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we put all our food, household wares, and other shared expenses (restaurants, movies, etc) on the shared credit card and we each pay half. It works cause we both make ~the same annually for now. For the non-credit card bills, rent, utilities, etc, i pay those and she transfers me her half. I begged her to let me cover more cause I make a little bit more, but she has always had a "we're in this together. we share the bills" mentality, so it works better for us this way.
Sometimes when she's not noticing, I pay for nights out on my own credit card, but thats harmless. It makes me feel better. I bet she does the same.
Even when we were dating she was very hesitant to let me play Mr. Chivalry. She always liked sharing expenses.
It works for us. If/when we get married, I would be surprised if we opened a joint chequing account for mortgage and whatnot, but it seems to work this way and we each have our privacy. So not sure in the modern age that that's even necessary. ********************************************************************
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