from a conversation I had recently:

a friend dated a dude for 6 months, nothing was official as in no discussion or agreement about being official. they hung out once or twice a week if that. she is busy, he was busy, eventually it just faded away because they got too busy to fit dating into the big picture. she was fine with the fade away but it brought up a good question,


Should you make an official break if there never was anything official to begin with or do you just bust out the fade away ?

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There's no such thing as "too busy" for more than a week, tops, for someone you dig.

and it's despicable.

only reserved for the most cowardly of people.

people you have been communicating with deserve at least a 'goodbye, talk to you never'

especially if yall hugging and fucking.

if the understanding is neither party cares about the end result, that's rare and it must be an extremely casual on and off thing

but if one person clearly has more to lose than the other, a dissolution talk is the right way to go about things

so I'd say it's all good.

I just learned the term ghosting yesterday. It's so stupid:

http://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/26/fashion/exes-explain-ghosting-the-ultimate-silent-treatment.html?_r=0

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