legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79554 posts
Tue Jun-30-15 11:18 AM
"i met a virgin this weekend. They still make those?"
never had a boyfriend, went to college and everything and claims she isn't gay.
not even sure how the conversation ended up there but the way she was talking about dating I had to ask.
no one has cracked the safe?
wow, had to give her rap. I also called her a dinasour. I have no chill.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
MrThomas43423 Member since Jul 03rd 2002 67613 posts
Tue Jun-30-15 11:28 AM
1. "i know one of those. 29. super religious. very light-skinned." In response to Reply # 0
so she thinks she's super bad, and only likes Shemar Moore looking niggas. which is cool, that's her prerogative. but she's....riding the dating short bus at this age. she needs a nice Christian guy and should be able to find one, but she's so scared of male/female relationships its kinda sad. she won't put herself in positions to even let something happen. someone can invite her somewhere and she'll cancel at the last minute to go and do something with her girlfriends, forgetting when they get dudes....they leave her ghost.
she was a former co-worker and a good person and i'd like to help her out. but...its a no/win situation when people are scared to not only have sex, but to even date. and that's what happens the longer it takes. it's actually a tragic tale. --------------------------------------- it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79554 posts
Tue Jun-30-15 11:40 AM
2. "I think I was happier than she was when she told me" In response to Reply # 1
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79554 posts
Tue Jun-30-15 11:45 AM
4. "I'm off the market and I told her the same thing" In response to Reply # 3
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79554 posts
Tue Jun-30-15 12:10 PM
6. "yup, plus she said she hasn't connected with anyone yet" In response to Reply # 5 Tue Jun-30-15 12:11 PM by legsdiamond
she is cute, a little shy but also a little robotic
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79554 posts
Tue Jun-30-15 01:38 PM
11. "nope, she looks good. " In response to Reply # 10
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
12. "I work with one whos in her 40's. Shes a Scientist, very attractive, soc..." In response to Reply # 0
very religious, doesn't appear to be shy at all. I was actually surprised when I found out about it. I know dudes try to holla at her all the time but she's avoided it all this time. I cant imagine
13. "yep theres more around than you know" In response to Reply # 0 Tue Jun-30-15 01:58 PM by lfresh
i was one until 31 a good friend until he was 27
no religious
just not here for the bullshit
most people are desperate it shows in their marriages sex and dating and some just aren't pressed like at all ~~~~ When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries. ~~~~ You cannot hate people for their own good.
dude I work with was shocked when I told him it'd been two months since I last got laid (when in reality it'd been five, and nearly a year since actual good sex) but, I'm just not pressed to get it in like that. I went three years without seeing anyone, then had a girlfriend for a summer and fucked at least once if not two or three times a day, then had a fling with a childhood friend after that ended that was way more stimulating intellectual than sexually, and now I'm back to square one.
It doesn't bother me at all but some people think it should. Sex has just never been that major a priority to me; it's fun and feels great, but I can masturbate and ultimately I get a lot more entertainment out of hanging out in bars and playing video games.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79554 posts
Tue Jun-30-15 02:46 PM
17. "different strokes? sounds more like no strokes to me" In response to Reply # 16
sorry, too easy.
and video games more entertaining then fucking? FOH
sex doesn't take that long. y'all make it sound like it's one of the other.
just say you ain't found some ass cuz that shit sounded depressing.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
~~~~ When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries. ~~~~ You cannot hate people for their own good.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
Not in that soulmate type of way More in that he's not crazy and I'm not going to regret this in anyway shape or form type deal
>did it live up to the hype?
?
>this shit is wild.
*shrugs* ~~~~ When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries. ~~~~ You cannot hate people for their own good.
22. "That's where I am with it...." In response to Reply # 13
>i was one until 31 >a good friend until he was 27 > >no religious > >just not here for the bullshit > >most people are desperate it shows in their marriages sex and >dating >and some just aren't pressed >like at all >~~~~
It's not that I don't want to.....it's just that I'm not that pressed. I'd rather wait for someone who I really connect with instead of someone that doesn't matter to me. And I'm not even waiting for marriage.
15. "Yeah, they are made" In response to Reply # 0
Briefly talked to one. She told me about her virgin status and explained where she stood about it. I told her that I respected her beliefs, but I don't do the dry humping thing should I date a virgin. Needless to say, she CMTTG and moved on.
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