to... |
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Jul 03rd 2015 | 546
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if he's letting go, he aint worried about who she ends up with |
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Jul 03rd 2015 | 548
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he should find an old fuck buddy-- |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 532
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That would be petty and immature |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 537
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LOL-- |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 541
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So my man is supposedly besties with one of his exe girlfriends |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 533
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LOL-- |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 538
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Bakin ass Brittney |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 540
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Wife is supposed to be happy he has a friend who is thoughtful |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 539
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Mine you the ex is married as well. That husband would be wrong... |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 542
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yea thats extra |
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Jul 02nd 2015 | 543
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Doing way too much |
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Jul 03rd 2015 | 549
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Ex sending cakez n shit?....NAW SUN! Log dat unda "WishA'MuhfukkaWOULD"... |
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Jul 03rd 2015 | 551
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gotta fuck that hoe up. |
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Jul 04th 2015 | 554
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What happened to the secure folks in a relationship? |
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Jul 03rd 2015 | 552
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Teling him about fuck buddy #14 isn't the same as telling him |
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Jul 05th 2015 | 556
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too many people are stuck on agendas to see this fairly |
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Jul 06th 2015 | 558
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Jessica is wrong for hiding the truth, not for sexing Rico |
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Jul 06th 2015 | 561
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This only bothers men with small egos |
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Jul 07th 2015 | 562
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